What am I missing?

[Mafialife Chris]

Besides a few screws loose, a sense of humor, the ability to be funny?

Okay don't answer that. I truly need your help.

Is there something that this guy is doing that's funny, and I am just taking it all to heart wrong, and missing?

Should I just laugh these things off?

or am I right that this man has totally crossed the line, is a psycopath, and do something about it. Or just move the fuck on?

I mean, my fucking unborn kid man. This pregnancy means more to me in life then anything, and this guy decides to try to use this to get airtime?

I mean, do i deserve this now because of the shameless plugs I have done, and/or the domain name fight on air?

I can hardly listen to the show anymore due to working multiple jobs and finally growing the fuck up. trying to make sure my family and son have everything they need.

The only show closeness I can get nowadays is the occasional comments to my twitter, and/or the participation in the search search hurry up and search game.

I am afraid when she goes to the store by herself down the block now, because this guys a lunatic and lives in my neighborhood.

What the fuck do i do?

What am I missing?

Please take a few mins to read my heartfelt angry novel and tell it to me straight.

www.mafialifeblog.com

[~Katja~]

if you don't want the exposure, don't post it all over the internet. If Fred calls in, don't respond to it and don't feed into it by writing long blogs and posts, he has you dancing by his strings.

Most of all, why bring it here?

[Mafialife Chris]

if you don't want the exposure, don't post it all over the internet. If Fred calls in, don't respond to it and don't feed into it by writing long blogs and posts, he has you dancing by his strings.

Most of all, why bring it here?

It's on all 3 boards, because I do want it exposed. I want to hear it from every single friend and foe alike, if I am missing a joke, or if I am right to be worried when my girl walks to the store.

I am hoping for some true advise on this on the forums from people who know me, and I am also hoping to expose him as even more of the douche he has been exposed for in the past.

Making a big deal about it, in hopes that he stops before it gets out of hand.

Look, I don't really know what to do, but this is a start to me. Exposing it all, and getting the advice of those who like me, and also don't like me. Only thing I can think of. Sorry.

[red_red_red]

It's on all 3 boards, because I do want it exposed. I want to hear it from every single friend and foe alike, if I am missing a joke, or if I am right to be worried when my girl walks to the store.

I am hoping for some true advise on this on the forums from people who know me, and I am also hoping to expose him as even more of the douche he has been exposed for in the past.

Making a big deal about it, in hopes that he stops before it gets out of hand.

Look, I don't really know what to do, but this is a start to me. Exposing it all, and getting the advice of those who like me, and also don't like me. Only thing I can think of. Sorry.
Why don't you guys work it out privately, over beers and cigars? Like gentlemen do. Or do you need traffic on your blog?

[Hottub]

Why post all of your life's drama on the boards? It is only bringing more attention to the situation.
You are worried? keep your shit private.
Lay low for a while. Posting on the boards and calling into the show are only fanning the flames. You of all people should know this by now, Chris.
I am not taking shots at you here, this is my genuine advice to you.
Take it or leave it, but I feel this is your best solution.

[~Katja~]

It's on all 3 boards, because I do want it exposed. I want to hear it from every single friend and foe alike, if I am missing a joke, or if I am right to be worried when my girl walks to the store.

I am hoping for some true advise on this on the forums from people who know me, and I am also hoping to expose him as even more of the douche he has been exposed for in the past.

Making a big deal about it, in hopes that he stops before it gets out of hand.

Look, I don't really know what to do, but this is a start to me. Exposing it all, and getting the advice of those who like me, and also don't like me. Only thing I can think of. Sorry.


Look, most people shut the radio off when you and Fred call in and fight, and usually people don't read past 2 paragraphs... to be honest I wasn't even sure what the hell you were talking about when I started reading this... if you want it "exposed" then why write around it?
Say it straight out, what is happening and what exactly you fear and why. If you have legitimate reason to worry, there are people that help you with protecting yourself and your loved ones, you can find them at any court or police station.

[Mafialife Chris]

Why don't you guys work it out privately, over beers and cigars? Like gentlemen do. Or do you need traffic on your blog?

This is way past that. I get enough traffic to my websites, and I am never scared to say when its all a plug to get traffic.

This is an issue that I am puposely drawing attention to in hopes it explodes in his face, and he learns a lesson before it gets out of hand.

I am not wrong here. This is family!! He needs to be told what he is doing is 100% wrong, and comes with a price.

The whole ' yuo put yourself out there' fucking bullshit dont fly with me. Because its the individual who decides to use that info for bad or good. I'm not going to stop being a blogger, or calling into my favorite show because of someone elses issues.

Yeah, your right. I'll call the cops. Once I expose this fucker for what he truly is. If I am beat up while doing so, so be it!

[red_red_red]

This is way past that. I get enough traffic to my websites, and I am never scared to say when its all a plug to get traffic.

This is an issue that I am puposely drawing attention to in hopes it explodes in his face, and he learns a lesson before it gets out of hand.

I am not wrong here. This is family!! He needs to be told what he is doing is 100% wrong, and comes with a price.

The whole ' yuo put yourself out there' fucking bullshit dont fly with me. Because its the individual who decides to use that info for bad or good. I'm not going to stop being a blogger, or calling into my favorite show because of someone elses issues.

Yeah, your right. I'll call the cops. Once I expose this fucker for what he truly is. If I am beat up while doing so, so be it!
You need to chill out, take a break from the internet. You and i have never had issues, we still don't. However, it's time to focus on your private life, the baby and your girl. She doesn't need this crap while pregnant.

Take a deep breath and reevaluate your priorities and quit taking FFB seriously. He is meant to be taken with a grain of salt. i cannot debate this with you anymore b/c it's giving me a headache.

i do look forward to baby pics :smile: happy gestating to the both of you.

[Mafialife Chris]

You need to chill out, take a break from the internet. You and i have never had issues, we still don't. However, it's time to focus on your private life, the baby and your girl. She doesn't need this crap while pregnant.

I WORK on the internet. I make money blogging. I am not going off the internet anytime soon. And I don't mean this audience, although the show always helps me push my stuff. I have other audiences and social networks that I am on also that he infultrated with his attacks on my son. I agree, we don't need this. That's why people should encourage him to stop, immediately with the baby stuff, and personal family shit. Before it gets too late.

Take a deep breath and reevaluate your priorities and quit taking FFB seriously. He is meant to be taken with a grain of salt. i cannot debate this with you anymore b/c it's giving me a headache.

Honestly, that is the behaviot or line of thinking that enables him to continue. This is what he wants everyoen to think. Perhaps if a few of his audience told him he went too far and spoke out against it, he may realize it went too far. You do NOT take attacks on family with a grain of salt. EVER. Not in my book.

Take an aspirin!! :)

[B][COLOR=Red]i do look forward to baby pics :smile: happy gestating to the both of you.


Thanks. I would love to do a baby blog, but this all bums me out.

[Tall_James]

I think you guys need to fuck in order to release all of this sexual tension between the two of you.

[Melk]

This is way past that.

Then why ask us for our opinion, Chris? If this is beyond a discussion between gentlemen, you don't have to ask us what you are missing.

Your announcement about your girlfriend being pregnant shocked the hell out of Fred. He took offense. He claims that you were a friend and, in his mind, that requires being informed of your girlfriend's pregnancy privately and not through The Ron and Fez Show. I don't necessarily agree with Fred, but that is how Fred reacted to it.

You buy (possibly cybersquat) fredfrombrooklyn.com. You "give" it to him "on the house" then suddenly give him a bill. And when you discussed the topic on the air you did a really poor job justifying the extra expenses. I understood, but I already understand what goes into buying a domain name and Internet hosting.

Is Fred justified in his response? Probably not.

But I would recommend being a man and talking with him as red_red_red recommended. If you still think this problem is beyond a man to man conversation, you have your answer: You have alienated someone who thought you were his friend and he overreacted. It is not that complicated.

[underdog]

I think you guys need to fuck in order to release all of this sexual tension between the two of you.

Mind the forum.

Sorry, just practicing.

[west milly Tom]

Super duper meh.

[JPMNICK]

if you feel that threatened, get the cops involved.

it does not sound like a bit when fred talks about it, but like Katja said I usually turn off the show because it might be the most boring radio ever. I can't imagine there are any fans out there that care even slightly about your 2 personal lives and your fights.

[Furtherman]

I can't imagine there are any fans out there that care even slightly about your 2 personal lives and your fights.

This is true. Nothing personal, but I didn't even know about the troubles before and I won't be thinking about them after. This isn't something to bring to a messageboard. Check your ego and focus on your girlfriend.

[MisterSmith]

if you don't want the exposure, don't post it all over the internet. If Fred calls in, don't respond to it and don't feed into it by writing long blogs and posts, he has you dancing by his strings.

Most of all, why bring it here?

if you feel that threatened, get the cops involved.

it does not sound like a bit when fred talks about it, but like Katja said I usually turn off the show because it might be the most boring radio ever. I can't imagine there are any fans out there that care even slightly about your 2 personal lives and your fights.

This is true. Nothing personal, but I didn't even know about the troubles before and I won't be thinking about them after. This isn't something to bring to a messageboard. Check your ego and focus on your girlfriend.

I think these three posts pretty much cover it. Keep your private stuff off the boards; if FFB is a legitimate threat then contact the police; and most of us aren't really involved in this personally.

You are calling for "Fred's Fans" to get involved and tell him to stop, but there really aren't any here. In fact, many of us dislike him greatly and flip channels when either of you guys are on the show (and that isn't meant as a personal shot).

Unless there are legitimate legal complaints, threats, or stalking attempts it is pretty easy to ignore Fred - don't go to his site. Unless the tens of people that listen to his drivel are absolute head cases and follow his every whim, but that also brings up the "call the cops" scenario.

[lleeder]

I'm very confused. Was this brought up on the show yesterday and I missed it?

I don't think honestly that many of us have thought about you or him since your last appearance on the show even then we barely did.

To answer your question I don't think you deserve an over abundance of the shit you get to start with. Then when you start threads like this it becomes very much deserved. If you wanted to be left alone its very easy to keep your family life out of the spotlight. I personally feel talking about babies to be boring and a waste of the shows time.

[TripleSkeet]

Im at work and cant listen to the show right now. Can someone explain to me what this thread is even about? Cliffnotes please.

[disneyspy]

Im at work and cant listen to the show right now. Can someone explain to me what this thread is even about? Cliffnotes please.

someone said they dont want their private stuff public

people said"hey your postin your private stuff on the internet"

[lleeder]

Im at work and cant listen to the show right now. Can someone explain to me what this thread is even about? Cliffnotes please.

Im listening to the show and I don't know what its about either.

[instrument]

What a lot of you seem to fail at grasping is that the fans of the show expext the guests to be FUNNY.

You are only funny by being the joke, same with zman, fred, franklyn, etc.

Nobody cares about you and freds argument, why? Neither of you are funny.

Or interesting.

Just keep your "argument" online and don't bore the listening audience with it.

[happytypinggirl]

its not on the air. i think you can get your answers looking at their twitters.

[underdog]

its not on the air. i think you can get your answers looking at their twitters.

Then he should make this post on his twitter so I can continue to ignore it.

[Mafialife Chris]

Ok guys/gals,

Thanks for the straight shooting. I think I got the hint.

I know exposing it got attention, but I was hoping that attention made more realize what a bad person he is.

I never think before I do things. I was super angry, and this is how I handled it. Being a blogger and all.

You are definately right. I probably just need a break from this drama. Because it has begun effecting me. I am really deeply angry at what he is doing, and he is inflicting fear into the pregnancy.

I should have just called the cops. Calling Fred to work it out like gentleman is not an option. He cannot be a gentleman.

Sorry I bored you with my drama. I just wanted people to know that he was doing what he normally does again, and fucking with my family life.

Peace.

[JPMNICK]

I honestly think this all comes down to some folks who interact with the show and ron personally really believe that other listeners care about what they do. I know there are a handful of people who live and die with the 202 community, paying attention to every post, tweet, paltalk going on or whatever. the other majority of the fans losely pay attention to these story lines only when they are brought up on the show. No one really gives a shit, honestly. I consider myself a HUGE fan of the show, have been on .net for a long time, know people from this board off the board, and I still do not care even the slightest.

This all comes down to no one really caring about what is going on with the these peripheral players. if every one of them never called again, a whole new crop would pop up and we would learn their stories. then there would be drama, someones feelings would get hurt, and they would leave.

it sucks for Chris that it is getting personal, but by letting yourself always be on the air and talking about personal things, that is what is going to happen. I have no clue what goes on behind the scenes, nor do I really care. In the end, Fred is just saying words. The guy is a dad, husband, and business man. I doubt he would really do anything physical. I doubt he wants to end up in jail and getting sued for some dumb shit like a domain name or whatever the hell you guys are fighting about now.

[lleeder]

Then he should make this post on his twitter so I can continue to ignore it.

What if he made it into a twit-eo?

[underdog]

What if he made it into a twit-eo?

If he posted it on R Feastsidedave's twitter, I'd watch it.

[lleeder]

And here's the obvious answer...

http://www.arn.org/_idarts/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/tin-man.jpg

[JPMNICK]

If he posted it on R Feastsidedave's twitter, I'd watch it.

that drivel could never make it to such a great twitter account such as R Feastside daves. he is like an internet Kubrick

[lleeder]

that drivel could never make it to such a great twitter account such as R Feastside daves. he is like an internet Kubrick

without the lighting

[spoon]

This is way past that. I get enough traffic to my websites, and I am never scared to say when its all a plug to get traffic.

This is an issue that I am puposely drawing attention to in hopes it explodes in his face, and he learns a lesson before it gets out of hand.

I am not wrong here. This is family!! He needs to be told what he is doing is 100% wrong, and comes with a price.

The whole ' yuo put yourself out there' fucking bullshit dont fly with me. Because its the individual who decides to use that info for bad or good. I'm not going to stop being a blogger, or calling into my favorite show because of someone elses issues.

Yeah, your right. I'll call the cops. Once I expose this fucker for what he truly is. If I am beat up while doing so, so be it!

That's the thing Chris, he like you, thrives on chaos and attention. You're only feeding the beast on this one doing what you are here. If it's real, respond to it in a real fashion, not on a fucking message board. Anytime something gets real here, step away and take care of it elsewhere. If you continue here, it only screams ulterior motive.

[spoon]

Mind the forum.

Sorry, just practicing.

what a fag

If that happens just burn the fucking place to the ground.

[west milly Tom]

Again, meh.

[spoon]

its not on the air. i think you can get your answers looking at their twitters.

Yah, that's never going to happen.

[spoon]

Ok guys/gals,

I should have just called the cops. Calling Fred to work it out like gentleman is not an option. He cannot be a gentleman.

Sorry I bored you with my drama. I just wanted people to know that he was doing what he normally does again, and fucking with my family life.

Peace.

That's another thing Chris, do you think he'd really listen to people on a message board anyway? He thrives on these fights and this anger, he's not about to change bc this thread showed him to be an angry man again. I find it funny he does blame everyone everywhere but himself for his failed business and marriage, yet has time to play this petty game/fight online with you over what?! A few hundred bucks and some words back and fro?! Holy fuck man, move on...both of you. Now if it's true he's personally attacking your family all over, do what you have to/need to do as long as you really tried to work it out bt each other first. If he doesn't come to grips, make the move.

[Marc with a c]

And here's the obvious answer...

http://www.arn.org/_idarts/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/tin-man.jpg

i was thinking more of

http://southdakotapolitics.blogs.com/south_dakota_politics/images/scarecrow_oz.gif

[underdog]

what a fag

If that happens just burn the fucking place to the ground.

I just want to be mod so I can ban you and blame Mojo.

[spoon]

I just want to be mod so I can ban you and blame Mojo.

Well then, you'd fit right in.

[JPMNICK]

Does fred post here at all anymore? was he banned?

[underdog]

Well then, you'd fit right in.

It's all I ever wanted.

[TripleSkeet]

its not on the air. i think you can get your answers looking at their twitters.

Then Ill never know. :(

[chefdoug68]

its not on the air. i think you can get your answers looking at their twitters.

the answers i need will never be on twitter.

[AF Mike]

This is interesting:

Fred from Brooklyn: The Debacle (http://www.yomafia.com/wordpress/?p=8)

As an aside someone who blogs for a living really should spell check
and maybe have someone else proof read for context errors.

[Lady Resin]

This is interesting:

Fred from Brooklyn: The Debacle (http://www.yomafia.com/wordpress/?p=8)

As an aside someone who blogs for a living really should spell check
and maybe have someone else proof read for context errors.

Insteresting? Old and stale.

[SatCam]

This is interesting:

[URL="http://www.yomafia.com/wordpress/?p=8"]Fred from Brooklyn: The Debacle[/URL

he posted that in his first post.

[boosterp]

This is interesting:

Fred from Brooklyn: The Debacle (http://www.yomafia.com/wordpress/?p=8)

As an aside someone who blogs for a living really should spell check
and maybe have someone else proof read for context errors.

No it's not, aside from mentioning a heroine problem.

Keep radio interesting and keep this shit off of it.

[Matty Fridays]

This thread is so gay, there are people outside protesting.

[EliSnow]

Does fred post here at all anymore? was he banned?

Yes, he was, for good.