nobody loves me. nobody cares. maybe ill go eat worms.

[Dougie Brootal]

i get the distinct feeling that no one i know likes me except my brother. no one calls me. no one answers when i call. no one checks in to see how i am. when i do get aold of people its usually a one sided conversation leaving me with the feeling that im trying to keep a conversation going that has obviously died. i think its because ive been so depressed and emotional. but i dont know. ive been really trying to not be soo dramatic (myspace and facebook friends know what i talking about!) but sometimes i cant help it. what am i doing wrong? am i not as likable as i thought before? or am i projecting my depression and dislike of myself in this state onto others? maybe reading too deep into it?



obviously this is not in 'thats life' so jokes are welcome. but serious answers are appreciated as well.

[biggestmexi]

i get the distinct feeling that no one i know likes me except my brother. no one calls me. no one answers when i call. no one checks in to see how i am. when i do get aold of people its usually a one sided conversation leaving me with the feeling that im trying to keep a conversation going that has obviously died.

hey sounds like you had a kid.

oh wait thats what happen to me.

buck up.

[Dougie Brootal]

no. that woud require sex with a real girl. which i havent had for 2 months.

[~Katja~]

no. that woud require sex with a real girl. which i havent had for 2 months.

2 months... whoa... you want me to cry for you??? we are 5 months into this year and I have not seen a cock! Add a few months of last year to that... then feel bad!

[TooLowBrow]

eat fried worms!

[drjoek]

Start posting more here. We like you here.
Get your pic into the hot guys thread.
Don't make me bump the threesome thread

[walking joint]

no. that woud require sex with a real girl. which i havent had for 2 months.

just get a divorce

[led37zep]

2 months... whoa... you want me to cry for you??? we are 5 months into this year and I have not seen a cock! Add a few months of last year to that... then feel bad!

You realize your inbox is about to get filled with those pics right?





Doug...I think its the haircut. You were the talk of .net when you were long haired and digging asian boys for three ways.


I don't have a real answer.

[~Katja~]

You realize your inbox is about to get filled with those pics right?


crazy talk... I never got a single one

[Stuft]

Not having read any of the responding posts, if i knew how to post an *attention whore* pic, i would.

From what i see from lurking, you're at least loved on here. Hang on to hope, hero!:thumbup:

[santino]

drink more! if it doesn't help make friends, at least you won't care.

[RhinoinMN]

sene me a message on facebook. we'll talk.

[sr71blackbird]

The last time I had sex was before election day 08, so don't cry. It is not everything. Everyone goes through a slump bro. Its okay, it teaches you that you can only really rely upon yourself, and when you get that confidence, others will be attracted to that confidence.

[Dougie Brootal]

Doug...I think its the haircut. You were the talk of .net when you were long haired and digging asian boys for three ways.

i knew this would happen. im like the psuedo-gay sampson.

[epo]

Doogie - Isolation at times is part of being a grown up. Welcome to the club.

Katja - How you doin?

[Marc with a c]

somebody lock this useless bullshit. thank you.

[Tenbatsuzen]

somebody lock this useless bullshit. thank you.

agreed. only worthwhile if Jerrytaker starts it

[biggirl]

Hey there....I don't know you, but from your pic...I think you are hot! And from your facebook posts on Rhino's status' I think you are hilarious. I don't know who you associate with outside ronfez, but maybe they are just busy with their lives right now. We rarely see our friends because everyone just seems to have a lot going on. I wouldn't eat worms - I hear they are kinda gross.

[Dougie Brootal]

no! its all ive got left!

[IamFogHat]

i get the distinct feeling that no one i know likes me except my brother. no one calls me. no one answers when i call. no one checks in to see how i am. when i do get aold of people its usually a one sided conversation leaving me with the feeling that im trying to keep a conversation going that has obviously died. i think its because ive been so depressed and emotional. but i dont know. ive been really trying to not be soo dramatic (myspace and facebook friends know what i talking about!) but sometimes i cant help it. what am i doing wrong? am i not as likable as i thought before? or am i projecting my depression and dislike of myself in this state onto others? maybe reading too deep into it?



obviously this is not in 'thats life' so jokes are welcome. but serious answers are appreciated as well.

