Rape fantasy

[DJEvelEd]

Why do some girls have rape fantasies? I feel really strange fulfilling this type of fantasy. How far do you go when no means yes? Is this type of violence appealing to others? I did everything to my girl last night except hitting her(I think she wanted that too) I'm not sure about seeing her anymore because I diddn't like it. She liked it alot more than I did and I was only able to eat the y because I just couldn't relax. It's much better when my girl makes the first move. FYI: This is the hooker I've been seeing (not the squirter) so maybe it's a way for her to give up the control she normally has with men.

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[nealcassady]

Wow, this is the craziest post I have every read. I have heard of a rape fetish and let me tell you that it is a very dangerous thing. A while back I read Dan Savage (a sex columnist in The Onion, The Village Voice) talk about this sort of thing. How do you know that the next morning she won't change her feeling about what just happened? Just be safe. Maybe you should read up about it, just to make sure you don't get into trouble. Can you talk a little more about who this girl is?

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[Knowledged_one]

Hmm lets see
1. Your girlfriend wants to be raped
+
2. Shes a hooker
=
20 to life plus all your money in a lawsuit

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go to the church, some good girls up in that church.... and the library is good girls... and this black awareness week rally i'm going to tonihgt, lots of good girls there
Nice clean girls :)

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[hyperspace]

i want girls to rape me!

[Friday]

I am afraid of this post and will only say that sometimes this behavior indicates a bad experience in childhood - such as abuse or rape itself. Don't ask - too many psych courses in college...

Again...this post scares me. Bye...

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[Christy]

This has to be one my ultimate fantasies .. but you made a great point by saying "How far do you go when no means yes?" I am not sure how to answer that question for you or more importantly, myself!

Just be careful ... please!

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[Contra]

the library is good
girls...


havent you ever seen wildcats?

i'm not getting spanked with the scarlett letter "A"

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[ChrisTheCop]

i had a girl once who wanted me to put a plastic shopping bag over her head while having sex. When i refused, the mood was ruined and she left in a huff. 'scuse me for not wanting to accidentally kill you!

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[silera]

'scuse me for not wanting to accidentally kill you!

And here I thought you were a classy guy.

Well you've shown your true colors now.


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[LampshadeOnHead]

Rape is a horible thing. some people have rape touch their lives and it is simply awful. I once went to the R+F.net chat room and there was a chater there named


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[hyperspace]

Chris your a good man i admire you...you got her # by any chance??

[TheMojoPin]

Always a bad idea, because for one, guys are idiots. And second, if something goes wrong and the relationship goes REALLY sour, she could just use the physical marks from your "sessions" as "proof" that you raped her.

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[Bob Impact]

How far do you go when no means yes?

I don't know about how far to go, I don't know about the mental health of the people into this, but I do know most people who are into this use a safety word that they would not normally use during sex, "Blue" would be an example. This word tells their partner to stop immediatly.

In the same vein, I was once with a girl who insisted on calling me daddy, I couldn't go on with it after that I was so disgusted. I came to find out later that both of her parents died by double suicide when she was little. Yeech.

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[EffMeBoobs]

It's getting a little hot in here....

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[TheGameHHH]

Shits fucked up dude.


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[Bama]

You should practice raping hookers in GTA3 - patches swears by it!

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[Arienette]

i have a mild rape fantasy myself... i have never actually done it, and i dont know that i'd really want to if it came down to it. and to get it out of the way, i was not sexually abused as a child or anything like that.

for those who have pointed out what a serious thing rape is and all, i don't think you will find anyone with a rape fantasy who would disagree. there is a world of difference between the two. in my estimation, the rape fantasy seems like rough sex and sexual power dynamics taken to an extreme. i really see nothing wrong in it since, unlike rape, it's consented to. if i ever did do it, i would imagine that everything would be discussed before hand, so as to avoid the "how far can you go when no means yes" problem. and i think it goes without saying that this would have to be done with someone you trust entirely... no one wants it to get out of hand

my boy's not into the idea, though, so none of this really matters anyway...

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I don't know how far you went with the rape fantasy but I have one myself, too. It's kind of hard to explain but I'll try...

Sex is boring.

Girl goes down on guy.

Guy goes down on girl.

He's on top.

She's on top.

and...if he hasn't 'finished' by then...it's time for doggy style.

So, there...you need to mix it up a little. Sex needs to be exciting. Talking...be a little rough...a little spanking :-)
It's also the whole submissive thing. Women like to be controlled deep down. Sometimes, they are too busy defending themselves all day. I.E. Perverted remarks, having to deal with competing with men all day in the workplace...it's all subconcious (sp?)

Sometimes, you just want to let go...have someone please you, take advantage of you...

I once slept with a guy who was like "kiss my neck"..."now kiss my chest" and when it came to pleasuring me it was like "is that good?" or "would you like me to do it harder?" UGH!!! Just do it!!! Stop asking!!!





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[Donnielimes]

Fetishes How I love 'em . I had a girl who saw 9 1/2 weeks and for a year she wanted smbd. I mean alot of bondage. I am soo spoiled at this point. you can't do that shit on a one night stand or on the fly you need to know this person it's safer for you and it makes the experience a whole lot better. Good Luck Enjoix!!! <P>

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[Reephdweller]

Shits fucked up dude.


to say the least

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[BrianTheBailBondsman]

i have a mild rape fantasy myself...
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[Coco]

DJEvelEd: My question to you is if she truly is your girlfriend (not just her john), have you tried speaking to her about getting out of the dangerous lifestyle she is in of prostitution? Is there a way of encouraging her to get additional skills or college to get her out of this destructive pattern? You are also putting yourself at risk too here. (Most prostitutes have slept with 100's of men.)

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This message was edited by Coco on 12-21-02 @ 2:23 PM

[IrishAlkey]

I'm all about fulfilling other mens' rape fantasies.

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[TheMojoPin]

I'm all about fulfilling other mens' rape fantasies.

He's right. I didn't even know I had one until he hit me over the head with shovel and tossed me into the trunk of his car. Then when we got to his shack, we...well, gentlemen never tell. But Alkey's providing a valuable public service! Kudos!

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[IrishAlkey]

You weren't supposed to tell people that I fulfill rape fantasies of men who have no prior rape fantasy.

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[DJEvelEd]

have you tried speaking to her about getting out of the dangerous lifestyle she is in of prostitution?

She won't quit. She is an undocumented alien. She is here with her daughter illegally. She makes more money in 2 days than I make in a week. (that's with no education) What is she going to give that up for? I don't make enough money to keep her from doing that. I've given her hundreds of dollars to keep her home but it's never enough. She has broken my heart countless times with her lies and uncaring attitude. She has her mother and sister lie. She is constantly on the phone ith other hombres. (speaking spanish fast as to keep me from understanding) I recently started cheating on her because she goes away for a month at a time to get fucked in other cities. She comes home when she is on the rag which leaves me with a bloated cramped banged out hooker for 4 days.(how is this fun for me?) I can't go a month without sex knowing she is getting some. And this whole fantasy about forcing myself on her is just not me. I love a girl's hand down MY pants, getting ME excited...

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[hyperspace]

my advice..date a dominatrix there around more and bang no one! plus there much more fun to be around.

[Coco]

What is she going to give that up for?


Maybe her health or her life.

I know there was a thread recently about "why women go for the bad men" and I had mentioned in it that there are men out there that do precisely the same thing.

I had mentioned too in a post that this relationship is a disaster waiting to happen. She is here illegally. She has a child who is being brought up in that atmosphere. She has probably been with 100's of men, and, I bet, hasn't seen a doctor for a checkup on STD's.

You are setting yourself up for disaster.

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[Donnielimes]

What is she going to give that up for? I don't make enough money to keep her from doing that. Dude she has to change the way she looks at herself it's not about money. It is that she believes that is the way to get the money she wants. Some women Never even consider Hooking for a living. <P>

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[DJEvelEd]

I agree with everyone that this relationship is B.A.D. but how do I stop loving her, thinking about her? I haven't spoken to her since Friday and it's a constant battle whether to call her or not. I try to see other women but it's not the same. I got it bad...

>>Big Bird is Ferrall's bitch<<