Is it wrong for men to watch porn?

[brettmojo]

I guess this is a question meant more for the ladies but whatever. Is it wrong for men involved with someone to look at porn? Watch porn movies or surf porn sites? Is it especially wrong for a married man?

Personally I don't see a problem with it and really don't understand the correlation between a guy looking at porn and a guy who cheats. If anything I would think it would placate any cheating... Unless you think it is cheating in itself.

[IamPixie]

Nah. it's no big deal. As long as it's not obsessive.

[~Katja~]

when I was younger and first married it did bother me and I felt strange about it.
These days I may be the one suggesting the sites to look at.

I don't think there is reason to feel cheated on or be jealous and women that are, most likely have a very low self esteem or feel neglected one way or another in the relationship/ marriage

[donnie_darko]

if you're receiving oral at your desk, make sure you know the answer to this question before you start browsing porn.

[JerseyRich]

It's a like a study aid. It's a necessity.

[drjoek]

Is it wrong for the sun to come up ?

[Nothing Sound]

Any woman that gets pissed off because their man is watching porn is just insecure.
I've only been with one girl that didn't like my porn watching. I told her that if she didn't like it, there's the door.

[JPMNICK]

i do not see anything wrong with it, but I am a guy who looks at porn so I might not be so objective.

[TheMojoPin]

For the most part, no, but like anything else in life we do for entertainment, if you're putting it over important aspects of your life too much, then it's an issue.

[Misteriosa]

if my guy watched porn, i'd be fine with it. as was said before in this thread, everything in moderation. if it starts to take over your life, or if you start trying to mold me into whatever you fave porn star looks like, im done with you.

[JerseyRich]

if my guy watched porn, i'd be fine with it. as was said before in this thread, everything in moderation. if it starts to take over your life, or if you start trying to mold me into whatever you fave porn star looks like, im done with you.

Can you just put this wig on? Thanks.

[Ritalin]

Is it wrong for the sun to come up ?

How can you stop the rain from falling down?

[epo]

I thought it was our responsibility?

[KingGeno]

I don't see a prob with the occasional yank job to some amateur brunette porn. As long as it isn't keeping you away from getting it on with your chick, and keeping you away from relationship and family responsibilities, then why not?

But if there is a genuine sexual problem, then it has to be addressed before going to outside sources for your pleasure.

[ScottFromGA]

It's funny....my wife doesn't like me to watch porn, but wants me to buy her a sex toy.


go figure.

[spainlinx0]

I watch porn, and I can tell it sometimes bothers my girl, but she doesn't want to admit it. I just tell her, if you have a problem with me watching porn, then we can have sex instead. If you don't want to have sex when I'm in the mood, then don't complain about what I'm doing instead.

[disneyspy]

oh no oh no ya thats its oh you naughty dirty little slut ya i know what you'd want from the D ya thats it ohya just keep doin that here i come knockin at the door thats right ill fix yo plumbin forget the sink you say wheres my plumbers helper why its right here wheres that music comin from who cares are those real damn you're hot baby ya thats it watch out loaded gun oh no oh no ahhhhhhhhh




no

[PerryWinkle]

if my guy watched porn, i'd be fine with it. as was said before in this thread, everything in moderation. if it starts to take over your life, or if you start trying to mold me into whatever you fave porn star looks like, im done with you.

I actually try to mold my porn stars to look like you :tongue:

[Mullenax]

Is it wrong to watch porn when you're in a relationship? No.
Is it wrong to watch porn that is... just wrong? No.
If you'd rather watch porn than get down, it's almost wrong, but still probably not your fault.

[PerryWinkle]

What about kiddie porn? Any ladies have a problem with that?

[Dougie Brootal]

''its not about right, its not about wrong, its about popular opinion!''

[CousinDave]

Just about all of the women I've known like porn

[OGC]

Any woman that gets pissed off because their man is watching porn is just insecure.
I've only been with one girl that didn't like my porn watching. I told her that if she didn't like it, there's the door.

and then what happened ?

[ahhdurr]

if you're receiving oral at your desk, make sure you know the answer to this question before you start browsing porn.

haha stupid.

(I've maybe been busted on that during the stone age ... i.e. a magazine was within reach)

[cougarjake13]

wong,no

but dont try any moves you may have seen if you dont want her to know

[~Katja~]

wong,no

but dont try any moves you may have seen if you dont want her to know

I don't think Asian porn has many great moves to offer

[Dougie Brootal]

I don't think Asian porn has many great moves to offer

they always blur out the cock

[~Katja~]

they always blur out the cock

I thought just the pubes... they are quite talented at leaving the important parts exposed and cover up the nasty hairs... why not just shave... ya know

[brettmojo]

I thought just the pubes... they are quite talented at leaving the important parts exposed and cover up the nasty hairs... why not just shave... ya know
They don't blur out anything. What you're seeing is the result of residual radiation from Hiroshima.

[Dougie Brootal]

They don't blur out anything. What you're seeing is the result of residual radiation from Hiroshima.

:lol:

[ahhdurr]

:lol:

:smoke:

[RhinoinMN]

How can you stop the rain from falling down?

Yeah!

Blame it on the rain,

that was falling, falling

[A.J.]

Only if you don't jerk off to it.

[Sue_Bender]

Sometimes it's the only option a fella has.


That, or blowing his brains out.

[vagina envy]

My chick thinks that looking at porn is "mental cheating" whatever the fuck that means.

[WhoEvenAreYou]

Not at all. As long as its not obsessive and he doesn't watch it with me around (unless I ask him to turn one on). I mean thats just insulting if I'm in the other room go fuck me.

[torker]

I could pick Peter North's cock out of a police lineup.

[keverlast]

Fuckn ok by my rules

[Dougie Brootal]

I could pick Peter North's cock out of a police lineup.

WTF?!?!?! all mods suck. this is the greatest modquote of all time. and NO ONE has jumped on it yet! this place stinks.

[cougarjake13]

porn is never wrong or wong

[star queen]

according to Shirley I think she is maybe opposed to porn

[zathrus]

Is porn wrong???

if you're a single guy.....no

if you're in a steady relationship, but not living together...only at your place, when alone

if you're in a serious relationship and living together.....yes

if you're married.....you had better f***** better believe that its wrong. Its disrespectful to the person that you are married to.:furious::furious::furious::furious:

With the exception that the spouse doesn't mind or you watch it together.

AS to "mental cheating" it means that if you would cheat with your mind that you are or might as well just go ahead and cheat.

[JPMNICK]

Is porn wrong???

if you're a single guy.....no

if you're in a steady relationship, but not living together...only at your place, when alone

if you're in a serious relationship and living together.....yes

if you're married.....you had better f***** better believe that its wrong. Its disrespectful to the person that you are married to.:furious::furious::furious::furious:

With the exception that the spouse doesn't mind or you watch it together.

AS to "mental cheating" it means that if you would cheat with your mind that you are or might as well just go ahead and cheat.

how is it disrespectful to the person you are married to. it is your personal time, and there really is only a slight difference between Porn and a women watching a soap opera or some other shitty lifetime love story.

[grlNIN]

It's wrong for my boyfriend to watch porn.

He says he doesn't and i believe him but if he does i would rather keep believing he doesn't.

[SatCam]

no wonder I was so shocked when Furie had never heard of Jenna Jameson

[CofyCrakCocaine]

Depends on the type of porn you like- if someone's suffering in the making of it, then I'd personally object. But as the late great Carlin put it: "there's nothing wrong with two guys smashing each other in the nuts with baltine hammers while taking turns blowing their cat- it's a victimless hobby, nobody is hurt- and think of how good the cat must feel!"

"Mental cheating" is a complete bullshit concept that is about as useful to believe in as mental celibacy- unless you think trying your hardest to exist like a Barney character around every other person is emotionally healthy either for them or a serious relationship. All it amounts to is one person in a relationship trying to have total control over the other and I personally have no interest in a shitty deal like that.

And if you have kids, make sure you are Batman with your hidden porn collection (stole that from Chris Rock)

[RoseBlood]

So long as it doesn't become obsessive to the point the rest of the people in his life become secondary to the porn and of course as long as no one's suffering in it, I don't think it is wrong.

Personally, I don't believe it's "mental cheating", if it were than most likely all of us could be accused of mental cheating. To me it's only human to at some point in a relationship to think of someone else whether you want too or not. I don't mean obsessively thinking of someone else or falling in love with another. I mean admiring someone else or finding then attractive etc. We can't necesssarily control where our minds will go but we can control how or if we act on that.

The reason I don't think it's mental cheating is because, it is my understanding men use porn more as visual stimulation to "get off"? There is probably no emotional or mental connection to the women in the porn, who knows?

[lleeder]

If it is then I'm gonna have to jerk off on your ass while your sleeping.

[Hottub]

Been there. Done that.

[TheMojoPin]

Been there. Done that.

lleeder jerking off on your ass as you sleep?

[Hottub]

lleeder jerking off on your ass as you sleep?

Yup.

[Nothing Sound]

Any woman that gets pissed off because their man is watching porn is just insecure.
I've only been with one girl that didn't like my porn watching. I told her that if she didn't like it, there's the door.

and then what happened ?

What do you think happened? We got married.

Eventually divorced, but for other reasons. Porn not being one of them.

[RoseBlood]

What do you think happened? We got married.

Eventually divorced, but for other reasons. Porn not being one of them.

Would your mod-quote have anything to do with it?

[RoseBlood]

lleeder jerking off on your ass as you sleep?



:ohmy: huuuuuurrrrllll

[Nothing Sound]

Would your mod-quote have anything to do with it?

No. That just keeps other people away from me. Just the way I like it.

[Dougie Brootal]

Is porn wrong???

if you're a single guy.....no

if you're in a steady relationship, but not living together...only at your place, when alone

if you're in a serious relationship and living together.....yes

if you're married.....you had better f***** better believe that its wrong. Its disrespectful to the person that you are married to.:furious::furious::furious::furious:

With the exception that the spouse doesn't mind or you watch it together.

AS to "mental cheating" it means that if you would cheat with your mind that you are or might as well just go ahead and cheat.

wow. and that, my friends, is how mcain/palin are gonna pull it off on november 2...:wallbash:

[ChimneyFish]

wow. and that, my friends, is how mcain/palin are gonna pull it off on november 2...:wallbash:

Could not have summed it up any better than this.

[Nothing Sound]

wow. and that, my friends, is how mcain/palin are gonna pull it off on november 2...:wallbash:

What happens on November 2nd?

[ChimneyFish]

What happens on November 2nd?

Armageddon

[cougarjake13]

Armageddon

good thing too

2 days later and the world would end anyway

[Dougie Brootal]

What happens on November 2nd?

youll see!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Nothing Sound]

youll see!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Nice over use of exclamation points.

Real classy.

[Dougie Brootal]

good thing too

2 days later and the world would end anyway

i am an idiot.

[Furtherman]

AS to "mental cheating" it means that if you would cheat with your mind that you are or might as well just go ahead and cheat.

That is bullshit.

What about the people that slip into your dreams? You have no control over that. And anyone who says they only fantasize about their significant others is lying.

[JPMNICK]

That is bullshit.

What about the people that slip into your dreams? You have no control over that. And anyone who says they only fantasize about their significant others is lying.

i agree 100% here

and I also think that regardless of relationship status porn is OK. I would draw the line at strip clubs, I think that could be considered disrespectful by most. But porn is very innocent. In fact, I would rather my chick watch a porn then fantasize about one of her ex's or some dude at work.

[nicco]

I see nothing wrong for a man or women watchin porn and i see nothing wrong w a couple watching together
i think its fun