I like you. I don't know you in real life though. Does that count?

[Dougie Brootal]

Hey there....I don't know you, but from your pic...I think you are hot! And from your facebook posts on Rhino's status' I think you are hilarious. I don't know who you associate with outside ronfez, but maybe they are just busy with their lives right now. We rarely see our friends because everyone just seems to have a lot going on. I wouldn't eat worms - I hear they are kinda gross.

see marc and matty! this is a helpful response!

[RoseBlood]

hey.. dont feel bad Dougie.. people call me all the time and then get mad at me when i dont return their calls. I am told how great I am on a near daily basis, yet i still dont feel entirely fullfilled or loved the way God intended.. wah wah wah.. yes i made this about me and yes that is all true. Keep treking along Dougie.. never give up.. do good things and you'll be rewarded.. eventually.. i think :unsure:

[JerseyRich]

I'd do ya.

[Dougie Brootal]

wheres is compliment guy? hes the only one who can help..

[Dougie Brootal]

hey.. dont feel bad Dougie.. people call me all the time and then get mad at me when i dont return their calls. I am told how great I am on a near daily basis, yet i still dont feel entirely fullfilled or loved the way God intended.. wah wah wah.. yes i made this about me and yes that is all true. Keep treking along Dougie.. never give up.. do good things and you'll be rewarded.. eventually.. i think :unsure:

i have never felt worse in my life that i do now after reading this post.

[hammersavage]

I'll tell you some wise words my father once told me that I like to think of when I get lonely.

He'd say "quit being such a dumb faggot"

[CofyCrakCocaine]

i get the distinct feeling that no one i know likes me except my brother. no one calls me. no one answers when i call. no one checks in to see how i am. when i do get aold of people its usually a one sided conversation leaving me with the feeling that im trying to keep a conversation going that has obviously died. i think its because ive been so depressed and emotional. but i dont know. ive been really trying to not be soo dramatic (myspace and facebook friends know what i talking about!) but sometimes i cant help it. what am i doing wrong? am i not as likable as i thought before? or am i projecting my depression and dislike of myself in this state onto others? maybe reading too deep into it?



obviously this is not in 'thats life' so jokes are welcome. but serious answers are appreciated as well.

Probably, you should stay out of the high schools and try dating in your own age pool again.

[ToiletCrusher]

I'll tell you some wise words my father once told me that I like to think of when I get lonely.

He'd say "quit being such a dumb faggot"

It's like poetry. How did it work for you?

[RoseBlood]

I'll tell you some wise words my father once told me that I like to think of when I get lonely.

He'd say "quit being such a dumb faggot"

I think I love your father.. <3 :wub:

[hammersavage]

It's like poetry. How did it work for you?

I'm a lonely, dumb borderline straight guy

[CofyCrakCocaine]

I'll tell you some wise words my father once told me that I like to think of when I get lonely.

He'd say "quit being such a dumb faggot"

Wise words. Deserving. Powerful. You can't get much more poignant than that in a quote.

[CofyCrakCocaine]

I think I love your father.. <3 :wub:

Robots don't love.

[hammersavage]

I think I love your father.. <3 :wub:

I can hook you up with him.

But if you guys hook up, I'll be your step son and I WILL walk in on you in the shower. What up!



(i'll move in with him)

[ToiletCrusher]

I'm a lonely, dumb borderline straight guy

seems right.

[CofyCrakCocaine]

I can hook you up with him.

But if you guys hook up, I'll be your step son and I WILL walk in on you in the shower. What up!

You could just play the "I'm your step son so that makes our love so forbidden it's like german chocolates and I let's fuck!" card. That's how it goes in the movies.

[JerseyRich]

I can hook you up with him.

But if you guys hook up, I'll be your step son and I WILL walk in on you in the shower. What up!

(i'll move in with him)

It never stopped you as a kid when she wasn't there.

