If You Were Gay... [Archive] - RonFez.net Messageboard

underdog

07-13-2009, 03:54 PM

There would be no reason to.

I didn't tell my parents I liked crazy drug addicts, but after showing up at the house with enough of them over time, they figured it out.

epo

07-13-2009, 04:01 PM

So Gvac has a secret?

This explains his dislike of women over the age of 30.

Charlie_Don't_Surf

07-13-2009, 04:07 PM

I don't see how it is their business. I don't tell my mother that I fuck drunked up girls at parties, nor do I feel a need to. I don't know why a gay person would be any different.
I mean, what's next? Are people going to start telling their parents how they were bustin up a piece of ass or delve into their fetishes?

I guess what I'm saying is,"Slippery Slope."

Chimee

07-13-2009, 04:21 PM

No, my business is my business, if I were gay the only people that would know would be my gay cohorts and anyone that could figure it out and ask me for clarification. I wouldn't be painting myself like a rainbow and prancing in the street hoping people would take gay people seriously.

Hottub

07-13-2009, 04:24 PM

Iknow people who have been smoking for 20 years and still haven't told their parents.
I doubt they would admit to sucking cock.

Foster

07-13-2009, 04:24 PM

I never told them I was straight, why would I tell them I was gay?

TooLowBrow

07-13-2009, 04:26 PM

I never told them I was straight, why would I tell them I was gay?

thats a good point. its not like it has anything to do with them

Hottub

07-13-2009, 04:26 PM

Waiting for the "Gay Chubby Loving" banner to come back any minute now.

IamFogHat

07-13-2009, 04:28 PM

Well here's an answer with a caveat, it took them over a decade to find out I was an atheist, but that happened by accident, so I would say the answer is no, however, I am still (for one more year) financially dependent upon them, and honestly once that year is up, I don't think I would give a good shit what they know about me.

Tallman388

07-13-2009, 04:29 PM

I don't have a secret, but If I did, I'd tell them. If they didn't like it, that's their problem not mine.

sr71blackbird

07-13-2009, 04:37 PM

I dont think I could tell them if I was. I think it would tear my mother apart, especially.
Parents today are much more accepting of things like this than they were in my day. I have two gay cousins in the same family, both girls, and they live with their lovers, but my aunt still introduces them as their daughters 'friend'. They come together to every wedding and family function, and their mother must know, and so does everyone else in the family, but it is just not openly discussed.
If you are gay today and young, it must be great to know its so accepted by society in general. But I know people who still snicker and poke fun, but just not to gay people's faces or within earshot of them or others who will say something.

Farmer Dave

07-13-2009, 04:38 PM

Iknow people who have been smoking for 20 years and still haven't told their parents.
I doubt they would admit to sucking cock.

By 'them' do you mean you?

hydee

07-13-2009, 04:48 PM

...would you tell your parents?

When I was in college I ended up having a relationship with a girl. I was 100% straight until meeting her and I felt I had to tell my folks that I was dating her.

I want to say that I was adopted, by my grandparents and to sit and tell them at 67 and 72 that I was dating a girl was very hard. I faced being disowned, and losing the only family I had. Surprisingly enough they were ok about it.

I ended up meeting my future husband about a year after but I always felt good, proud and honest about telling them.

I don't get Fez's reluctance.

EliSnow

07-13-2009, 04:48 PM

By 'them' do you mean you?

No, he means the rednecks.

underdog

07-13-2009, 05:05 PM

When I was in college I ended up having a relationship with a girl. I was 100% straight until meeting her and I felt I had to tell my folks that I was dating her.

I want to say that I was adopted, by my grandparents and to sit and tell them at 67 and 72 that I was dating a girl was very hard. I faced being disowned, and losing the only family I had. Surprisingly enough they were ok about it.

I ended up meeting my future husband about a year after but I always felt good, proud and honest about telling them.

I don't get Fez's reluctance.

I totally forgot you were a chick while reading this, until the husband part. I thought you were just being sarcastic or something.

Charlie_Don't_Surf

07-13-2009, 05:12 PM

I totally forgot you were a chick while reading this, until the husband part. I thought you were just being sarcastic or something.

x2

Isn't it surprising how gay girls are fun to most guys but gay guys are the scariest thing.

sr71blackbird

07-13-2009, 07:04 PM

I have known many more cool gay guys than cool gay girls.
Gay men are for the most part more enjoyable people to be around. They are usually funny and interesting to talk to and non threatining. I would say that gay women in general are standoffish and too intense. Not all, but most that I know. What do you feel?

DolaMight

07-13-2009, 07:14 PM

no way, that the worst thing you could possibly say to your parents.

Death Metal Moe

07-13-2009, 07:18 PM

biggirl

07-13-2009, 07:26 PM

I don't tell my parents anything important. They don't understand me.

MC Pee Pants

07-13-2009, 07:29 PM

If?

sr71blackbird

07-13-2009, 07:39 PM

How could you not know hydee was a girl??

Fez4PrezN2008

07-13-2009, 07:52 PM

Absolutely I would tell them and I would want them to accept that and it not be some taboo secret. Same with my kids, I think I have the kind of relationship with them that they know they can tell us stuff like that and they know we would be accepting, but then again we are pretty much your skewed left hippie types.

stormy1065

07-13-2009, 08:03 PM

My found out when i brought my girlfriend home. It wasn't a real secret. it was just an unspoken and a avoided topic. that was my way of fessing up.

WampusCrandle

07-13-2009, 08:14 PM

I'ld tell my parents ... I also don't think I would make a big deal about it. I would come out at a funeral, so I wouldn't be the biggest downer for the family that day.

RhinoinMN

07-13-2009, 08:36 PM

I'ld tell my parents ... I also don't think I would make a big deal about it. I would come out at a funeral, so I wouldn't be the biggest downer for the family that day.

I like your style. I would come out at a siblings wedding.

hydee

07-13-2009, 08:45 PM

How could you not know hydee was a girl??

I could just be a real feminine dude :)

WampusCrandle

07-13-2009, 09:56 PM

I like your style. I would come out at a siblings wedding.

and then fuck the father of the bride? just really gay it up.

razorboy

07-13-2009, 10:00 PM

I'm sure they'd be impressed by my fabulous gay lifestyle.

Stuft

07-14-2009, 12:08 AM

While i agree w/ most everyone who says it's really not their business, it's a matter of respect, if i show up at a family function w/ the bitch that licks my slit. If i were gay, not at least tipping my parents off, so THEY knew how to field the questions, almost seems disrespectful. Altho, we could all go the Fez route and just never have any emotional attachment to anyone ever and then, problem solved!

A.J.

07-14-2009, 03:49 AM

Iknow people who have been smoking for 20 years and still haven't told their parents.

:bye:

ToiletCrusher

07-14-2009, 03:51 AM

I'ld tell my parents ... I also don't think I would make a big deal about it. I would come out at a funeral, so I wouldn't be the biggest downer for the family that day.

But if it were at a second or third cousin's funeral, it might be the biggest downer.

You need to wait for a grandparent to go.