View Full Version : Breastfeeding in Public
keverlast
10-31-2008, 10:10 AM
Everyday there are mothers who breasfeed in public. for those like me, i will turn or look the other way,especially when everything is out in the open. What about you?
Don Stugots
10-31-2008, 10:15 AM
I am all for it
Fuckin starvin
topless_mike
10-31-2008, 10:34 AM
earl we got any................ oh wait.
donnie_darko
10-31-2008, 10:43 AM
earl has phantom nipple pain from thoughts of li'l satchmo sucking on his saucer like nipples.
I just yell "Yeah! Get Some!" and fist pump.
ahhdurr
10-31-2008, 10:47 AM
Why am I the only honest nearby jerker?
Liars!
djproject
10-31-2008, 10:50 AM
Why am I the only honest nearby jerker?
Liars!
Im totally with you my friend!
ScottFromGA
10-31-2008, 10:51 AM
its only a problem for me if the Mother gets offended when I'm jerkin it in the bushes.
:down:
its only a problem for me if the Mother gets offended when I'm jerkin it in the bushes.
:down:
Well as long as you don't arc one on them, I don't see a problem.
MacVittie
10-31-2008, 10:52 AM
I consider it a little gay to not sneak a peek.
Furtherman
10-31-2008, 11:09 AM
I was not breast feeding, I was only kissing Friday's boo-boo!
Sheeesh!
ChrisTheCop
10-31-2008, 11:12 AM
Ya gotta look, but then, as you begin to think about what a miracle it is that not only that child was manufactured inside of that woman, but came out to a world where nurishment is provided from the very same organism, the chubby'll go away pretty quick.
topless_mike
10-31-2008, 11:12 AM
Ya gotta look, but then, as you begin to think about what a miracle it is that not only that child was manufactured inside of that woman, but came out to a world where nurishment is provided from the very same organism, the chubby'll go away pretty quick.
thread over.
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 11:16 AM
I get annoyed by people getting upset by it... but honestly unless there was no way around (like a secluded corner or a nursing room at a mall, most have motherhood stores who welcome nursing mothers) what else can ya do.
I didn't do it so obvious with all hanging out... if you know how to nurse well you can do it without anybody even noticing... I have held conversations with people while doing it and they asked if I didn't have to feed the baby anytime soon... even though I did it right in front of them.
ChrisTheCop
10-31-2008, 11:18 AM
That was a call for an encore, Katja.
disneyspy
10-31-2008, 11:20 AM
I get annoyed by people getting upset by it... but honestly unless there was no way around (like a secluded corner or a nursing room at a mall, most have motherhood stores who welcome nursing mothers) what else can ya do.
I didn't do it so obvious with all hanging out... if you know how to nurse well you can do it without anybody even noticing... I have held conversations with people while doing it and they asked if I didn't have to feed the baby anytime soon... even though I did it right in front of them.
now im starvin
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 11:20 AM
That was a call for an encore, Katja.
they were female... so I doubt it
keverlast
10-31-2008, 11:35 AM
I get annoyed by people getting upset by it... but honestly unless there was no way around (like a secluded corner or a nursing room at a mall, most have motherhood stores who welcome nursing mothers) what else can ya do.
I didn't do it so obvious with all hanging out... if you know how to nurse well you can do it without anybody even noticing... I have held conversations with people while doing it and they asked if I didn't have to feed the baby anytime soon... even though I did it right in front of them.
Nowadays, most people have a nursing blanket, however, i've seen those whip out the nips and star feedn, I think it's a private nourishment moment for someone other than me. Mind you, i admit to peeking,
Don Stugots
10-31-2008, 11:38 AM
Ya gotta look, but then, as you begin to think about what a miracle it is that not only that child was manufactured inside of that woman, but came out to a world where nurishment is provided from the very same organism, the chubby'll go away pretty quick.
