The EX GIRLFRIEND keeps calling...

[Jasmines Song]

I have been seeing this guy for about seven months now and his ex-girlfriend calls him everyday. He tells me that she calls just to shoot the shit with him. I believe him but I think that its pretty annoying that she calls considering that she hates my guts. I know I shouldn't talk because my ex-boyfriend calls me too. But, not everyday, like his ex. Not even close..

[BrianTheBailBondsman]

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[silera]

I know the struggle.



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[Deathstroke]

. He tells me that she calls just to shoot the shit with him


invite her over to so you can all shoot the shit...wink wink nudge nudge

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[Jasmines Song]

Oops...I put this in the "Confessional". I meant to put this in the "Relationships" forum.


Anyway,

I complained about it. I said the phone calls were bothering me and nothing is being done about it. He thinks I am going to kick her ass. Meanwhile, that was my high school years, I am over that now. I don't "beat people up"...

I just think she is needy. She was so used to his constant attention that she doesn't know anyone else who would put up with it.

[bethany]

my ex and i are still great friends...when you go out with someone for a long time they become a big part of your life...it's not realistic to think ties can be that easily severed <P>

[Jasmines Song]

my ex and i are still great friends...when you go out with someone for a long time they become a big part of your life...it's not realistic to think ties can be that easily severed


I totally agree with you...but EVERYDAY??

[silera]

I just think she is needy. She was so used to his constant attention that she doesn't know anyone else who would put up with it.

You're right.



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[Jasmines Song]

I see Silera and I are on the same page.

Listen, I don't mind the occasional phone calls but it's got to stop. When he told her to stop, she didn't listen, which means she wants to interfere and be spiteful...


...and honey...you don't want me to get spiteful.

[EffMeBoobs]

Jasmine I moved it to
Relationships for you. Tell your
bf to tell her to tone it down a bit.
they don't need to talk
EVERYDAY. If that's the case,
they should be dating. If it
doesn't let up, cut her telephone
wires near her house.


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[wilee]

He thinks I am going to kick her ass. Meanwhile, that was my high school years, I am over that now. I don't "beat people up"...Damn, I thought we had our headliner for BANOF IV....

JS- Sounds like she knows it bothers you, and she's doing it for that reason. Did your BF and her have an amicable split, or was it a knock-down drag-out? As long as nothing physical is going on between them, don't let it get to you.

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[my_mr_happy]

JS... ok you have every right to feel the way you do. <P> The one thing that is suppost to seperate a Friend and a relationship is priority. You need to talk to your man. Tell him it makes you feel weird. He needs to respect that. I am sure he would feel weird if you talked with your x everyday to shoot the shit. <P> Now I am not saying anythng but what I think so please do not take this wrong. But if he is talking to her everyday it can only mean acouple of things. <P> 1. they are great friends. This could be a problem. If they have finished and resolved everything and are truly just friends... They might always be freinds and you need to ask yourself if you can deal with that. <P> 2. Something is still there. One or more of them might still have lingering feelings. Could be him or her. don't know. <P> 3. Things still have not been resolved. Maybe he still feels guilty.. maybe she does. They might not have talked everything out and are still trying to figure out were they are in each others life. <P> A big question is Does he Talk to her in front of you? a)yes... I would not worry too much b)No... I would be alittle worried. Because this means he can't share or be open. THAT IS NOT GOOD. c) Dosen't apply. Maybe he is only talking with her at his place or work. <P> <P> <P>
Good luck...

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[SRFSTARVD]

He just sounds like a wimp. Tell her to stop calling as much...shit I talk to ex's but not everyday. Sounds like either she still wants him or she just wants to ruin what you two have. kill the bitch. or give her a ticket to DC....and a bullseye on her back

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[Bill From Yorktown]

be afraid - be very afraid. It is damn near impossible for a guy to remain a friend with a girl, without "those thoughts" creeping into his head. It's human nature. It's almost like (if he's ok with her calling) he wants to have his cake and eat it too. If it's her idea, then she's interfering. The occasional phone call's ok, but they are spending way too much time "together" - time that should be spent with you. If he can't understand it, that's not good.


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[CovDiesel]

Scrape her off... you wanna save someone... save yourself.

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[Aggie]

I'd just kick her ass.

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[Donnielimes]

I had an ex keep calling me once it was wierd she was marrying another dude and everything but she was calling me like everyday. I finally got pissed off and got on the phone with her when I was wasted and that put an end to it. I like freaked on her.

[bboxer]

that ex girlfriend is definately up to no good

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[shorty]

Although I'd love to see you kick her ass...don't become the psycho bitch. Be really nice to her and pretend to be her friend, if she really hates you it'll drive her crazy and maybe your man will see the error of his ways.

If that doesn't work, kick her ass.

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[GaryWyze]

<font color=purple>Bottom line here is that you're problem should be with your boyfriend, not his ex-girlfriend.

It's not that she shouldn't be calling, it's that he shouldn't be taking those calls... especially if he knows how you feel about all this.

Then again, you could just take some stock in the fact that he may talk to her, but he's dating you!</font>

[Earth2RON]

My ex still calls me every once and awhile which i dont find to be a bad thing at all, she was mt first love so she aint going nowhere.My "female friend" always gets pissed at me when she hears that i hang around her, i have no clue why she feels threated by that thought!

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[Jasmines Song]

I do take stock in the fact that he's with me and not her. But, in the very beginning of our relationship he has left me for her to see if they can work things out. All she has ever done was bash me and try to convince him that we would never work out. It's very clear that she doesn't like me and the Lord only knows that I don't like her. Now he doesn't see why it bothers me so much that she calls him all the time. Apprently, she has a lot of things going on in her life and she has never had anyone else to talk to except for him, which I understand, but I think there is a line where you call someone to ask for advise or you totally use someone for a crutch because no one else will listen to your itty-bitty problems.

I know he cares, trust me...
He's a very genuine person with a good soul that wants to help everyone. It's just his nature. But, it bothers me to know that there is this woman on the line when we're in the car or something who can't stand me and I know would love if things would end between us.

[The real Kenny Allen]

my ex and i are still great friends...when you go out with someone for a long time they become a big part of your life...it's not realistic to think ties can be that easily severed


Buh-loney! If you dont want that person anymore then keeping them around is like dangling a carrot on a stick in front of them.

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[grlNIN]

I have 2 options for ya...

1)Cut the cord

2)cut her face

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[Coco]

I would tell him that it bothers you that this girl calls everyday. If he values your relationship more than her phone calls, he will stop. I, personally, wouldn't put up with it. I could definitely see it leading to problems down the road.

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This message was edited by Coco on 10-26-02 @ 2:47 PM

[RusticSoul]

he is still banging her, thats why she is still calling and he is talking to her. Either live with it or get out . And when he dumps you, she will be the reason