DELEMA!!!

[poizon ivy]

Ok! I need a little help! I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little over six months BUT now I am attracted to another man. I have never felt the desire of another when i was in any other relationship. I have NEVER cheated on an EX either while I was with them.

I do not know why these feelings have arrived and my boyfriend is a GREAT guy. BUT I just want to be kissed by this NEW guy- I will admit i have fantisized about him!!

This guy has a "sort of" girlfriend- THEY ARE on a 'BREAK'- he is very funny, sweet, and attractive- where my boyfriend and i are not on any bad terms nor our relationship is rocky..I HATE THESE FEELINGS THAT I HAVE! I feel like a SKEEZER...HELP ME! This is serious so if anyone can give me suggestions that would be great

SUCK IT HARD ..SUCK IT LONG

YES I am a dancer..THAT KIND of dancer...it pays the bills and is easy money...so DON'T JUDGE ME...ASS

[F1Gm3nT]

see this is the whole thing about relationships... it's all about tests
it judges wether or not you will be with him in the long run
everytime anyone is involved... that person is more than likely to get hit on more than if the person was singel.
I hate this fact but it's true
it's just a test
if you do want to continue and be with your BF and what not... dont do anything with the new guy... Id say cut off relations cause well... you knwo there are those nights where ya drink a bit too much or other things than drink... whatever you're into
and well.. yeah... and specially if the guy knows how to "play the game"... he can basicly have you... with looks, touches, words etc.
so yeah
oh my god I sound like a fukin party pooper
I'm just sayin that well... if ya are gonna be with the new guy... atleast let go of th BF... cause that shit of cheating... just aint right
OH GOD STOP ME!!!
lol nah seriosly... it's your hands... Q is... how you gonna play the game?

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[DarkHippie]

there's no crime in fantasizing. its normal to get a crush on someone else. but it doesn't mean you should do something drastic.

Besides, I find that reality almost never lives up to the fantasy

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This is serious so if anyone can give me suggestions that would be great


your definition of serious seems a lil harsh my dear...

but i think you answered yoru own questions. you and your bf are doign great.. leave it that way... believe me the kiss isnt worth it.

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[poizon ivy]

But the thing is I WANT TO ACT ON IT...and that is a horrible feeling i have inside KNOWING that I actually want to act on it

SUCK IT HARD ..SUCK IT LONG

YES I am a dancer..THAT KIND of dancer...it pays the bills and is easy money...so DON'T JUDGE ME...ASS

[F1Gm3nT]

well... then act it if you want to do it so bad
don't live in regrets...
but again what I gost ta say
weigh things out...
see what you would benefit form each situation
you may have these feelings... but you also have to think about how you feel about you BF and do these feelings cancel out the other feelings

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[Geppetto]

Its normal to be attracted to other people but ask yourself if its worth betraying your boyfriend. I don't know how serious the two of you are but if you care for the guy your with don't do it. Even if he never finds out you have still lied to him and betrayed his trust. If this other guy is something you just have to have leave your boyfriend and give it a shot. But if it dosen't work out don't be surprised if you wind up alone.

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[F1Gm3nT]

^^^^
EXACTLY

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[Death Metal Moe]

Hey, if I acted on every impulse I got, Scott Baio would have been dead a thousand times.

YOU'RE NOT AN ANIMAL! You don't just act on instinct. You have a conscience and thoughts. THINK!

And if you still can't figure it the fuck out, it's a PRETTY FUCKING SCUMBAG MOVE to cheat on someone. If you want this other guy, break up with guy #1. If it's worth saving, forget about guy #2.

Is this REALLY that hard to figure out?

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[HordeKing1]

Determine which you value more. Your relationship with your boyfriend whom you describe as a "GREAT GUY," or a fantasy with a person you don't know.

It's normal to fantasize about different people. But you have the choice as to whether you want to act on the fantasy.

I think that if you're having this much of a dillema in the first place you should reevaluate the relationship with your boyfriend. Perhaps he is not for you. If you feel that's the case, break up.

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[TheGameHHH]

Be honest, you don't have to be faithful, just be honest.

IT'S TIME TO PLAY THE GAME-AHHH!

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[F1Gm3nT]

^^^
now that's some deep shit right there moooos def
good shit Game

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[godzillette]

believe me the kiss isnt worth it.


Your best off listening to her or trusting these words. Let her b ya example. Errrrrrrrrrrrrrr learn from her.

[Abrasive Dean]

Life is like that!

When I was single I couldn't attract flies let alone women.

When I was married I had to beat them off with sticks.

People often want what they can't have.

Infidelity whatever the reason hurts everyone involved and is best avoided.

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[Contra]

under 23 go for it
over 23 stick with the boyfriend

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[LilLibra]

You're entitled to be attracted to other men. That doesn't take anything away from your boyfriend. Even if you fantasize about being with that other guy, its normal. It all depends on whether or not you'll act on your feelings and if you'll be okay with the decision you make :D


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DELEMA!!!


You have a DILEMA alright. You need spell check

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[LatinSpiceXoX]

Pick a fight with him.
Break up.
Have sex with your 'NEW' Beau.
Get back together.
You're reply to him finding out about your encounter ::
'BUT WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!!!'

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This message was edited by LatinSpiceXoX on 11-23-02 @ 4:30 PM

[PrisonSex]

You kind of have to approach it as if you were a gambler and think of the odds. It sounds cold but if the emotions are the variable take them out of it. Think about the time you and your boyfrind have spent together and weigh it with the risks...do you love him? Because if its been a long relationship and you don't maybe it would be good for you to meet this new guy. it all depends on you, you ultimatly know all of the aspects of the relationship and situation better than anyone on amessage board will. GOODLUCK!

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[Dirt Merchant 03]

If you're really into this other guy, don't jerk your boyfriend around. Let him go now and go have your fun.

You should really examine what it is that this guy has that your boyfriend doesn't. You could have a great relationship, but obviously not all your needs are being met.

At least give him the respect he deserves by having one of those dreaded talks that must be done to salvage a relationship before it becomes the classic cheaters tale.

On the plus side you can post to my so far un-popular topic "Ever Cheat?" with whatever story that comes out of this mess.

Just do what you have to and don't harm anyone that doesn't deserve it.


"Damn I'm Smooth."

[CYYYFYYY]

I got some advice..... DON'T
CHEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!


Everyone Loves CYYYFYYY
I am just a Simple jewish Boy
from the Lower east Side
I am the CYYYFYYY
Party Harty!!!!!!

[shamus mcfitzy]

You have a DILEMA alright.


i can only hope you know that's also wrong

[LatinSpiceXoX]

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[shamus mcfitzy]

Hey, if I acted on every impulse I got, Scott Baio would have been dead a thousand times.


scott baio's not dead.....i need to make some calls

[faccia]

Listen, I am engaged and if someone out there treated me nicer and i was attracted to them i'd go.. BUT.. Only because things aren't going good for me.. if things are good for you, don't throw it away for attraction..

[IRISjr]

This guy has a "sort of"


At least wait untill they REALLY aren't going out to do anything.

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