Would you ever marry a hooker?

[DJEvelEd]

I met my girlfriend in a brothel. I've been seeing her for 1 1/2 years. She still works and makes 80,000.00 a year doing this. She needs a green card and needs me to marry her so she can get a "regular" job. I have been married before and trust NO ONE. But I do care for her and her daughter alot and want to help with her green card. My question is: Do girls like this ever change? Is a prenuptual the answer?

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[Knowledged_one]

Once she gets the green card she is out. Don't know the situation but it sounds like the case. Either way good luck, hope it works out

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[SilentSpic]

No f'ing way...
I can't believe you actually thinking about it.
What if she get's arrested, are you you going to take care of the kid? It's cool that u care for them...
but walk away.

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[GaryWyze]

<font color=purple>Only if she was a nice girl from a nice family.

Would *I* ever marry a hooker? No, but I wouldn't be dating one either.

Doesn't matter what I or anyone else would do, it's your life. If you have no problem sharing it with this person, knowing that it sounds like little more than a marriage of convenience, than so be it.

Are you sure that you can live with that? And know for a fact that being a hooker is only what she does, and isn't actually who she is? Maybe more serious thought than message board feedback is warranted here.</font>

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dude run the fuck away,
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[A.J.]

Only if "Hooker" was her surname.

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[ChrisTheCop]

I'd marry a tv or movie hooker in a second. (Theyre hot). But a real life one? NO.

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[Aggie]

I'd marry a tv or movie hooker in a second. (Theyre hot). But a real life one? NO.
But I bet you have fun cuffing them...and "booking" them too, don't ya Chris?

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[F1Gm3nT]

damn Ed... you've been together with her for a while now... but you know what... if she is willing and wants to... gonna be hard but I think she could
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[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

Run dude. I knew a guy who married a Japanese women. He soon realized she was only after him for the green card. You said you were married once before and you're wary. Save yourself. Don't do anyone any favors.

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[my_mr_happy]

Most women who have that life style have a history of some abuse. Has she tried seeking help? there are non-profit services that do help women break the cycle. If you do care for her your first responsability is to get her out of a distructive life. Because If she continues it will be harmful to both of you. <P> a prenuptual? Yes. I would get one even if She was a nice midwestern girl from a nice family. ;-) <P> As far as the green card thing. I know the INS very well. I was originaly from honduras. Lived here all my life but was not nationalised. But do you know that she could be deported for her lifestyle? Has she been arrested before? Does she have a rap sheet? You need to check things out legaly...

Are you living together?<P>

[DJEvelEd]

I'm looking to move in together with her to try to mellow her out. Give her a life she would not normally have had. Her country is very poor. I can understand why she started. I just want her to stop. And yes she was arrested once before for this. I do alot for her and her family and treat her better than anyone has ever treated her. And she saves her kisses only for me(small consolation)
Alot of girls I've dated ACTED like hookers(they just diddn't get paid) so it's really nothing new to me. I am having a hard time though because I think I'm in love with her. I know she is a pro and the possibility of her playing me is high...but don't people change? Especially since she has a 5 year old and responsibility? I have hope for her. I really like the feedback so far though.

>>Big Bird is Ferrall's bitch<<

[Alice S. Fuzzybutt]

Just another thing to keep in mind-- even if she DOES get a "regular" job, there's NO way she's going to be pulling in $80k. And she'll have to work ALOT harder to make even 1/3 that much.

And why expose yourself to the risk of diseases?

Call me cynical, but I think very few people can change.

Just be careful and don't get played.

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This message was edited by Alice S. Fuzzybutt on 10-1-02 @ 12:53 PM

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[CreepyGyrl]

K, to answer your question no, I'd run far far away and fast!!!
But now a question of my own, what the hell would EVER prompt you to start dating a prostitute anyway. Aren't you scared of diseases and shit like that, not to mention doesn't it bother you to know that your girlfriend is giving her body to other men. Icky...I donno, I guess I am just toooo much of a possevie person. I totally wouldn't be able to handle that. I mean, sharing while your involved(3-way) for fun is okay in my book, selling sex for money is icky. Again thats just my opinion.

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[my_mr_happy]

"I'm looking to move in together with her to try to mellow her out. Give her a life she would not normally have had."

ok. I can understand this. This I am 50-50 on. On one hand you might help her by being there supporting her not to mention to move in with some one is a good test of a relationship and do's and don'ts... on the other hand there is this. This is a kind of job that stays with you. Physicaly and mentally. I guess there is no way of putting this nice. Is she in a location or does she bring "johns" home? You need to take that into consideration. What about her"boss"? is he a pimp? most of them keep a very tight thumb underneath their people. He could very well show up and cause trouble. The only diffrence is that you would be in the apartment-your apt- when it happens... it could get ugly.. and mostlikly violent..

"Her country is very poor. I can understand why she started. "
is her family here or over seas?
You say she was arrested. My question is for what and WHat ahappened? you need to know exactly why... If you are serious.. then you need to know and be open about everything.