[hammersavage]

It never stopped you as a kid when she wasn't there.

I'll walk in on YOU in the shower

[CofyCrakCocaine]

Jesus is black.

[Tenbatsuzen]

Robots don't love.

I... I have a brother?

[sr71blackbird]

Honestly, think about it, would you want to be with a girl that thought the same thing about herself? You wouldnt. Neither are they attracted to weakness. Be strong. All the girls I ever knew were attracted to guys that were not interested in them. They always go for the ones that have other interests. Adam and Eve, Eve wanted the one thing she was not suppose to have. First lesson in the world: They want what they cant have

[RoseBlood]

I can hook you up with him.

only if he's a mean old man who likes taking advantage of girls to make himself feel worthwhile.. i get off on that.

[Gvac]

I'll tell you some wise words my father once told me that I like to think of when I get lonely.

He'd say "quit being such a dumb faggot"

Too bad the apple fell so far from the tree.

Your dad must be 10 times cooler than you.

[CofyCrakCocaine]

Too bad the apple fell so far from the tree.

Your dad must be 10 times cooler than you.

Hammer=Pippen
HammerDad=Jordan

[Dougie Brootal]

Honestly, think about it, would you want to be with a girl that thought the same thing about herself? You wouldnt. Neither are they attracted to weakness. Be strong. All the girls I ever knew were attracted to guys that were not interested in them. They always go for the ones that have other interests. Adam and Eve, Eve wanted the one thing she was not suppose to have. First lesson in the world: They want what they cant have

surprisingly enough its not really about that. im just alking about friends. im not worrying about the finding a chick thing right now cuz honestly after the beer stein incident im kind of scared. im just trying to be friends with people and it just doesnt seem like anyone gives a shit about me. maybe i drove them all away wheni was with christin cuz i only wanted to spend time with her after a while. i kinda stopped hanging out with friends. cuz really i thought i didnt need them. i had all i needed and didnt think about othr peoples feelings i guess. instant karma i guess.

[CofyCrakCocaine]

surprisingly enough its not really about that. im just alking about friends. im not worrying about the finding a chick thing right now cuz honestly after the beer stein incident im kind of scared. im just trying to be friends with people and it just doesnt seem like anyone gives a shit about me. maybe i drove them all away wheni was with christin cuz i only wanted to spend time with her after a while. i kinda stopped hanging out with friends. cuz really i thought i didnt need them. i had all i needed and didnt think about othr peoples feelings i guess. instant karma i guess.

This is your first mid-life crisis, and you're only in your twenties. Jesus.

edit: I'm just guessing you're in your twenties.

[Dougie Brootal]

This is your first mid-life crisis, and you're only in your twenties. Jesus.

edit: I'm just guessing you're in your twenties.
25. i never planned on making it to old age:wink:

[Gvac]

25. i never planned on making it to old age:wink:

Me neither, and look at me now!!

And to be serious for a second, stop thinking so much Dougie.

Enjoy life. Genuinely enjoy it, and people will flock to you.

Trust me.

[CofyCrakCocaine]

Me neither, and look at me now!!

And to be serious for a second, stop thinking so much Dougie.

Enjoy life. Genuinely enjoy it, and people will flock to you.

Trust me.

You might end up like that author in The Big Lebowski. The one with the shitty kid.

[razorboy]

Robots don't love.

Lies.

http://i29.photobucket.com/albums/c297/razorboy_/69216450_ph2_w434_h_q80.jpg

[CofyCrakCocaine]

My only for real advice would be to not take it personally. People probably don't care enough to hate you or want to pay you back for not being around for 'em. Just keep pretending you don't give a shit, and they might come to. And if not... you're 25. Make some new friends.

Once you're an old bag of dirt, there's no room left for improvement.

[Crispy123]

I have found that when I do the activities I enjoy I find people that enjoy them too. Its always nice to find new peeps. You dont even need a new "set' of friends make one or two and bring them around your current circle and the chemistry will change one way or the other.

And harden the fuck up, real men dont need the company of anyone but the occasional hooker!

