GODDAMMITT! i wish i wasnt in charge...

[Dougie Brootal]

so as some of you know, i have a family business with my dad. recently we let some one go and now have an opening for a job. so all my friends and my new chick are begging me to just give them a job. i dont want anyone i know to work for me because i had bad experiences hiring friends and family. my dad offered an interview to an old friend of mine who happened to be our waitress at lunch one day. i slipped up and mentioned it to my chick and shes raising hell cuz i told her i didnt wanna give the job to her or a friend cuz it never works out.

now im afraid that, because he has final word, my dad is gonna hire this broad and my chick is gonna raise hell. what do i do? should i torpedo my friends interview? should i explain it to my dad? should i tell my chick to shut the hell up?

tell me how to run my own company, oh great oracle of ronfez.net!

[west milly Tom]

Tell your chic never to ask about your business.

[CountryBob]

Just explain to the chick that you dont have the final say if Dad wants to hire someone. And I agree, hiring a friend or family member sucks 99.9% of the time. I went back to college a few years ago and got a degree in Industrial Engineering. My cousin talked me into going into business with him (coal business) and i turned down a good job upon graduation. 3 months later --he had yet to pay me and i was doing all the work. It put a strain on our relationship and our families as well for a long time.

[Don Stugots]

Tell your chic never to ask about your business.


And then smack her in the mouth.

Talk to your dad. Tell your chick that will talk to him but that he has the final say. Then tell her that if she gives you a threesome with Scott she will get the job.

[StupidGirlllll]

What is the chicks name? & are you sure it is a chick?

[Dougie Brootal]

What is the chicks name? & are you sure it is a chick?

mike.

[StupidGirlllll]

Thats what I thought just be careful.

[boosterp]

so as some of you know, i have a family business with my dad. recently we let some one go and now have an opening for a job. so all my friends and my new chick are begging me to just give them a job. i dont want anyone i know to work for me because i had bad experiences hiring friends and family. my dad offered an interview to an old friend of mine who happened to be our waitress at lunch one day. i slipped up and mentioned it to my chick and shes raising hell cuz i told her i didnt wanna give the job to her or a friend cuz it never works out.

now im afraid that, because he has final word, my dad is gonna hire this broad and my chick is gonna raise hell. what do i do? should i torpedo my friends interview? should i explain it to my dad? should i tell my chick to shut the hell up?

tell me how to run my own company, oh great oracle of ronfez.net!

Just explain to the chick that you dont have the final say if Dad wants to hire someone. And I agree, hiring a friend or family member sucks 99.9% of the time. I went back to college a few years ago and got a degree in Industrial Engineering. My cousin talked me into going into business with him (coal business) and i turned down a good job upon graduation. 3 months later --he had yet to pay me and i was doing all the work. It put a strain on our relationship and our families as well for a long time.

Yes, and talk with dad at the same time.

[Dude!]

no one will blame you if you are now secretly wishing
that pop's plane had gone down after all

[King Hippos Bandaid]

mixing personal relationship and business relationships never work

[Dougie Brootal]

no one will blame you if you are now secretly wishing
that pop's plane had gone down after all

hahaha!:lol:

[Don Stugots]

mixing personal relationship and business relationships never work

Says the man who tries to sell us a cruise at every bar night.

[Furtherman]

mixing personal relationship and business relationships never work

QFT.

Tell your Dad to make the decision. But don't let your chick get to you. It's not personal, it's business. Your family's livelihood, and her asking for you to give her the job is interference with that.

[Dougie Brootal]

thanks buddays! i think i know what to do!


now, lets gay this thread up boys!
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[boosterp]

now, lets gay this thread up boys!
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Go fuck yourself.

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[King Hippos Bandaid]

this would be easy if Charles was in Charge

http://veryspecialepisode.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/charles-in-charge-photo.jpg


PS FUCK THE PEMBROKE'S

[~Katja~]

Is your chick even qualified for the job? Or is she just looking for any job at this time?

Just be honest with her, don't beat around the bush or make up excuses. Tell her how you feel about the situation and that even if you felt differently it is your dad who makes the final decision on the hiring

[A.J.]

It's not personal, it's business.

Listen to Tom Hagen.

[Jujubees2]

Tell her it's not personal, it's business!

http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/godfather2.jpg

[JPMNICK]

just tell her the best way to have the relationship fail is to have her some work there. that the time apart is good for you 2

[mikeyboy]

If honesty isn't the best policy -- let's be honest, sometimes it isn't because of the headaches it can cause -- ask your dad to set up an interview with your chick. After it's over your dad can tell her it isn't personal, but he decided to go with someone more qualified/more experienced, etc. She might be a bit pissed at your dad for not picking her, but probably not as pissed as she is at you, and might even accept the fact that she isn't the best choice for the job coming from your dad. It's totally cop-out passing the buck shit, but just might work in your situation.

[EddieMoscone]

I have gotten more resumes from people for their friends, family, etc. over the past few months than I have over the past few years.

[Friday]

hey dougie...

can I have a job?

http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-ashamed001.gif

[mikeyboy]

All-business Doug is the best.

http://www.themarinaspecialists.com/svnadmin/teammembers_pic/9.jpg

[drjoek]

Our Little Dougie is growing up so fast!

[meanmrbill]

Are Little Dougie is growing up so fast
Shouldn't you have a question mark after that statement?

[nate1000]

Very disappointed that no one has asked:
1. Is she hot?
2. Any way to parlay this into a 3 way?

[Snoogans]

This might help you figure out how to handle things Dougie:

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[EddieMoscone]

I teach a class in hotel management and one of the first things I do is tell them I am more than happy to take resumes, but I will NOT hire any one of my students until after they graduate. Keeps the pressure off for at least 4 years (I teach a freshman level class).

The hardest things to do is turn down someone you know for a job. Deep down you obviously want to help someone who needs it but the drawbacks are just as obvious. What I usually do is take the resume and try and put a good word into HR to get them something at a different site in the portfolio.