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<p>Have you ever remembered something someone has said (let's say a significant other) from a long time ago and it still reverberates in your head? I have a tendancy to remember EVERYTHING people say to me....and I find that even though a comment might have been made years ago I still remember it, or worse; I still resent what that person said. </p><p>Does anyone else do this or is it just me?</p>
<p>I have one! My ex-girlfriend once complained that "you only take me to Italian restaurants". In hindsight I should have showed some testicular fortitude and replied to her with "First, you never offered any suggestions and second, you never complained when I was paying for you."</p><p>I also remember my Dad's advice to me about women: "It's always someone's daughter".</p>
Don Stugots
09-07-2006, 09:17 AM
<p> i do it. it is fucking scary what i can remember. in my line of work it comes in handy. i remember what someone said then when they put it in writing and its not the same (to cover their ass) i call them out on it. </p><p>when i am arguing with my chick i turn it up a notch and she gets so pissed. i should have been a lawyer. </p>
<strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br /><p> i do it. it is fucking scary what i can remember. in my line of work it comes in handy. i remember what someone said then when they put it in writing and its not the same (to cover their ass) i call them out on it. </p><p>when i am arguing with my chick i turn it up a notch and she gets so pissed. i should have been a lawyer. </p><p>HAHA! I find what I can remember scary as well.....good to know Im not the only freak out there.</p>
Furtherman
09-07-2006, 09:39 AM
<strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Have you ever remembered something someone has said (let's say a significant other) from a long time ago and it still reverberates in your head? I have a tendancy to remember EVERYTHING people say to me....and I find that even though a comment might have been made years ago I still remember it, or worse; I still resent what that person said. </p><p>Does anyone else do this or is it just me?</p><p>I remember more bad times/lines than good time/lines.</p><p> </p><p>I hate it.</p>
Don Stugots
09-07-2006, 09:43 AM
<strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br /><p> i do it. it is fucking scary what i can remember. in my line of work it comes in handy. i remember what someone said then when they put it in writing and its not the same (to cover their ass) i call them out on it. </p><p>when i am arguing with my chick i turn it up a notch and she gets so pissed. i should have been a lawyer. </p><p>HAHA! I find what I can remember scary as well.....good to know Im not the only freak out there.</p><p>who you calling a freak? just joshin. at least we are in good company.</p>
jeffdwright2001
09-07-2006, 09:46 AM
<p>This is why I only say negative things to Fallon and the other folks in <a href="http://www.ronfez.net/messageboard/viewmessages.cfm/Forum/75/Topic/52119/page/Hello__nice_to_meet_you.htm" target="_self">this thread</a>.</p><p>They can't even remember my name, let alone what I call THEM.</p>
<strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br /><p>who you calling a freak? just joshin. at least we are in good company.</p><p>YOU...wanna wrestle??!</p><p> HAHA...</p><p> </p><p>and Furtherman, I hate it too....it seems to be a big problem for me. I guess I am overly sensative ...and most of the things I remember happen to come from someone who is just naturally very crass....that doesnt help either. </p>
<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Gaia on 9-7-06 @ 1:52 PM</span>
JustJon
09-07-2006, 10:31 AM
<p><span class="postbody">just joshin</span></p><p>It's spelled Just Jon and it hurts that you called me a freak. </p>
Don Stugots
09-07-2006, 10:38 AM
<strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br /><p>who you calling a freak? just joshin. at least we are in good company.</p><p>YOU...wanna wrestle??!</p><p>after looking at your myspace page i have decided that i would love to, thanks for asking. promise me you wont be gentle.</p>
<p>ohhh thank you...that's flattering.</p><p> <font size="4">I'M GOING TO KICK YOUR FUCKING ASS....</font></p>
<span class=post_edited>This message was edited by Gaia on 9-7-06 @ 2:59 PM</span>
HeyGuy
09-07-2006, 11:02 AM
<strong>Furtherman</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><p>Have you ever remembered something someone has said (let's say a significant other) from a long time ago and it still reverberates in your head? I have a tendancy to remember EVERYTHING people say to me....and I find that even though a comment might have been made years ago I still remember it, or worse; I still resent what that person said. </p><p>Does anyone else do this or is it just me?</p><p>I remember more bad times/lines than good time/lines.</p><p> </p><p>I hate it.</p><p>Me too! I remember bad things all the time, but good things slip my mind. I hate it as well!</p>
<p>Ummm How about also remembering EXACTLY what you were wearing at the time the comment was made as well as where you were etc. Eg; Penn station, waiting for a train to get in so we could go home, it was late October like 2 years ago, I was wearing Jeans, boots, black sweater. We were eating lunch and a comment was made about an ex that I wont forget, it made me feel like I could never live up to I guess that persons memory or what he felt about her....for lack of a better term.</p><p>I torture myself with this shit....not just this experience, but others....</p>
ChimneyFish
09-07-2006, 11:52 AM
<strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><strong>STUGOTS1</strong> wrote:<br /><p> i do it. it is fucking scary what i can remember. in my line of work it comes in handy. i remember what someone said then when they put it in writing and its not the same (to cover their ass) i call them out on it. </p><p>when i am arguing with my chick i turn it up a notch and she gets so pissed. i should have been a lawyer. </p><p>HAHA! I find what I can remember scary as well.....good to know Im not the only freak out there.</p><p><strong><em><font face="georgia,times new roman,times,serif" size="2">Strange. I find it quite scary what I <u>can't</u> remember.</font></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><font face="Georgia" size="2">Is it possible Alheimers to start showing up in a person's late 20's????(believe it or not, a serious question)</font></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><font face="Georgia" size="2">I stopped smoking illegal substances four years ago, and I find my memory just keeps getting worse as the time goes by.</font></em></strong></p>
Don Stugots
09-07-2006, 11:58 AM
<strong>Gaia</strong> wrote:<br /><p>ohhh thank you...that's flattering.</p><p> <font size="4">I'M GOING TO KICK YOUR FUCKING ASS....</font></p><span class="post_edited">This message was edited by Gaia on 9-7-06 @ 2:59 PM</span> <p>can you wear a catholic school uniform with the stockings when you do?</p>
jeffdwright2001
09-07-2006, 11:58 AM
<strong>ChimneyFish</strong> wrote:<br /><p><strong><em><font face="georgia,times new roman,times,serif" size="2" /></em></strong></p><strong><em><font face="Georgia" size="2">Is it possible Alheimers to start showing up in a person's late 20's????</font></em></strong><p>Al Heimer . . . is he related to Wisen Heimer?</p><p>Don't sweat it. You just need to catch a few z's. Although, even one would be a good start.</p>
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