Personal Question

[NewYorkDragons80]

I... have a friend. :) My friend doesn't have much of a sexual drive at the age of 16. I like women and I have a girlfriend, but while all my friends are acting on impulses, I don't feel the need to.

I want to wait for marriage. Part of it is religious, but I don't feel this way out of fear of God. Is something wrong with me?

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[HordeKing1]

NewYorkDragons80 - Everyone has a different level of sexual drive. Yours may tend towards the lower end of the spectrum.

Many things can diminish sexual desire, including medications like antidepressants and blood pressure medication. (These, particularly the antidepressants can cause loss of libido, delayed orgasms, impotence and the like.)

Some medical conditions, such as low testosterone, pituitary problems and I believe thyroid conditions can cause this as well.

Finally, some psychological states, such as depression can cause a marked decrease in libido.

It is essntial to get this checked out on all fronts. I'd start with a good internist so your blood levels can be checked. It's possible that she might refer you to an endrocronologist and or psychologist.

But these are precautionary. It's very possible, that you just have a low libido because that's the way you are. It's not a big deal and shouldn't bother you.

As far as waiting until marriage; good for you! There is nothing wrong with waiting and there is nothing wrong with not waiting. Just stick to your convictions.

Here's something you may want to consider. You want to wait until marriage to have sex. However you may feel tempted to do so sooner. In response to this you might unconsciously reduce your libidinal urges so as to make it easier to wait. In other words your low libido may be a defense mechanism from your dystonic thoughts of having pre-marital sex (even if the thoughts are not acknowledged). Most defense mechanisms are normal, healthy and adaptive.

Get yourself checked out to ensure there is no underlying condition. If not, be assured, that having a low libido, or for that matter wanting to wait until marriage, does not mean that there is anything wrong with you.

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[Captain Rooster]

There is nothing wrong with waiting! Don't buy into the B.S. that all men must have 1000 different partners or they are less of a man.

You can wait - that is really commendable - just live as you see fit - don't live for the crowd, or because somebody asked you why you can't get laid! Any LOSER can get laid - It takes a MAN to make love to a woman!

Stay strong - you have the right idea friend - stick to your guns!

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[IkeaBoy]

there is nothing wrong with having a low sex drive--if you're a faggot!!

Seriously though, is your girlfriend hot because that could have something to do with it.

I don't think there's anything wrong about having a supposedly lower than average sex drive as long as you are comfortable with yourself. You have a girlfriend so that does say that you do have an interest in the opposite sex as far as relationships go. As long as your comfortable with yourself, anything goes. And remember there are other and worse ways to view the "fairer" sex.

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[The Blowhard]

Uh, Rooster...kids get laid, OK? ;)

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[Gvac]

Hey, HK!

I have this, uh, friend, and he seems to have an abnormally HIGH sex drive. He is in his 30's, and yet he still feels like a teenager! I,uh, I mean HE, just seems to really like women. A lot. A whole lot. A real whole lot. Anything wrong with me? I mean HIM?

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[Captain Rooster]

Heckler - Young adults are banging all over the place - the youth of today is more sexually active now than ever before.

I am talking about being having sex in general - any loser can just have sex.

Ithink if the dude wants to wait he should not second guess himself - he should be confident in his decisions.

In general - we are too wishy washy in our decisions. Decisiveness and confidence seems to be waning these days.


NewYorkDragons80 i am with you dude - you do what is right for you. There is nothing wrong with you!

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[TomPoo]

Don't buy into the B.S. that all men must have 1000 different partners or they are less of a man


yea its more like 2000,

No seriously though remember one thing, it is not the quantity, its the quality!!!

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[reeshy]

Uh,Heckler..I have this friend..you know.. he tells me that when he drops his trou, well, you know.. the girl usually screams," you ain't coming near me with that thing". What can I do...I mean...what should I tell my friend?
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[Gvac]

when he drops his trou, well, you know.. the girl usually screams," you ain't coming near me with that thing". What can I do...


Hey, reeshy, I thought you were Irish.

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[HordeKing1]

The point isn't that waiting or not-waiting makes one morally superior; it doesn't.

What's important is that one sticks to one's belief and doesn't do anything b/c he or she feels pressured to do it.


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[HordeKing1]

NewYorkDragons80 - Your question is fine and should not embarass you in any way. I admire that you had the self-confidence to ask.

Now, as for the rest of these jokers...

GVAC - Tell your "friend" that his abnormally high sex drive is overcompensation for his unusually small penis. But, he shouldn't worry. There are no nerve endings in the vagina after the first 2 or 3 inches, so his girlfriend won't even notice, especially if she's as naiive and inexperienced as Al Dukes wants his girlfriend to be! ;)


REESHY - Your "friend" has nothing to worry about either. A rich fantasy life is wonderful, as it represents an active and imaginative mind. His fantasy about women fleeing from his "weapon" is tied to his insecurity about his penis size. I suspect he has spent a lot of time in the men's room "comparing." But that doesn't make him a bad person - just a person with a tiny dick and an overactive imagination! ;)

Anyone else have friends out there that need help?

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[reeshy]

Yea Hordeking,

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[IkeaBoy]

i too have a friend who is really awful with women, can't really start conversations with them, they (with rare exceptions) don't particularly like him. pretty sexually inexperienced and simultaneously wonders what it's like to fuck them and what their head would look like on a stick. he doesn't think about beating them up though.

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[Gvac]

GVAC - Tell your "friend" that his abnormally high sex drive is overcompensation for his unusually small penis

Uncanny! It's as if you actually know me, uh my friend! I meant my friend ! I did! I swear!
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All this talk about small penis' is making me very self aware about my very large member.. i mean WHAT? umm **cough**

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