i'm terrified of marriage

[GwEnYpOo]

I am so scared of the notion that it's expected of me to get married one day , and i'm gonna take a shot in the dark and say that i don't think it's normal for me to be feeling this way or even thinking about it.(sinc i'm so young and girls are supposed to be the one's who love the iidea of marriage)
i'm just really scared of shit like having a routine, kids, being tied down. not neccesarily to one person , i don't think i would ever cheat or feel the need to , but thre's that lingering fear , what if i get board of that person , or what if he gets board of me, and the only way out is divorce . and then if there are kids that makes the divorce a whole lot messier and it fucks up the kids.
i m just relly scared of being that faggy ass soccer mom , dragging the kids around while my husband goes around behind my back bangin someone younger and hotter than me .
BTW i posted thins because i need someone to talk to about this and i really don't want to hear anyone's stupid comments :(


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This message was edited by GwEnYpOo on 10-15-03 @ 4:49 PM

[StupidGirlllll]

try to marry some1 Amish....

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[StupidGirlllll]

try to marry some1 Amish....

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[Snoogans]

BTW i posted thins because i need someone to talk to about this and i really don't want to hear anyone's stupid comments

i think because of that statement, you wont have a choice. People are gonna add dumb shit, just dont pay attention

as for the advice, i wish i could help you better but im never getting married and as of now think its stupid. only thing is, every person i know who is married would have told you the same thing when they were 20 and now they are married. my advice, dont think about it at all, because by the time you have to cross that bridge, you'll be alot older, alot more ready to deal with those thoughts you have now, and alot more mature in the way people look at things.
If then you still dont wanna get married, dont, but dont worry about it so soon

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[Heavy]

You have good reason to feel this way fake gwen. Never get married. He will lie, cheat and steal, and so will you. You're only like 8 anyway.

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This message was edited by johneewadd on 10-15-03 @ 4:59 PM

[GwEnYpOo]

im 14 and im not "fake gwen''

deek


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[Melrapuo]

you're 14. you have at least 4 years to go. worry about something else.

I'm 16. I've thought about this. Doesn't bother me. It's just another part of life.

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[Furtherman]

I'm 30 in 11 days and I don't even think about it!

Don't waste your time worrying about it.

[Arienette]

it's normal to be scared of stuff like this. marriage is a huge deal, and not enough people take it seriously. i think it's good that you think about it, and are being realistic about it... just don't think about it so much. you have plenty of time before you need to start considering things like that. even then, marriage isn't for everyone. i just wouldn't stress out about it so much, especially since it's really not an issue for you right now.

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[guttersnipe]

If you're scared of it, don't do it.
If you're still scared of it when you're 20, 30, 40, don't do it.

P.S. Stay scared of it.




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[high fly]

There's nothing to be scared of.
It may be a good idea to not engage in stereotypes about what it's all about.
There can be much joy in having children, a house, picket fence and all that; as well as a spouse that is all the world to you and knowing you are the same to them, and that you don't have to worry about growing old alone.

Relax, enjoy being 14, do things appropriate for someone of your age.
When you are an adult, some adult things will not seem like they do now.


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[furie]

i'm terrified


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[JohnnyCash]

Dont be scared of it. If one day you feel ready then do it. If you dont feel ready dont do it. You have a while to go before you should be thinking about marriage anyway.

Always remeber the Man In Black.

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