Booooooo
EliSnow
10-31-2008, 11:40 AM
Nowadays, most people have a nursing blanket, however, i've seen those whip out the nips and star feedn, I think it's a private nourishment moment for someone other than me. Mind you, i admit to peeking,
My wife usually uses a cover-up when doing so, but last night she told me about how she was in the car in a parking lot yesterday and was breastfeeding and saw a guy in another parked car looking at her. When she covered up, he got out of the car and walked right by the driver side of our car and looked in while walking by.
Made her (and me) pretty angry.
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 11:40 AM
Booooooo
well, in all reality, the act of breastfeeding in no way is sexy... seeing a breast of a woman that does is very sexy indeed, cause they are nice and round and full during that time.
keverlast
10-31-2008, 11:46 AM
My wife usually uses a cover-up when doing so, but last night she told me about how she was in the car in a parking lot yesterday and was breastfeeding and saw a guy in another parked car looking at her. When she covered up, he got out of the car and walked right by the driver side of our car and looked in while walking by.
Made her (and me) pretty angry.
Those friggn Pervs,,
Lady Resin
10-31-2008, 11:53 AM
It never bothered me until I saw it. My husband and I were having breakfast in Spring Lake. A mother with 3 children walked in and sat in a booth across from us. The older children looked about 6 and 8 years old. The other that the mother was holding looked about 6-8 months old. As soon as she sat down she started to breastfeed the baby. She didn't cover up. The place was packed. I understand the baby needs to be feed. I just feel she should have gone into the ladies room to do it. Our waitress looked shocked.
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 11:55 AM
It never bothered me until I saw it. My husband and I were having breakfast in Spring Lake. A mother with 3 children walked in and sat in a booth across from us. The older children looked about 6 and 8 years old. The other that the mother was holding looked about 6-8 months old. As soon as she sat down she started to breastfeed the baby. She didn't cover up. The place was packed. I understand the baby needs to be feed. I just feel she should have gone into the ladies room to do it. Our waitress looked shocked.
eeew, don't ask a mother to go in the ladies room, would you eat or feed your child a bottle in a rest room? a public one no less? I agree she could cover up, but the ladies room is disgusting to suggest.
think about it- should she sit on a toilet while nursing? especially if she had more kids with her... drag them in there with her... while they run wild in the bathroom or stay crammed in a stall with her... ugh...
King Hippos Bandaid
10-31-2008, 12:06 PM
its a lot less sexier then you think
I have seen the hottest of moms do it at my former job
Manager of Chuck E Cheese
kinda gross actually
sailor
10-31-2008, 12:18 PM
eeew, don't ask a mother to go in the ladies room, would you eat or feed your child a bottle in a rest room? a public one no less? I agree she could cover up, but the ladies room is disgusting to suggest.
think about it- should she sit on a toilet while nursing? especially if she had more kids with her... drag them in there with her... while they run wild in the bathroom or stay crammed in a stall with her... ugh...
yeah, resin was the one with the problem, not the mother.
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 12:30 PM
yeah, resin was the one with the problem, not the mother.
well, I know it may be uncomfortable for people to see, and like I said I personally scheduled my feedings around public outings or dinners... or would do it in the car... but if you have more kids with you, you barely ever get a break or a minute to have a seat... the restaurant may have been the best option for her because she had the kids within sight and kinda restrained.
I think most people don't understand the situation until they have had kids and nursed them.
sailor
10-31-2008, 01:12 PM
well, I know it may be uncomfortable for people to see, and like I said I personally scheduled my feedings around public outings or dinners... or would do it in the car... but if you have more kids with you, you barely ever get a break or a minute to have a seat... the restaurant may have been the best option for her because she had the kids within sight and kinda restrained.
