Im too nice

[ag]

So theres this girl who I was "Seeing" I say Seeing cause were arent anything yet and wanted to take it slow on he behalf. Thursday we talked about maybe making things happen as far a a relationship and all that bullshit. Now all my good freinds warned me that the girl is full of shit blah blah blah and shes fuckign with my head. coughcoughkatylinacoughcough. So I was invited to this party On friday night where I saw her flirting with someother "Guy freind" as she called it. It made me really really pissed off to see that shit and to kinda ignore my freinds advice. Sunday I was hanging out at the same bar that she goes to with my good freind. Ignoring that other girl at all cost. <p>Ok Long story short, Monday morning (7:30 when I got home) I wrote her a pretty nasty email telling her to fuck off and that what everyone said about her was right. She wrote back explaining her actions and that she was just talking with one of her guy freinds this and that bullshit. Dismissing it and telling myself that it was a lie I had no intention of ever talking to this girl again. All day long Monday I just had this feeling as if I had done something wrong, something that was uncalled for. I suckered myself in to writing an appology to her. Now I have to call this bitch and say all this shit how Im sorry. Im going to tell her straight up that shes a nice person and all but I dont see anything besides an aquantance. Even saying that makes me feal mean and like Im being an asshole. Its fucking pissing me off that im to nice after all this shit. I mean I want to so badly tell her off again but I cant do that? How do you explain saying fuck you, no Im sorry , then fuck you again? Not my style. ARG!!! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

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[Johnny Fontane]

You fucked up, you should have listened to your friend Kat. She's your ally, but unfortunately you chose to listen to your dick and/or your ego.

My suggestion is quit while you're ahead - don't stick around for her amusement. However, if you feel compelled to pursue this bitch, take the approach that this guy would take:

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Do you think this guy would call this bitch to explore this matter further?

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[nickeye]

you chose to listen to your dick


I once knew a guy from Martha's Vineyard who could do that.

Actually, maybe it was that other island...

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[sr71blackbird]

The bridge is burned behind you now, Im afraid my friend. Id just be wary as she attempts to make it "right" because if you do take her back now, you will, I assure you, live to see her rub it in your face time and time again. Some roads cannot be travelled back upon. My advice? Move on. My reasoning? A girl will do everything possible to make herself appear to be innocent in your eyes, but she will harbor resentment for your initial distrust of her. All women will punish you for that. Despite what they say, its their nature to defend their honor when a man will not do it for them. For it is a womans nature to defend that honor at all costs (as it should be).


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[Death Metal Moe]

Being nice has really done nothing for me in my life.

Be a rude prick.

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[Meatball]

like jerry seinfeld says " the best revenge is living well". this is very true. Put your efforts into finding someone who makes you happy. She is out there - why expend so much energy on someone who doesnt want to be with you? I also learned NOT to try to change yourself. Who says being nice is wrong? That doesnt mean you cant take good care of yourself. You feel rejected and you wanna tell her off. Dont bother - anger just keeps you invested into the situation and delays you getting on with your life.

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[ag]

Being nice has really done nothing for me in my life.
I used to be like that Moe, telling everyone to fuck off and die, but my mouth has gotten the best of me and me in trouble that after years of being like that I leanred my lesson. However there is alway the silent treatment, seeing her out somewhere and just walking away making believe those huge ass hubcaps arent flopping around in the wind................errr I mean shes not there.

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[mdr55]

Why the fuck do you care about that girl's feelings (unless you still want to get some). Just tell her how you feel (It's okay to be angry and bitter- after all she played you like a violin)-"I feel like you used me, to advantage of my liking you, blah, blah blah". "I really hate your fucking guts right now, and would prefer if you didn't talk to me". If I'm an asshole, so be it. At least I'm being true to myself." (Here's the kicker) Now that I got all this shit off my chest, if you still want to get together, even though I said all this shit, maybe we can see if we can work it out." (See angry and nice could work together)(But, after all she's done to you, You would be better of Dr0pping her)(BUT then again, if your other head got to get some, then jump to it!)