"I am having a hard time though because I think I'm in love with her."

only you can try to decipher this one. Just think... are you doing it to help a woman, cause she is the one, out of pity, or to correct somethng in your past?

"I know she is a pro and the possibility of her playing me is high...but don't people change?"
Yes... people change... but it takes the right thing to make them change. ome people-likle me - it takes a car accedent. others the loss of a loved one. So is this the thing that is really going to change her?

I would bring up this.. do you have work close to your house and were does she live? Can she go back to school? Is there a friend you can get her hooked up with to get or give her a job till she can get off her habbit? Because my friend it is a "habbit" much like an addiction. Like a drug destructive. Also... Depending on how much she makes what will she react to when she makes less or more?

hang in there buddy

[Knowledged_one]

If you have been helping her family and she saves the kisses for you, it may be that she only cares for you because she sees you as her protector who she knows will help her at all costs. If that is the case it is even worse because she may look at you like a father figure/older brother but not someone she loves because of who you are but what you do for her i.e. protection

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[F1Gm3nT]

K Ed I know how you feel about this girl... cause well... I've known you for a while now... all I gotta say is... really... just got to give her a chance
girls in countries like that are forced to that way of making money cause well... the other ways will just not let you survive
I mena heck YOU LEARNED SPANISH FOR THIS GIRL
give her a chance see whats up and yeah... mos def the prenup... cause if she takes your speakers, turntables and other equipment... I qwill hunt her down.. specially if she takes curley

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[ShelleBink]

all i gotta say is, a lot of friends who helped me out years ago are hookers. yes, walking down the streets getting sex hookers ((anyone really surprised here)). i know deep down all of them want that stability and home... and to make a life that's good for them. but everyone sees them as sluts. the fact that you love this girl is probably the best thing she's got goin for her right now. all i can say hun is that i hope it works out, whatever you decide.

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[my_mr_happy]

ShelleBink has a good point to make. We are all human beings. It is obvious that you care for her and have feelings for her. The question is not that. But how to best help her. Find her way out. How to get her to start over and begin to bring back pride and dignaty and self respect. It's tough buddy but you sound like you have a big heart. Think first of what is the best for her and you. You can be careful and humane. Loveing and still safe.

[TheGameHHH]

I fell in love with a hooker, she laughed in my face. (name the song!!!)

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[FelixDasGato]

No way, it's hard enough just dating a stripper.

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[Ralphy Ramone]

Does she have a sister?

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Dude, you can't turn a ho into a house wife.

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That would be like saying I'm ONLY going to drive this truck with 200,000 miles on if for the REST OF MY LIFE.

NO thanks.

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[jamesdiggy]

If I marry a hooker would I then get some sort of spousal discount?

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[Meve]

ha ha ha, no, never... those dirty whores. I wouldn't be able to respect her and with out mutual respect there can't be any love. That's my option.

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[Ryan the Great]

this reminds me of Dave Insurgent (former lead singer of Reagan Youth). He had lost his mother in a freak car accident, his girlfriend was a hooker, he would wait outside for her while she waited on customers, one day she got into a car with a familier customer and said "i'll be back in 20 minutes", she never returned. It turns out the guy she got in the car with was Joel Rifkin, Long Island's most famous serial killer. A few days later, on Long Island, the police pulled over a truck and found her body in the back. They arrested the driver, Joel Rifkin, Long Island's most famous serial killer, who was later linked to killing numerous prostitutes. Dave Insurgent committed suicide soon after.


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[Captain Obvious]

Nice girl nice family, shes a hooker! No matter how you fuckin slice it.

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Oh yea, and for the record, I would not marry a hooker.

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[DJEvelEd]

Answering questions:I started going to the houses in Plainfield because I've always had a

>>Big Bird is Ferrall's bitch<<

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My concern would be getting the HIV or some other STD. If you don't marry her, you can always pass her on to Lil' Jimmy. But really, I feel very badly for you. I don't want to see you getting hurt or getting sick.

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[DJEvelEd]

Answering questions:I started going to the houses in Plainfield because I've always had a "thing" for Spanish women. And of course, out of basic loneliness. They are normally run by women(at least the ones I've been in)They are very clean, using condoms and alcohol rubs.
Her family is here. Yes she has some sisters. She is out of state now working with her aunt for 2 weeks.(which I don't think I can handle anymore) She tells me all the stuff she is going to buy for me when she returns, but it still bothers me alot. I also worry for her being away from me so long. I hope she doesn't get arrested again for this. All I can do is keep looking in on her daughter and help her family now. The marraige will only happen when we live together and she retires. And yes, she is VERY hot.

>>Big Bird is Ferrall's bitch<<

[Coco]

They are very clean, using condoms and alcohol rubs.


I remember reading a survey once that asked "if you knew someone had aids, would you have sex with them even if they wore a condom", about 99% said no (smartly). Condoms break and many times leak.

Has this girl been tested by a doctor?

Are you or her on drugs? Is this how you/her got caught up in this? I am sorry, but you must admit this life style is very dangerous and she has a child.

There are plenty of social service agencies out there for her if she needs physical, psychological, or career counseling.

Think of her child's future. Who is the father of this child?
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