do i blow whistle on whole thing?

[pantee man]

ok i need advice from outsiders. heres my dilemma.

i got myself involved with a girl whos been dating the same guy for nine yrs. this past sunday she made an attempt to break it off.. or as she said lets stay friends. well any fool knows you cant stay friends. i was close to saying f- this im telling him and break everyones heart. i proceeded to take a different approach. i pursued it more and we are back to the way we were when we first met and what not. heres where i need advice..
im going to see her next saturday. should i look at this as being my last chance to change her mind and choose me or say f-it and go have fun. this seems like a last chance kinda thing and im confused where should i stand on this...only bad thing i will admit, im vindictive



This message was edited by pantee man on 10-11-02 @ 10:30 PM

[ToddEVF]

should i look at this as being my last chance to change her mind and choose me or say f-it and go have fun.


I say you try to change her mind, but if it doesn't look like its working, just have fun

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[irishkb]

dude bow out.. if she with a guy for nine years and then is messing with you on the side.. you don't want her for yourself.. cause if she was not faithful to him, she sure as shit ain't gonna be to you.. just get out and find a nice single girl who will drive you nuts.....

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[shit4brains]

ok i need advice from outsiders.


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[pantee man]

girl who will drive you nuts.....



i dont wanna drag this out but she does drive me nuts. thats the problem! noone has ever driven me nuts like she does.

[Fezzie Fetish]

From personal experience, after being with someone for 8 years and breaking up. It is going to take her a while to actually know what she wants and how she feels. I suggest letting her know how you feel about her but give her some time to figure things out on her own.

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[BrianTheBailBondsman]

If it didnt work after 9 years and you break up and the go out again i gaurnteeee that in a month or so you'll be like... " Oh yea now i remember why we broke up the first time.. You bore me you hoe!"

Dude just get a last f' and a knob job and part peicefully

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[SuperClerk]

9 years is a long time to fully be over someone.

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[Contra]

if she is still with this guy then she doesnt want to be with you, like that. you're just the new dick since she is tired of the old one, but is probably very in love with him. so just enjoy the sex and be happy. oh if your not geting laid GET OUT NOW!

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[angrymissy]

if you want her to be with you and only you, tell her that. This could be a last chance type of thing and you'll regret it if you don't say what you feel

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[WhackBagKid]

ooooooooh, panteeman has a pantewoman!

but i say you go for it pal! seriously what is there to lose? Your life maybe, but even with that said, not much to lose.


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[billyio]

Been in this situation before. If you're in love with her, I think its best that you bow out. She's using you as abackup in case the guy she's with doesn't marry her. Besides that, like the earlier post states, can you trust someone who is cheating on someone else during a 9 year relationship.

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