can/shud i change her

[patsopinion]

<p>I got this chick that i just started seeing and she bugs the shit out of me</p><p>She is sooooo uptight, and constantly needs to interject</p><p>unfortunatley she is almost a mirror image of myself as far as personality so maybe i just bug myself? </p><p>is it possible or worth trying to change her to be more relaxed, calm, intresting?<br /> </p>

[Team_Ramrod]

<p>This is only Ramsopinion but it is my experience that it is not wise to try to change a significant other....man or woman. It&nbsp;can be done with some work but in the end it WILL end up biting you in the ass because she will resent you for it. I'd just say that you either find out your true feelings over a period of time or if you know you can't stand her just break it off before it goes too far and she gets hurt badly. For her sake, don't try to change who she is just because.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>This post has been ramsopinion.</p>

[Furtherman]

<strong>patsopinion</strong> wrote:<br /><p>is it possible or worth trying to change her to be more relaxed, calm, intresting?</p><p>No, it is not possible.&nbsp; </p>

[cupcakelove]

Its not possible, and don't expect her to change over time.

[Jujubees2]

<p><font size="2">As a wise man once told me:</font></p><p><font size="2">&quot;A women marries a man hoping to change him; A man marries a woman hoping that she'll never change&quot;.</font></p><p><font size="2">So no, it'll never work.</font></p>

[Chigworthy]

Get as many blowjobs as you can before you leave.

[foodcourtdruide]

<strong>patsopinion</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I got this chick that i just started seeing and she bugs the shit out of me</p><p>She is sooooo uptight, and constantly needs to interject</p><p>unfortunatley she is almost a mirror image of myself as far as personality so maybe i just bug myself? </p><p>is it possible or worth trying to change her to be more relaxed, calm, intresting?</p><p>If you have so many negative feelings about her, why are you even seeing her? </p>

[jeffdwright2001]

<p>Ask yourself:</p><p>What Wud Ron Do?</p><p>Not to be confused with:</p><p>What?&nbsp; Wood?&nbsp; Fez Do!</p>

[reillyluck]

<strong>Jujubees2</strong> wrote:<br /><p><font size="2">As a wise man once told me:</font></p><p><font size="2">&quot;A women marries a man hoping to change him; A man marries a woman hoping that she'll never change&quot;.</font></p><p><font size="2">So no, it'll never work.</font></p><p>I Concur.&nbsp; Great saying Jujubees!</p>

[Dougie Brootal]

<strong>Chigworthy</strong> wrote:<br />Get as many blowjobs as you can before you leave. <p>SERIOUSLY.</p>

[led37zep]

I think you need a good ol' fashion hate fuck to set her right. Either that or a teddy bear that says &quot;I Wuv U&quot; on it.&nbsp; I'm torn.

[jeffdwright2001]

<strong>led37zep</strong> wrote:<br />I think you need a good ol' fashion hate fuck to set her right. Either that or a teddy bear that says &quot;I Wuv U&quot; on it.&nbsp; <strong>I'm torn.</strong> <p>Good advice.&nbsp; And lube will prevent that problem of yours from happening next time.</p>

[AngelAmy]

if you dont like her why are you with her?

[RoseBlood]

<strong>patsopinion</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I got this chick that<font style="background-color: #ffff00"> i just started seeing</font> and she bugs the shit out of me </p><p>Just wait till the honeymoon's over.</p><p>&nbsp;</p>

[SatCam]

pics

[Snacks]

<strong>Jujubees2</strong> wrote:<br /><p><font size="2">As a wise man once told me:</font></p><p><font size="2">&quot;A women marries a man hoping to change him; A man marries a woman hoping that she'll never change&quot;.</font></p><p><font size="2">So no, it'll never work.</font></p><p>Hopefully that same wiseman also said a man shouldnt change either?</p>

[sailor]

<strong>foodcourtdruide</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>patsopinion</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I got this chick that i just started seeing and she bugs the shit out of me</p><p>She is sooooo uptight, and constantly needs to interject</p><p>unfortunatley she is almost a mirror image of myself as far as personality so maybe i just bug myself? </p><p>is it possible or worth trying to change her to be more relaxed, calm, intresting?</p><p>If you have so many negative feelings about her, why are you even seeing her? </p><p>&nbsp;<font size="2">i totally agree.&nbsp; you either like the overall package or you don't.&nbsp; decide which of those two fits you and act accordingly.<br /></font></p>

[lindak]

<p>trust me..........no one will change,&nbsp;you are who you are and thats my final answer. &nbsp;</p><p>If she irritates you now, it will only get worse.&nbsp; Get out and move on.</p>

[ralphbxny]

<p>get some sex and get out. She aint changing !</p>

[WhistlePig]

You shouldn't go into a relationship planning on changing someone. That person
obviously isn't for you. A good match is embracing each other's differences.

[Bossanova]

<p>If she is in fact a mirror image of you, I ask this question.&nbsp; Could you ever be changed into another person?&nbsp; If not, Ima have to say no chance.</p>

[TheVHD]

There's no way your going to change her... you know this already or you wouldn't have even posted the question.&nbsp; I think you want affirmation... which is fine.&nbsp; In my experience when you have someone &quot;special&quot; you can look at them and in your heart say &quot;Holy shit... I really love her&quot;.&nbsp; That happens only 1 or 2 times in your life.&nbsp; If you don't feel that... then take it for what it's worth or let her go and be a good guy.&nbsp;

[DonInNC]

<strong>patsopinion</strong> wrote:<br /><p>I got this chick that i just started seeing and she bugs the shit out of me</p><p>That's not supposed to happen until after your married.</p><p>And no,&nbsp;I don't think you can change being uptight - that's part of a person's foundation.</p>

[boeman]

<p>vicodin... it'll calm her down if you give it to her...</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>you won't care anymore if you take it.</p>

[cougarjake13]

she prob aint gonna change so get what you can and get out

[patsopinion]

she wants to move in with me now..............

[led37zep]

Are you going to let her?

[ralphbxny]

Dude get away...the longer you let this go the worse it will be.

[King Hippos Bandaid]

<p>I always Say </p><p>Women Cant Live with them, End Quote</p>

<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by fezhaspeaked on 2-27-07 @ 5:10 PM</span>

[Yerdaddy]

I totally thought you were a chick until I read this thread. So if lezbo sex isn't a factor then I got nothin.