I think most people don't understand the situation until they have had kids and nursed them.
yeah, i also want to make it clear it wasn't an attack before. you try to be discrete, but you also can't totally control when the baby needs to eat or just wants the comfort.
ahhdurr
10-31-2008, 02:54 PM
Ya gotta look, but then, as you begin to think about what a miracle it is that not only that child was manufactured inside of that woman, but came out to a world where nurishment is provided from the very same organism, the chubby'll go away pretty quick.
roooned it.
ahhdurr
10-31-2008, 02:57 PM
My wife usually uses a cover-up when doing so, but last night she told me about how she was in the car in a parking lot yesterday and was breastfeeding and saw a guy in another parked car looking at her. When she covered up, he got out of the car and walked right by the driver side of our car and looked in while walking by.
Made her (and me) pretty angry.
fucking animal. I'm in unfortuante constant contact with people like that. Zero concern for the forebrain.
Misteriosa
10-31-2008, 03:52 PM
i think breast feeding in public is fine as long as you have a little nursing blankie or something else to keep that chewed up nip covered. sending the mom to the toilet is horrible. imagine all the nasty things she had to touch before she could start feeding the baby. totally not fair to or healthy for the baby. i know i wouldnt want to be forced to eat my dinner in a bathroom stall
drjoek
10-31-2008, 03:55 PM
Damn you I thought this was going to be a companion thread to the kissing girls thread.
IamFogHat
10-31-2008, 03:57 PM
I don't know why this issue bothers people. Babies need to eat, don't be a creep and gawk, and don't be an asshole and complain, just politely avert yourself. Christ almighty anymore.
Hottub
10-31-2008, 03:59 PM
Pump it. Bottle it. Bring it with you if you are going to the mall.
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 04:13 PM
Pump it. Bottle it. Bring it with you if you are going to the mall.
sure, but breast milk can't be heated and reheated like formula. once you warm it it needs to be consumed or tossed.
and if you are out all day your breasts still fill up and need to be emptied/ pumped every 4 h.
Hottub
10-31-2008, 04:14 PM
and if you are out all day your breasts still fill up and need to be emptied/ pumped every 4 h.
That's where I come in...
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 04:20 PM
yeah, i also want to make it clear it wasn't an attack before. you try to be discrete, but you also can't totally control when the baby needs to eat or just wants the comfort.
I know it wasn't... just trying to add to my point. I feel strongly about it as I did it for 18 months... and there is nothing more natural. Some women would love to and can't... some don't want to... it doesn't matter to me, either way a healthy baby can be raised.
but I am sure the people that think it should be done at home also are the ones that really love a screaming and crying baby in public... they just love the noise.
see, just because we have babies, our life doesn't stop and many work, shop and do all the household chores on top the same way they did before with taking care of a baby in between.
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 04:21 PM
That's where I come in...
creep...
so when you milk the breast in public it's ok again... nice ;)
Hottub
10-31-2008, 04:23 PM
No. I nurse under a bankie.
Like a Gentleman.
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 04:26 PM
No. I nurse under a bankie.
Like a Gentleman.
didn't know they make them creep sized...
Hottub
10-31-2008, 04:28 PM
didn't know they make them creep sized...
Breasts?
Oh, sure they do.:laugh:
Fez4PrezN2008
10-31-2008, 04:37 PM
Just look away... 99% of the time its some gross floppy tit that looks like some kind of thumb on the end.
Besides, kids are just gross
zildjian361
10-31-2008, 05:15 PM
Rude and Rude give the kid a bottle or do it in the privacy of your home.:wacko:
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 05:17 PM
Rude and Rude give the kid a bottle or do it in the privacy of your home.:wacko:
I hope you never eat out or as much as buy a drink.
breastfeeding does not just nourish and feed a baby but also quenches thirst. The first few minutes of nursing are a thiner less nourishing milk with less fat content and will take care of the thirst part. It's not like you can go buy the baby a soda or water. duh
This guy had the right idea
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keverlast
10-31-2008, 06:18 PM
I hope you never eat out or as much as buy a drink.
