a scenario for the guys......

[erinmoran]

The girl you are seeing says to you..."i like you better as a friend". Now..you dont think the same way. And you know your the only guy who could treat her right...you know you can. How would you feel or react? What would you say?

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i touched Scott Baios junk

[BrandonKattel]

Her: I like you better as a friend

Me: Can we still bang?

Her: NO!

Me: So, I guess oral is out of the question too

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[Jester]

That is the Kiss of Death. Whenever you hear that it is over for any chances of being more than friends since it basically means I am not attracted to you.

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[TomPoo]

Tell her that you can't "just be friends" cause your feelings are too strong for her.

explain to her, nicely, that it is all or nothing, and that to have a relationship "just as friends" would simply hurt too much.

If she doesn't get it, explain to her that just because her feelings might have faded doesn't mean yours have, and that you simply can't make that huge of an adjustment that quickly for her conveinence.

Maybe after MONTHS of being apart, and adjusting to not being together there may be a chance that a frindship could evolve.

After a week of being seperated, if she doesn't come back your better off.

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[furie]

"But I can make you love me!" should be the answer.

just kidding. Once the 'F' word in envoked, that it. the guy should move on.


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[TheGameHHH]

I always felt that if a girl doesn't like you, she doesn't like you...PERIOD. There is nothing you could say or do to make her be like, "oh, well ok, now I like you more than a friend". If she says she only wants you as a friend, respect the ladies wish, be a friend to her. There is noting I would hate more than a girl I don't like nagging me to be in a relationship with her.

IT'S TIME TO PLAY THE GAME-AHHH!

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[Raven]

I think Jim Norton says it best -- hit her over the head with a shovel

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[Dirtybird11]

friends are better. dont look at it as a step backwards. it COULD be a good sign.

we get it...things are magical. - ron

[JerryTaker]

I totally agree with Jester and TomPoo. it's done, get away. and HHH, I've been in the situation (actually fairly recently) and I was just strung along, and when she starts hanging around with other guys, it broke my heart all over again.
I can't understand how someone can expect you to take it well when told "you're not good enough to be part of my life anymore," especially after over a year of being as close as we were... then again I've also had it happen after a 3-year relationship.

oh well, I stink....

-JerryTaker

"I remember now. I remember how it started. I can't remember yesterday, I just remember doing what they told me"

[MightyMatt]

Yo things could always be worse.... she could like you and want to be with you except one little glitch... she's getting married to the father of her kid b/c thats what society makes you do... oh yeah by the way thats hwat's happening to me :)

AND THAT'S ALL I GOT TO SAY ABOUT THAT
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[The Blowhard]

"Love is friendship caught on fire".

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[Doogie]

I like to aim for the "friends with benefits programs", now that is something that makes everything worthwhile...But staying with the spirit of the discussion, if someone says to you "Lets be friends", now that is it. I hate when women say that men have no sensitivity, yet it seems that men try the hardest in relationships but arent appreciated for it...I hate whenever I overhear an obesce soccer mom say that her husband doesnt do anything for her. I feel like doing him a favor and clubbing her over the head with a spade shovel, and kicking the little veals back into the minivan to push off a cliff...Men do things differently but do put their hearts into things, ladies please appreciate those things. Your man is there for you in ways that you dont know...

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CYA!!!!!!!
"We have met the enemy and he is ours!!!"- Oliver Hazard Perry

[reeshy]

When I got divorced, My idiot ex-wife said to me that we can remain friends. I told her...

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