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[Death Metal Moe]

I used to be like that Moe, telling everyone to fuck off and die


I don't do that. I won't go out of my way to be mean, but I'm sick of being nice to people who don't deserve it.

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[ag]

Well ok I didnt tell her to go fuck her self, I pretty much told her that we should be good aquantences, which in my eyes means I dont want to be freinds with you but who knows what the future holds, if I see you out and you blow me in the bathroom, yea Ill give good thought about talking to you again

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[Johnny Fontane]

if I see you out and you blow me in the bathroom, yea Ill give good thought about talking to you again


Ah, yes, romance...

I was thinking of this topic earlier today and had a flashback to 1986. I met this girl at a party and spent the better part of the night flirting with her, trying to pick her up.

A few days later I see her in the classroom, and she starts advertising how I was trying to pick her up at this party - not whispering, just announcing to the whole class that I was trying to pick her up.

Of course I was very embarrassed - I felt like I was being mocked. Once the class began, I just sat there seething, unable to pay attention to the lecture. It got to the point where I just got up and walked out of class.

I let her know through a mutual friend that I was extremely pissed and that she should stay the hell away from me (in other words, I was a big baby about it). So then the girl got my number, called me, and said that she was sorry and that she liked me and she was glad that I was coming on to her at the party - she wanted me to come on to her.

Unfortunately, there was no happy ending to this story. She stopped coming to that class, and I hardly ever saw her again.

So what's my point...oh yeah - instead of being a big baby when she embarrassed me in class, I should have said something like this (half-serious, half-sarcastic):

"Well, of course I was coming on to you at the party, how could I not, you were obviously the most beautiful girl there."

If I had done that - if I had played it cool - then maybe I could have had something with this girl. Instead, I let my ego get in the way.

...ok, I hope you enjoyed my memoirs.

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"Well, of course I was coming on to you at the party, how could I not, you were obviously the most beautiful girl there."
If I had done that - if I had played it cool - then maybe I could have had something with this girl. Instead, I let my ego get in the way.
...ok, I hope you enjoyed my memoirs.


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[Arienette]

i have this problem, too, and i always have. i tried to change, but you can't really change what you are. instead, now i just try not to get taken advantage of. while it doesn't always work, there is a difference between being (even overly) nice to people and getting fucked over. sometimes the difference isn't that obvious, but it's there.

ag, forget this girl. from everything i've heard, she is completely just not worth the time or the effort. you're a good guy, she's a bitch. i may be too nice, but even i know when to cut my losses. you really have no choice here, blow job or not.

flashback to 1986ah yes... third grade, i remember you well.

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[keithy_19]

yea...i'm every girls friend..."we're too good of friends." oh thanks, that makes me feel great...i guess you do have to be a total jackass

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[Johnny Fontane]

yea...i'm every girls friend..."we're too good of friends." oh thanks, that makes me feel great...i guess you do have to be a total jackass


It never hurts to have girls as friends. If you're hanging out with beautiful girls, other girls will notice. It gives you a tremendous advantage.

Ladies, am I right?



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[mdr55]

It never hurts to have girls as friends. If you're hanging out with beautiful girls, other girls will notice. It gives you a tremendous advantage.


Ya... they'll notice that you ain't pounding them so you must be gay or something. Not that it makes you a bad person.
Why would a guy waste his time "HANGING" with beutiful girls if there ain't no hope of GETTING some?
EDIT: Unless he was in love with one of them.

Fight the Establishment. Down with censorship!!

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[Death Metal Moe]

There's nothing wrong with having girls just as friends. But if it happens to often you'll just end up pissed off, bitter and aggravated.

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[Johnny Fontane]

Ya... they'll notice that you ain't pounding them so you must be gay or something. Not that it makes you a bad person.
Why would a guy waste his time "HANGING" with beutiful girls if there ain't no hope of GETTING some?
EDIT: Unless he was in love with one of them.


Trust me on this. When I was in college my best friend was an a massive dork. I never gave it any thought at the time, but after I graduated I realized that girls automatically assumed that I was a dork for hanging with him. So I was already at a disadvantage - I had to prove myself.

When I worked at a nightclub, I was surrounded by cute waitresses dressed as cheerleaders. They would visit me at the door when things were slow. Women noticed - they automatically assumed that I must be a cool guy. It was a tremendous advantage.

The only downside to having girls as friends is if they are not really your friends. If they are using you, forget it.







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[mdr55]

Trust me on this. When I was in college my best friend was an a massive dork. I never gave it any thought at the time, but after I graduated I realized that girls automatically assumed that I was a dork for hanging with him. So I was already at a disadvantage - I had to prove myself.

When I worked at a nightclub, I was surrounded by cute waitresses dressed as cheerleaders. They would visit me at the door when things were slow. Women noticed - they automatically assumed that I must be a cool guy. It was a tremendous advantage.



Hmmm......sounds like the premise for the movie "Can't Buy me Love"....which was a good movie buy the way.

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[SilentSpic]

Im too nice

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[gone]

Ant man, listen the girl is the nipple devil. i know you well enough to know you deserve soooo much better. this girl soo two faced. that sunday she totally ignored me cause i was there talking to you... so then i see her this past saturday and she like "ALI HI!!!!" as if i were her best friend. i was polite enough to say hi but all i could think of was "you fake bitch" but i have the too nice issue too..

it gets easier ant, and you will find someone perfect for you.. it just takes time.

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[JohnnyCash]

Just put it all behind you. chicks fuck with your head in the worst ways. I dont think theres such a thing as being "too nice". You can be as nice as you want, just dont be a wimp. I have heard from girls that the ''too nice' thing just means the guys a doormat.

Watch M*A*S*H*

[ag]

Ive put it all behind I dont want anything to do with this cook. BTW JohnnyCash is the best SN Ive seen! Remind me Ill make you A SIG cause of your SN. Even though Im not the biggest fan of him, hes good to listen to when your wacked outta your mind camping upstate

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[keithy_19]

Metal Moe was right, it just makes me bitter and angry

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im nice too

[Johnny Fontane]

I just had a flashback today about being too nice. I was working at this bar in college, and this waitress that I liked asked me if I wanted to go with her to the diner after work. I was totally into this girl, so common sense dictated that I should have gone with her alone.

But no, I had to go and invite one of the other doormen that I worked with to come along with us. Being the dumbass that I was, I had no idea that girls found him incredibly attractive. So long story short, we went out and let's just say they hit it off. What a fucking moron I was.


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[mdr55]

Please tell me you didn't pay for their meal too. If you did, your not nice, just plain stupid.

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[Johnny Fontane]

Please tell me you didn't pay for their meal too. If you did, your not nice, just plain stupid.


Good question. I doubt it, but I probably split the bill with the golden boy.

Wow, after I typed that sentence above, I suddenly had to take a shit. I wonder if the memory of this incident acted as a laxative. The funny thing is that I never wear my glasses in the bathroom, but I had them on so I got a clear view of my own shit. I haven't seen my shit that clearly in 25 years.

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[mdr55]

I doubt it, but I probably split the bill with the golden boy.


SO the chick didn't pay? Wasn't she the one who INITIATED going out to dinner. What gives?

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[Johnny Fontane]

SO the chick didn't pay? Wasn't she the one who INITIATED going out to dinner. What gives?


OK, don't make me shit again...

This was a long time ago - 1986. I don't remember, but I'm damn sure the girl didn't pay the bill. If anything, she paid a portion.

One more thing...we were working the night of Game 6 of the '86 World Series. This girl actually came to the front door and told me that the Red Sox had won the World Series. What an idiot.

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[mdr55]

One more thing...we were working the night of Game 6 of the '86 World Series. This girl actually came to the front door and told me that the Red Sox had won the World Series. What an idiot.


Who cares if she was an idiot. As long as she was HOT! Guys don't bang girls for their brains.......

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