breastfeeding does not just nourish and feed a baby but also quenches thirst. The first few minutes of nursing are a thiner less nourishing milk with less fat content and will take care of the thirst part. It's not like you can go buy the baby a soda or water. duh
Well said Katja:clap:
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 06:20 PM
yeah, sorry for ranting in this thread... it's just that I have been there and hate people being ignorant about it. It's not really their fault, because until you do it yourself you don't care to know or educate yourself about it.
but now back to sexy breast and nip slip talks. hottub, the stage is yours ;)
keverlast
10-31-2008, 06:24 PM
yeah, sorry for ranting in this thread... it's just that I have been there and hate people being ignorant about it. It's not really their fault, because until you do it yourself you don't care to know or educate yourself about it.
but now back to sexy breast and nip slip talks. hottub, the stage is yours ;)
Keep it going, yer bang on with all this talk, you know from experience and unfortunately some people jus don't understand. Anyhoo, a nice nip slip is good once in awhile.:devil2:
BlackSpider
10-31-2008, 06:24 PM
I hope you never eat out or as much as buy a drink.
breastfeeding does not just nourish and feed a baby but also quenches thirst. The first few minutes of nursing are a thiner less nourishing milk with less fat content and will take care of the thirst part. It's not like you can go buy the baby a soda or water. duh
You're all talk.
Perry and I drank with you for five hours, and you didn't breastfeed once...
~Katja~
10-31-2008, 06:26 PM
You're all talk.
Perry and I drank with you for five hours, and you didn't breastfeed once...
I went to the bathroom twice. people told me to keep my kid there and not whip it out in the front
BlackSpider
10-31-2008, 06:28 PM
I went to the bathroom twice. people told me to keep my kid there and not whip it out in the front
I meant us...
keverlast
10-31-2008, 06:32 PM
this is interesting:innocent:
Patient zer0
11-01-2008, 05:15 AM
I love tryin to take a peek to try to catch a nip
I love tryin to take a peek to try to catch a nip
Me too. In my perverted opinion if you see even the slightest part of the nipple, you have seen tit.
No nipple = no tit
Patient zer0
11-01-2008, 05:43 AM
I have never seen any other ethnic group other than caucasian and blacks breast feeding in public. is it a north american pastime?
Stankfoot
11-01-2008, 06:01 AM
I have never seen any other ethnic group other than caucasian and blacks breast feeding in public. is it a north american pastime?
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~Katja~
11-01-2008, 06:10 AM
I have never seen any other ethnic group other than caucasian and blacks breast feeding in public. is it a north american pastime?
what are you talking about? Especially hispanics nurse their babies and definitely do it in public.
Misteriosa
11-01-2008, 06:16 AM
on my first day of linguistics class, the teacher was nursing her newborn while sitting cross-legged on the table. she didnt use a blankie and the baby was fine. she was very good at keeping everything concealed even as she fed the baby. very well done.
she is indian (dot-dot)
~Katja~
11-01-2008, 06:20 AM
on my first day of linguistics class, the teacher was nursing her newborn while sitting cross-legged on the table. she didnt use a blankie and the baby was fine. she was very good at keeping everything concealed even as she fed the baby. very well done.
she is indian (dot-dot)
wow, they let her do that while at school? that is amazing. I know workplaces are to provide rooms where a woman can pump ad store the milk, a sanitary place, not a bathroom... but actually having the kid in class is very strange. lol
GreatAmericanZero
11-01-2008, 06:23 AM
you gotta sneak a peak
Misteriosa
11-01-2008, 06:24 AM
wow, they let her do that while at school? that is amazing. I know workplaces are to provide rooms where a woman can pump ad store the milk, a sanitary place, not a bathroom... but actually having the kid in class is very strange. lol
i was def floored when i saw the infant. she looked less than a month old. im thinking she HAD to come in to work because the class is so specialized that they could find a sub. i hope she's getting compensated well for missing out on the maternity leave.
anyways. its legal to walk around topless in nyc ( remember the central pk picnic?) so breastfeeding prob isnt even an issue
disneyspy
11-01-2008, 06:34 AM
the only person that should brestfeed in a bathroom stall is flea_man
sailor
11-01-2008, 08:34 AM
I have never seen any other ethnic group other than caucasian and blacks breast feeding in public. is it a north american pastime?