[CofyCrakCocaine]

I have found that when I do the activities I enjoy I find people that enjoy them too. Its always nice to find new peeps. You dont even need a new "set' of friends make one or two and bring them around your current circle and the chemistry will change one way or the other.

And harden the fuck up, real men dont need the company of anyone but the occasional hooker!

and JD with coke. not that coke.

[Crispy123]

and JD with coke. not that coke.

I dont recommend snorting Jack.

[sr71blackbird]

What I was saying holds true wether you are talking friendship or romance. No one likes a winer. People admire those who blaze their own trail. It demonstrates leadership and courage. If you complain, you attract complainers who want to comiserate with you and you all feed off each other. Fuck that. Act like nothing bothers you and shrug the crap off and let it be obvious you will go on with your life no matter what happens. You will make better friends and they will elevate you. Trust me.

[CofyCrakCocaine]

What I was saying holds true wether you are talking friendship or romance. No one likes a winer. People admire those who blaze their own trail. It demonstrates leadership and courage. If you complain, you attract complainers who want to comiserate with you and you all feed off each other. Fuck that. Act like nothing bothers you and shrug the crap off and let it be obvious you will go on with your life no matter what happens. You will make better friends and they will elevate you. Trust me.

Yeah.

[Compliment-Guy]

Everyone here is so amazing! Look at the outpouring of love in an attempt to help your friend! I feel special just being a member here!

I also feel special having Dougie Brootal in my life even though we've never met. He is very willing to share his private life with all of us, often making himself the butt of a joke just to make the rest of us feel better about ourselves or give us a laugh. What an incredible young man!

You are an inspiration to all of us, Mr. Brootal! Thank you for everything you do each and every day! You are a hero of mine!

[dino_electropolis]

http://starcmc.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/tiny_violin.png

[CofyCrakCocaine]

http://starcmc.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/tiny_violin.png

That was just like your last concert. (drumbeat)

[dino_electropolis]

That was just like your last concert. (drumbeat)

Your absolutely right. So we decided to get rid of the strings and go with horns.....and hired this guy

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3275/2386857494_1e575173fd.jpg?v=0

[jessicaduh]

What I was saying holds true wether you are talking friendship or romance. No one likes a winer. People admire those who blaze their own trail. It demonstrates leadership and courage. If you complain, you attract complainers who want to comiserate with you and you all feed off each other. Fuck that. Act like nothing bothers you and shrug the crap off and let it be obvious you will go on with your life no matter what happens. You will make better friends and they will elevate you. Trust me.

absolutely.

i have a tremendous amount of patience, and am always there for people who need me...but there's a limit. when someone is so fucking melancholy all the time, it's exhausting. it also comes off as profoundly self-centered, as that person is generally far more interested in talking about why life sucks, people have done them wrong, they're victims of such a cruel world, blablabla...but rarely are they interested in what is going on with you, even if it might be an actual real-life problem.

(if it's a genuine friend who is going through shit, or is depressed, or whatever, but i can tell that they care about me and truly appreciate my being there for them, i'll support them forever as well as i can. but if it's all so them-focused that it makes me realize that I am insignificant to them, just someone to dump their shit on, that's when i have to check the fuck out)

it just wears on me so much that - even if i genuinely like and care for the person - i have to disengage for my own sanity.

the people on my facebook who post the depressed "poor me" shit constantly? ugh, it just annoys me. i can understand that - to a point - at like 19 years old, but it's got to stop and you've got to mature at some point. i mean, everyone goes through shit and depressed phases, i'm talking about the consistently blah folks who think the world is against them...and seem to thrive on it.

i don't intend this to be cruel. i think the people who can tell you the truth despite the fact that it may hurt are the ones who stand the chance of serving you best.

how to make the switch? i'm not sure. but i know that who you are, how you behave, how you think, and what you do are conscious choices. if you don't like where you are at the moment, and see a negative effect on the people around you, change your mentality. it's difficult but not impossible.

block out your negative self-talk and turn it to positives. write down a list of all the things you tell yourself regularly that are negative - the dialog that runs through your mind - and then decide that anything negative is a lie. then write down positive versions of all of those, and read the list every day. several times a day. whenever you feel yourself slip into the negative thinking pattern, switch your brain consciously, and think the positive thoughts. sooner or later, they'll become ingrained...even if they feel like a lie initially.

if you want to change your circumstances, surroundings, life, etc., you need to change yourself first, as you've probably drawn those things to yourself in one way or another.

good luck, bud.

this is unbearably long. no one will ever read it. i wouldn't.

