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ShelleBink

12-10-2002, 03:42 PM

if you are in a relationship, do u still flirt? and do you think its okay?

...why are you all looking at me like that?

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Aggie

12-10-2002, 03:47 PM

Yes.

But there is a line that can be crossed. Make sure it's harmless flirting.

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ShelleBink

12-10-2002, 03:50 PM

yes, smiling/winking/joking = okay

fucking someone is running across that "line"

ironically, i get mad when "the guy" ((any guy i dated really)) flirts.

...why are you all looking at me like that?

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dassal3399

12-10-2002, 03:50 PM

i'm in a relationship, and i do flirt, it's okay, like i always say...you could look but don't touch

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TheGameHHH

12-10-2002, 03:51 PM

Flirting is okay, just don't lead people on. But I guess you can't really control the emotions of the person you're flirting with, so just be careful.

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MHasegawa

12-10-2002, 03:51 PM

Though I've been single for quite a while, I don't bother flirting at all. I see other guys doing it and it makes them look like dirtbags, and I am not a dirtbag. If I ever have flirted, rest assured I probably made an ass out of myself.

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ShelleBink

12-10-2002, 03:53 PM

well, i am very childlike with my flirting, especially at work ((c'mon now, its like 30 guys and i'm the only girl under 40)). i stick my tongue out, kick them in the ass, they pull my hair, its just innocent. i wouldn't have it any other way, and they are well aware of my guy :)

as for out of work, if i flirt w/ someone, i keep it as innocent and fun as possible.

look but don't touch. amen.

...why are you all looking at me like that?

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Mr Self Destruct

12-10-2002, 04:05 PM

I think I saw an episode of friends on this. Guys can flirt but not girls. If a girl flirts, the guy immediately thinks he has a shot at getting her in bed. Again this was a friends episode not my personal opinion.

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12-10-2002, 04:26 PM

EDIT: A broken link was throwing off the format of the board. I had to delete it.

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silera

12-10-2002, 04:29 PM

I don't flirt but I don't mind my bf flirting.

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ladygodiva

12-10-2002, 05:21 PM

im sorry i broke the message board.:(

irishkb

12-10-2002, 05:29 PM

as long as nothing comes of it and it's not in front of me... who cares..

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silera

12-10-2002, 05:29 PM

It was all that fag GVAC's fault.

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jaxoncoherent

12-10-2002, 06:18 PM

boyfriends can flirt girlfriends can't boys are too dumb to realize flirting is just flirting. they'll think your gf want to get them in bed. girls don't get that boys don't flirting. its a viscious cirlce

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Death Metal Moe

12-10-2002, 06:30 PM

No it's not OK.

So you wanna just give the wrong impression, and leave the guy? What the fuck is that?

Playing with people's emotions is always wrong, and gets people angry.......

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ShelleBink

12-10-2002, 06:43 PM

i'm not dating you moe, chill out evil one.

...why are you all looking at me like that?

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Death Metal Moe

12-10-2002, 07:21 PM

Listen, if you're not on the market so to speak, and just want to see how much attention you can get from other guys, that's toying with someone's emotions unfairly.

The idea of flirting in my opinion is to attract someone you want to date and see if you want it to go further.

There's a word for women who tease men for the thrill of it, but I'm not pointing fingers. I'm just stating opinion.

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Earth2RON

12-10-2002, 08:59 PM

I have a girl and she knew coming into the relationship that i was a big flirt, i know what lines not cross so i dont cross them.I just talk a big game which tends to make females go crazy over my sexy ass.

Bama

12-10-2002, 09:18 PM

Flirting is cool. I mean damn your still a man (or woman as the case may be). It kind of gives you the feeling that you're still attractive to the opposite sex, even if it is just innocent.

After a while ya gotta build up an appetite. There shouldn't be a problem as long as you eat at home.

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Gmann

12-11-2002, 01:01 AM

Listen, if you're not on the market so to speak, and just want to see how much attention you can get from other guys, that's toying with someone's emotions unfairly.

The idea of flirting in my opinion is to attract someone you want to date and see if you want it to go further.

There's a word for women who tease men for the thrill of it, but I'm not pointing fingers. I'm just stating opinion.

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DroopyGirl

12-11-2002, 01:33 AM

I wouldn't mind if my bf would flirt, I just don't want to see it.
And I'm so bad at it that I don't even try to flirt

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12-11-2002, 03:13 AM

Flirting is okay aslong you don't cross the line.

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12-11-2002, 03:38 AM

The line, the line!

As long as that doesn't get crossed everything is ok.

but where does this line we speak of begin?

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Arienette

12-11-2002, 04:08 AM

like everyone said, it's not a big deal so long as it's harmless. some peoeple are just playful and flirtatious, and they really don't mean anything by it. i think you have to be careful not to flirt with people who might get the wrong impression, or who are not aware that you are with someone already. but, for a lot of people, it's just the way they interact, and there's really nothing wrong with that.

that all said, i'm not a huge fan of my boyfriend flirting with other girls. but that's my jealousy and, so long as he keeps it innocent, it's really my problem. i think if you're confident in your relationship, it's really not much of an issue. and if you're not... well, then you have bigger problems than the fact that your guy or girl did a little flirting

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Jennitalia

12-11-2002, 05:22 AM

i think it's ok. i do it all the time, maybe a little more than i should, though. but i kinda dont care at this point

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12-11-2002, 06:22 AM

NO AND NO

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Friday

12-11-2002, 06:32 AM

Flirting is fine. I mean, just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you are a zombie who only responds to one human being.

Chemistry happens naturally all the time - it's what you do with it that can get you in trouble!

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BeeGirl

12-11-2002, 09:53 AM

If it is in your blood to be a flirt, they by all means, go for it. You shouldnt change how you act for anyone. I am the biggest flirt that you will ever meet, but when you are with someone, there should be some sort of respect also. I do agree however that there is that fine line between flirting and being a whore..but where is that line and who determines it? Maybe that should be its own thread!

wolfrakr

12-11-2002, 11:37 AM

flirt all you want and when you are done flirt some more - but never ever act on it - ever.

well unless you wont get caught - (i didnt say that - the evil devil on my shoulder thype it i couldnt stop him - the angel would have but he was off with some chick)

Coco

12-11-2002, 12:59 PM

It depends on the context. If you genuinely like the guy, it is ok.

But "toying" with someone or doing it in front of your significiant other - not ok. It can be very hurtful.

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ShelleBink

12-11-2002, 02:18 PM

Oh yeah....black satin what ????

:O

...why are you all looking at me like that?

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Earth2RON

12-11-2002, 09:57 PM

I am the biggest flirt that you will ever meet
I never met you, so flirt with me when you see me we can compare notes.

ShelleBink

12-12-2002, 04:39 AM

I never met you, so flirt with me when you see me we can compare notes.

you ignored me when you met me. biotch

...why are you all looking at me like that?

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sexy bastard

12-12-2002, 04:56 AM

yep flirting makes your day alot gooder

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BeeGirl

12-12-2002, 06:15 AM

yep flirting makes your day alot gooder I agree 100%.

Armageddon

12-12-2002, 10:24 AM

It ok is you say it like this:
I've been waiting my whole life for just one (FUCK)
And all i needed was just one (FUCK)
How can you say you dont give a (FUCK)
I find myself stupified, coming back again

All i wanted was just one (FUCK)
One tiny little innocent (FUCK)
And when i feel like im shit out of (LUCK)
I find myself stupified, coming back again

Why, do you like playing around with
My narrow scope of reality
I can feel it all start slippin'
I think im breaking down
Why, do you like playing around with
My narrow scope of reality
I can feel it all start slippin' away

See but i dont get it
Dont you think maybe we could put it on credit?
Dont you think it can take control when I dont let it?
I get stupified

Its all the same
You say live with it
But I don't get it
Dont you think maybe we could put it on credit?
Dont you think it can take control when I dont let it?
I get stupified
I get stupified

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Mr Self Destruct

12-13-2002, 06:25 AM

and the point of that was....?

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ADF

12-13-2002, 06:44 AM

I do it a lot on accident. I'm a friendly guy and joke around a lot. I'll be told later, "You were flirting with that girl!" I really am oblivious.

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Coco

12-13-2002, 10:57 AM

But "toying" with someone or doing it in front of your significiant other - not ok. It can be very hurtful.

Another side note to remember is that when I mentioned it is ok if you had genuine feelings toward the guy, it was because "leading someone on" who may genuinely interested in you can be hurtful.

Me and a friend of mine got into an argument about this one night as she thought I should dance and "be nicer" to guys that came over to me. I just thought it would be a waste of time on their part and wrong to lead them on.

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