it's only an issue here. most of the rest of the world breastfeeding is the norm and no one bats an eye. fuckin' puritanical society.
disneyspy
11-01-2008, 08:40 AM
true,ive seen braless brazilian women change from a wet t shirt to a dry one in public in the magic kingdom and the only ones that complain are american women
sailor
11-01-2008, 08:41 AM
true,ive seen braless brazilian women change from a wet t shirt to a dry one in public in the magic kingdom and the only ones that complain are american women
pics?
disneyspy
11-01-2008, 08:47 AM
pics?
"cast members"aren't allowed to carry cameras or cell phones cuz of frequent contact with celebs and company secrets that they dont want the public to know
sailor
11-01-2008, 08:57 AM
"cast members"aren't allowed to carry cameras or cell phones cuz of frequent contact with celebs and company secrets that they dont want the public to know
maybe just set up a web-cam there?
disneyspy
11-01-2008, 09:02 AM
maybe just set up a web-cam there?
last guy that did that set one up in the female characters changin room,he's still locked up
zildjian361
11-01-2008, 09:32 AM
I hope you never eat out or as much as buy a drink.
breastfeeding does not just nourish and feed a baby but also quenches thirst. The first few minutes of nursing are a thiner less nourishing milk with less fat content and will take care of the thirst part. It's not like you can go buy the baby a soda or water. duh
i raised 2 daughters ones 20 the other one is 5 neither wife breast feed and there fine. my point was doing it in public.:bye: bye the way thanks for your post when my best friend passed:wink::smile:
mikeyboy
11-01-2008, 10:16 AM
anyways. its legal to walk around topless in nyc ( remember the central pk picnic?)
I sure do.
ESD: (loudly) MIKEY SAYS IT'S LEGAL!
I don't have a problem with public breast feeding at all. Sometimes it's just necessary if you want to maintain any semblance of a normal life. That said, as others have stated, there are ways to do it that are very discrete, so it's advisable to use those methods as respect to people who are uncomfortable with it.
i raised 2 daughters ones 20 the other one is 5 neither wife breast feed and there fine.
Whether or not to breast feed is a personal choice, but there are clear medical benefits to breast feeding, so I feel that anyone who decides to breast feed should not be discouraged from doing so.
sailor
11-01-2008, 10:24 AM
last guy that did that set one up in the female characters changin room,he's still locked up
ah, but in this case they wouldn't have an expectation of privacy.
zildjian361
11-01-2008, 11:44 AM
I sure do.
ESD: (loudly) MIKEY SAYS IT'S LEGAL!
I don't have a problem with public breast feeding at all. Sometimes it's just necessary if you want to maintain any semblance of a normal life. That said, as others have stated, there are ways to do it that are very discrete, so it's advisable to use those methods as respect to people who are uncomfortable with it.
Whether or not to breast feed is a personal choice, but there are clear medical benefits to breast feeding, so I feel that anyone who decides to breast feed should not be discouraged from doing so.
just not in public:wallbash:
Lady Resin
11-01-2008, 03:11 PM
eeew, don't ask a mother to go in the ladies room, would you eat or feed your child a bottle in a rest room? a public one no less? I agree she could cover up, but the ladies room is disgusting to suggest.
think about it- should she sit on a toilet while nursing? especially if she had more kids with her... drag them in there with her... while they run wild in the bathroom or stay crammed in a stall with her... ugh...
I'm sorry I posted this late. I come from an Irish family. I have 32 cousins. We would have occasions when there was events. The moms brought their kids into the bathroom or car to feed the babies. They survived. Now their kids are feeding their babies in discreet or brining the breast milk to events.
keverlast
11-01-2008, 05:27 PM
So many mothers are using those pumps nowadays, especially when an evening out is planned. :thumbup:
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