[CountryBob]

A bonafide crazy chick that lives a few houses down stops by alot and i always try to avoid her (unless it is for sex). Lately, she has been talking about some theory she has been practicing lately. She read something about positive and negative energy that we give off and receive. She thinks that if we dwell in a negative state we give off that vibe and magically push away those with positive energies around them. So, she has been acting so different lately and I tell you - she has been really fun to be around.

Maybe this is something you might need to look at in your situation. Who knows if it really works but she has been so different and not as crazy.
Also, are you being a friend that others want to be in contact with and hang around? Or, would you be sick if you could stand aside and look at yourself and the way you are right now?

[~Katja~]

Me neither, and look at me now!!

And to be serious for a second, stop thinking so much Dougie.

Enjoy life. Genuinely enjoy it, and people will flock to you.

Trust me.

just take gvac's advice Doug!
Be yourself, enjoy what you do and be selfish about it.

[Dougie Brootal]

great advice buddays. its time to stop being a baby. thanks! i knew i could count on you guys!:thumbup:

[Marc with a c]

any time.

[TjM]

crazy talk... I never got a single one

Here you go


http://www.lonestarphotos.com/Images/Nature/rooster.jpg

[A.J.]

Look at it like I do: this just means there's less drama and bullshit in your life. Focus your energies elsewhere.

[sailor]

crazy talk... I never got a single one

http://www.backyardpoultry.com/vis/2007/feb/Black%20belgian%20rooster2006.JPG

http://www.chaillot.com/En/coq.jpg

http://www.carolscafe.com/Quickstart/ImageLib/2k8_COQ_AU_VIN.jpg

damn sick baby making me 40 minutes late with the joke.

[Furtherman]

Friends come and go, so be true to yourself and you will stay.





Or something like that.

[topless_mike]

2 months... whoa... you want me to cry for you??? we are 5 months into this year and I have not seen a cock! Add a few months of last year to that... then feel bad!

:wub:
what are you doing this weekend?

[CofyCrakCocaine]

Friends come and go, so be true to yourself and you will stay.





Or something like that.

You've been hurt before. :glurps:

[JerryTaker]

agreed. only worthwhile if Jerrytaker starts it

They are not, and you know it!

wait... fuck!

[Crossweird]

agreed. only worthwhile if Jerrytaker starts it
They are not, and you know it!

wait... fuck!
Wow. It's like saying 'Candyman'.

[khaxzan]

i get the distinct feeling that no one i know likes me except my brother. no one calls me. no one answers when i call. no one checks in to see how i am. when i do get aold of people its usually a one sided conversation leaving me with the feeling that im trying to keep a conversation going that has obviously died. i think its because ive been so depressed and emotional. but i dont know. ive been really trying to not be soo dramatic (myspace and facebook friends know what i talking about!) but sometimes i cant help it. what am i doing wrong? am i not as likable as i thought before? or am i projecting my depression and dislike of myself in this state onto others? maybe reading too deep into it?

obviously this is not in 'thats life' so jokes are welcome. but serious answers are appreciated as well.

We call people who force themselves to stay depressed "emos" and when they go online and complain about why the world doesn't want them we then call them "butthurt emos"

[Aggie]

You're right...this is what I read:

absolutely.


good luck, bud.

this is unbearably long. no one will ever read it. i wouldn't.

Blame my ADD.

Feel better Dougie!

[Dougie Brootal]

oh, i feel fine! :)

[khaxzan]

Then what are you complaining about? Go read a comic book for fuck sakes! :furious: