Beauty discussion.

[IamFogHat]

So I want this to be an open, honest discussion for us boys and girls alike, talking about what men are attracted to and how women feel about it. (and this can and I hope will go in a thousand different directions).

I'll start by saying recently I've been fighting all my life against the concept of a 'type', which I just found ridiculous. And as a boy, I am attracted to such a wide myriad of women that I feel it definitely supports that. But I've also found that as I get older and looking back and looking at what I find appealing in a 'mate' take that for what you want, is I love 'adorable women.' Like, I'm super turned on by traditionally 'hot' women fine enough, but for me a girl I actually want to be with I'm finding I like adorable featured girls.

Does that make any sense at all to you? And if not it's fine, but I'm just interested in what we are all after.

Ok, go, maybe some of you can help me explain my point or posit your preferences, whatever, go for it.

Oh and also ladies chime in, I changed my original post title to beauty discussion, which I don't like even, cause I even find that limiting, but I just didn't want to limit it to what guys are into.

Ok go.

[keithy_19]

I like the kind with working parts.

[IamFogHat]

I like the kind with working parts.

You're gross.

[PapaBear]

He's saying he wants a chick with a job.

[IamFogHat]

He's saying he wants a chick with a job.

Thanks for adding to the serious discussion I was trying to invoke Mr. Mod man...

[PapaBear]

Thanks for adding to the serious discussion I was trying to invoke Mr. Mod man...
Glad I could clear it up for you.:happy:

[keithy_19]

He's saying he wants a chick with a job.

:huh:

[keithy_19]

Thanks for adding to the serious discussion I was trying to invoke Mr. Mod man...

To bring it back to the seriousness, I don't have a type.

I'm glad I could be of help.

[IamFogHat]

To bring it back to the seriousness, I don't have a type.

I'm glad I could be of help.

Thanks for adding.

[keithy_19]

Thanks for adding.

I tried.

[IamFogHat]

I tried.

No you didn't. But now you can. Come on little budday, tell us about you're past experiences, how deep into the human vast have you delved?

[jennysmurf]

I was wondering the other night about all the pictures of naked women available everywhere. Does it set you guys up for disappointment when you see a "real" woman? For example, years ago, before TV and such (you know when DS was a teenager) most men never saw a naked woman except for their wife. Some did, of course, but the average guy had very little idea of what was under a woman's bussle. You guys can see perfect women anytime you want, does it affect how you feel about real women?

[PapaBear]

In all seriousness, I totally identify with the "adorable" thing. But this is basically summed up with the whole Ginger/Marry Ann debate.

[keithy_19]

No you didn't. But now you can. Come on little budday, tell us about you're past experiences, how deep into the human vast have you delved?

About wrist deep.

But you know what, I understand your preference. A hot girl is awesome to go to bed with, but it's nice to wake up next to an adorable girl. It's nice to go for a walk with an adorable girl. There's more personality involved with an adorable girl. That's what makes them adorable.

[Crispy123]

my last girl was greek. At the moment I am feeling a bit of an asian persuasion.

[keithy_19]

I was wondering the other night about all the pictures of naked women available everywhere. Does it set you guys up for disappointment when you see a "real" woman? For example, years ago, before TV and such (you know when DS was a teenager) most men never saw a naked woman except for their wife. Some did, of course, but the average guy had very little idea of what was under a woman's bussle. You guys can see perfect women anytime you want, does it affect how you feel about real women?

"Perfect". I've only seen one naked woman who I considered perfect and I happened to be in love with her. Now I don't believe in love.

Another shot everyone?

[IamFogHat]

I was wondering the other night about all the pictures of naked women available everywhere. Does it set you guys up for disappointment when you see a "real" woman? For example, years ago, before TV and such (you know when DS was a teenager) most men never saw a naked woman except for their wife. Some did, of course, but the average guy had very little idea of what was under a woman's bussle. You guys can see perfect women anytime you want, does it affect how you feel about real women?

I'm only speaking for me, but in my opinion, we don't actually give a shit about "hollywood beauty" or "model beauty". I mean it's great to look at now that the internet exists but in the end who really gives a shit? I don't think you'll find a guy under 18 nowadays who doesn't understand the difference between airbrushed bullshit and real life beauty. I can give you a million examples, and I honestly do believe the modern media has destroyed women's perception of what men find attractive.

[PapaBear]

my last girl was greek. At the moment I am feeling a bit of an asian persuasion.
My second wife was an adorable, short, half Greek.

[Crispy123]

My second wife was an adorable, short, half Greek.

god bless em.

[keithy_19]

god bless em.

Diners keep this country afloat.

[IamFogHat]

I hate you guys
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_GHx6ZSXv6YQ/Rh1IfY42hBI/AAAAAAAAAJo/jAfLGHnJ5lg/s320/200px-Cartman_opened_mouth.jpg

[deliciousV]

the few really hot girls I was with I found to be boring, they were self centered out of bed, and acted like they were doing you a favor in the bed. My wife was way too hot for me when I met her, and in my opinion remains so, but is far from boring, everywhere.

[jennysmurf]

I hate you guys
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_GHx6ZSXv6YQ/Rh1IfY42hBI/AAAAAAAAAJo/jAfLGHnJ5lg/s320/200px-Cartman_opened_mouth.jpg

This made me laugh so much.:laugh:

[keithy_19]

the few really hot girls I was with I found to be boring, they were self centered out of bed, and acted like they were doing you a favor in the bed. My wife was way too hot for me when I met her, and in my opinion remains so, but is far from boring, everywhere.

And the fact that she is far from boring makes her even hotter, right?

[deliciousV]

And the fact that she is far from boring makes her even hotter, right?

exactly, find a chick who's fun and laughs a lot at the stuff you do and say, you'll be a happy man. It doesn't hurt if you always feel like she might be a little out of your league, it helps make you try harder, which is rewarding in itself.

[IamFogHat]

And the fact that she is far from boring makes her even hotter, right?

exactly, find a chick who's fun and laughs a lot at the stuff you do and say, you'll be a happy man. It doesn't hurt if you always feel like she might be a little out of your league, it helps make you try harder, which is rewarding in itself.

Yes, yes, yes, why on christ earth poop would you ever want to hang out with a girl you don't find funny and smart and engaging?

[keithy_19]

exactly, find a chick who's fun and laughs a lot at the stuff you do and say, you'll be a happy man. It doesn't hurt if you always feel like she might be a little out of your league, it helps make you try harder, which is rewarding in itself.

I just dealt with that. She's seeing a complete dickhead now and I'm drunk.

[keithy_19]

Yes, yes, yes, why on christ earth poop would you ever want to hang out with a girl you don't find funny and smart and engaging?

She's hot?

[jennysmurf]

She's hot?

See? :wallbash:

[StanUpshaw]

I was wondering the other night about all the pictures of naked women available everywhere. Does it set you guys up for disappointment when you see a "real" woman? For example, years ago, before TV and such (you know when DS was a teenager) most men never saw a naked woman except for their wife. Some did, of course, but the average guy had very little idea of what was under a woman's bussle. You guys can see perfect women anytime you want, does it affect how you feel about real women?

You know on TV when they do those plastic surgery consultations and they draw all over your floppy parts with a sharpie?

Something pretty similar to that is going through my head, but I never say anything because I'm a classy guy.

[deliciousV]

I just dealt with that. She's seeing a complete dickhead now and I'm drunk.

And mine's still here 29 yrs later, who can predict what a woman will do?

[keithy_19]

See? :wallbash:

I was just saying that to be witty.

[keithy_19]

And mine's still here 29 yrs later, who can predict what a woman will do?

True. I'm young and all that, yet feel older than I am as of late. Whatever.

[deliciousV]

True. I'm young and all that, yet feel older than I am as of late. Whatever.

I feel for you, that blows.

[keithy_19]

I feel for you, that blows.

Eh. What ya gonna do. Thanks though.

It's frustrating. It's been a rough year, but it's not unexpected. I was feeling better for about a month and then sucky again. Just in time for me to go away for memorial day weekend.

I'm going to completely use my limp to get laid.

[jennysmurf]

Eh. What ya gonna do. Thanks though.

It's frustrating. It's been a rough year, but it's not unexpected. I was feeling better for about a month and then sucky again. Just in time for me to go away for memorial day weekend.

I'm going to completely use my limp to get laid.

I'd do you.:wub:

[IamFogHat]

True. I'm young and all that, yet feel older than I am as of late. Whatever.

I don't want to destroy your bubble and such, but I felt that way too, and then, well here I am at 27 with no real answers.

But then again everyone is different. Hell I might actually meet Jenny some day.

[deliciousV]

I don't want to destroy your bubble and such, but I felt that way too, and then, well here I am at 27 with no real answers.

But then again everyone is different. Hell I might actually meet Jenny some day.

I hope one of you do, I think she's a goer:thumbup:

[jennysmurf]

I hope one of you do, I think she's a goer:thumbup:

:laugh: You know it budday! Woooooooo!!!

[keithy_19]

I'd do you.:wub:

:wub:

[deliciousV]

you sadsack fuckers are a plane ticket away from heaven, stop whining and start pawning shit.

[keithy_19]

I don't want to destroy your bubble and such, but I felt that way too, and then, well here I am at 27 with no real answers.

But then again everyone is different. Hell I might actually meet Jenny some day.

Yeah, but hey, you're still young. I have 3 brothers, the one got married when he was 26 and is divcored, the other got a married a year ago at 31, and the other has been living with his gf for about a year and he's 28. Age is just a number. I know things have been rough for as of late, but you'll come out on the other end better.

And how lucky would we all be to meet Jenny? I bet PB meets her first and ruins it for the rest of us.

[IamFogHat]

Yeah, but hey, you're still young. I have 3 brothers, the one got married when he was 26 and is divcored, the other got a married a year ago at 31, and the other has been living with his gf for about a year and he's 28. Age is just a number. I know things have been rough for as of late, but you'll come out on the other end better.

And how lucky would we all be to meet Jenny? I bet PB meets her first and ruins it for the rest of us.

Shut uuuup that's what I mean, I want to meet her first!!!

[jennysmurf]

You guys would be so disappointed. Pretend relationships over the internet are much better.

[deliciousV]

Shut uuuup that's what I mean, I want to meet her first!!!

she laughs at your obvious insanity, and she seems fine with your oddly specific homo-erotic side, that's gotta mean something.

[NickyL0885]

Well, I will speak as a guy who has a girlfriend(feels weird to say). I find her beautiful, funny, smart, out going. I love that she has goals. Nothing is dull with her. We have a great time. Funny thing is, she is not fat like me. She is average. Even before her and I met, I had to make sure she was ok with me being a bigger person. Obviously, she is since come next Friday, we will have been official for a month. :happy:

In high school, I always wanted the hot, thin girl. As I got older, I lowered my standards and met some awesome girls, some as big as me. They had great personalities, were attractive, etc. They never worked out of course. But then I met the girl I am with now, and I've never been happier. I honestly can see my self with her for the rest of my life.

The one thing I really love about a girl? If she is a sports fan. That's a big turn on for me. She doesn't have to like my teams, as my g/f likes the Yankees and Giants. But I love if the person would sit and watch a game with me. Maybe argue over certain aspects. My girl teases me about how bad my teams suck. And ya know what? I love that she does that.

[Misteriosa]

I'm only speaking for me, but in my opinion, we don't actually give a shit about "hollywood beauty" or "model beauty". I mean it's great to look at now that the internet exists but in the end who really gives a shit? I don't think you'll find a guy under 18 nowadays who doesn't understand the difference between airbrushed bullshit and real life beauty. I can give you a million examples, and I honestly do believe the modern media has destroyed women's perception of what men find attractive.

heh, then you never met my ex. he would compare me to the airbrushed and photoshopped "honeys" in the maxim or fhm magazines and with a dead straight face of disgust would ask me "why cant you look like this?" and then proceed to rag on whatever he felt was "wrong" with me that day.

obviously, my viewpoints on this subject may be a bit biased. :dry:

[jennysmurf]

heh, then you never met my ex. he would compare me to the airbrushed and photoshopped "honeys" in the maxim or fhm magazines and with a dead straight face of disgust would ask me "why cant you look like this?" and then proceed to rag on whatever he felt was "wrong" with me that day.

obviously, my viewpoints on this subject may be a bit biased. :dry:

Nope, I don't think you're biased at all. This has always been experience--you know like StanUpshaw's post a few above this one.:dry:

[StanUpshaw]

Nope, I don't think you're biased at all. This has always been experience--you know like StanUpshaw's post a few above this one.:dry:

Like I said, even though I would identify all your faults, I wouldn't point them out. I'm a gentleman.

[Misteriosa]

http://cdn.slacktory.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/2-of-10-would-not-bang-5.jpg

:dry:

[A.J.]

heh, then you never met my ex. he would compare me to the airbrushed and photoshopped "honeys" in the maxim or fhm magazines and with a dead straight face of disgust would ask me "why cant you look like this?" and then proceed to rag on whatever he felt was "wrong" with me that day.

You should have dropped his ungrateful, unappreciative ass the second he said that.

And then tell him he had a small dick.

[CountryBob]

Talking about physical beauty -
1. I look at a woman's smile first. If she has a good smile and nice teeth - Im in, but if she dont, Im out. (this IS a deal killer).
2. I love, love, love a nice ass!
3. Good sized boobs are nice but not a requirement - I love em all even no boobies.
4. I enjoy a full figured woman more but like an atheletic build too.

Now, if the chick looks good to the eye but is a bitch, baby or cunt - I dont care how nice she looks, I can't stand being areound her. And the opposite occurs as well. If the chick has an awesome personality, thats what Im attracted to most.

[keithy_19]

Now, if the chick looks good to the eye but is a bitch, baby or cunt - I dont care how nice she looks, I can't stand being areound her. And the opposite occurs as well. If the chick has an awesome personality, thats what Im attracted to most.

I read this as "but has a baby cunt" and I was incredibly confused.

[CountryBob]

I read this as "but has a baby cunt" and I was incredibly confused.


Haha - damn son get your mind outta the gutter!

[deliciousV]

Haha - damn son get your mind outta the gutter!


"Cunt" doesn't belong in the gutter, so I don't believe his mind was in one.

[IamFogHat]

You should have dropped his ungrateful, unappreciative ass the second he said that.

And then tell him he had a small dick.

This, what an asshole.:blink:

[hanso]

Talking about physical beauty -
1. I look at a woman's smile first. If she has a good smile and nice teeth - Im in, but if she dont, Im out. (this IS a deal killer).
2. I love, love, love a nice ass!
3. Good sized boobs are nice but not a requirement - I love em all even no boobies.
4. I enjoy a full figured woman more but like an atheletic build too.

Now, if the chick looks good to the eye but is a bitch, baby or cunt - I dont care how nice she looks, I can't stand being areound her. And the opposite occurs as well. If the chick has an awesome personality, thats what Im attracted to most.

And if she puts out moves her up a few notches.

[jennysmurf]

And if she puts out moves her up a few notches.

Yeah, I think that cancels out all the "must-haves" for him.:wink: