When does goofing around go too far?

[IkeaBoy]

one of the problems with talking to girls at least as to me when/if i do talk to them i'm never sure when i'd go over the line and then comes charges of harrassment. So anyway, what's the 'line' and how can you tell?

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[F Wad]

when they slap your face after asking them for anal you've gone to far

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This message was edited by F Wad on 11-7-01 @ 5:43 PM

[DreamWeaver]

When you say "How about I stick my cock in your mouth"..thats usually when you've gone too far.

[TheGameHHH]

Ikea, I think you yourself make the line in the begining of the relationship. With all my girlfriends I am very open. I talk with them about sex and I joke with them about having it to. I have done this since the first day we knew each other, and they have been fine with it because they know it is part of my personality. If you immediatly come off as conservative and then become sexual, they might take offense. So my adivce is draw the line yourself, and then work the relationship from there.

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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

There are two types of girls:
girls you want to *F* and
girls who will be your
buddies. With the girls who
are your buddies, you can
pretty much say whatever you
want to them (except the C
word and the phrases "You're
fat," and "Is that a
mustache?"). Now with the
girls you want to *F*, tone it
down initially. If she's
REALLY cool she'll be the kind
of girl you want to *F* who
can also be your bud!

It's not an easy find (trust
me, they are probably the most
overlooked chicks!). You have
to feel out the situation--
you'll know the difference
between a prissy girl and a
cool girl!

Hope this helped a little!!


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[Sheeplovr]

When you say wahts really on your mind cause you know what your thinking everyones a dirty bird

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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

No, Sheeplovr, that rule isn't
dfor everybody!


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[RF Godfather]

...when you touch the "funny bags" or "must touch de heiny!"

Maybe when you pass the 3rd base coach on a stop sign and try to drive it home!

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[Jennitalia]

when it "accidentally" slips in the wrong hole

[fatty]

sometimes they wake up in my closet and start kicking the door, then i think maybe i've gone to far. but then i figure what are big brothers for?

it's true,
it's damn true!

[Sheeplovr]

sorry mom

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[Sabotage]

Goofing around usually ends right around the time the ether rag drys up. Parties over!

[TooCute]

No, seriously. It seems to
me most likely you will
know. I mean, I have
various guy friend who I
have absolutely no intention
of ever hooking up with, yet
we screw around and talk
shit about sex and stuff all
the time. I think you play it by
ear, but your best bet is, if
you're ever at all uncertain,
just ask, hey, am I making
you uncomfortable? or
whatever, and if you are,
hopefullly she will have the
balls to say yeah. Or even if
you get some sort of
noncommittal non
confrontational answer... lay
off. If she really doesn't
mind it she'll probably retort
with some lewd comment.
Well, at least I would :)


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[Jennitalia]

i agree with thegame, alice and too cute.
if the girl is uncomfortable or is offended, chances are you'll know right away.




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[Pootertoot]

Ikea, you can never go too far with me, big boy. I'll meet you at the motel with my ballbag ready.

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[Se7en]

Example of going too far: Turning to the man next to you and saying, in your Irish accent, "Pantera, I'm going to be fucking with your girlfriend tonight."

And I shoot the shit about sex with my lady friends all the time. Usually, though, it winds up disturbing them and thus cancels any chances I might have for sex with them. Whatever. If you didn't want to know about that day I spent in the massage parlor, you shouldn't have asked me.

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[stump12]

you just have ot feel them out,not litterally. most ofthe girls i know would prob be offended if they had just met the person, but it doesnt take long till you can go over that line.


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thanks WWFallon

[erinmoran]

As soon as she starts using terms like "dildos", "my tits", "my pussy" and "hidin things in my ass"....then you can say whatver you want.

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[Noellevious]

To be general, when she stops smiling/laughing, you've gone over the line. But you can redeem yourself by acknowledging your mistake, and apologizing.

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[EffMeBoobs]

When she slaps the shit out of you and spits in your face, I'd say you've gone too far.

Just like Fuzzybutt said it all depends on how much a female friend can hack. If she has a really laid back, cool sense of humor, like she can be one of the guys then there is no going over the line with words. If you mean physical things well that all depends on the situation. If you're both lonely and horny...why not? hehe
If she prissy and prude then it sucks to be you basically.

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[Arienette]

it really depends on the girl. best way to know what you're dealing with? do/say something that's a little more than what you'd normally do and she'd expect. once you see her reaction, you'll know... if she's annoying and can't deal, you're probably better off anyway

i'd generally just ask a guy if i can lick them. once i do(assuming they say yes, of course), they know what to expect from me. it really works out quite nicely for everyone...

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