Okay i need some advice big time.

[WintersEmbers]

this girl ive been seeing mostly as friends for awhile and i had a disscussion last nite because i want it be more than friends but she doesnt know if we have sexual chemistry so shes decided theat we're going to find out and more or less the fate of the relationship rests on whether the both of us enjoy ourselves... would someone please tell me if this is healthy or not?



Wheres your anger? Wheres your fuckin rage?
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[Hawiian shirt craig]

no but make sure u slap her, that
always works for a first time, and
call her whore.....


-Hawiian Shirt Craig
THIS IS WHY WE CAN'T HAVE NICE THINGS!!

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[WintersEmbers]

*takes out note pad...*

slap....and call whore...gee thanks craig i owe yuh!



Wheres your anger? Wheres your fuckin rage?
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[SilentSpic]

take out your junk and say, "What are you going to do about this?" try it... works all the time.

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[fiestygal]

go gay

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[Hawiian shirt craig]

take out your junk and
say, "What are you going to do
about this?" try it... works all the
time.


dont joke, i've done that. laying
in bed with a girl, who isn't going
south... just say something like,
look what you did! *point to
engorged junk* fix it!


-Hawiian Shirt Craig
THIS IS WHY WE CAN'T HAVE NICE THINGS!!

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[Gwen]

dont joke, i've done that. laying
in bed with a girl, who isn't going
south... just say something like,
look what you did! *point to
engorged junk* fix it!


Craig, you're a dirtbag =)

Anyways winters hun, I say its the only way you'll find out if there's chemistry, but are you guys not going to be friends if there's no chemistry? If not I say dont go for it at all then.

And maybe get drunk so that way your chemistry come about much easier.

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[Jackie Sloan]

If you're still friends afterward, go for it. Maybe the fact that you're friends already will be a postitive. Either way, u gittin dat ace at least once!

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[furie]

If you're still friends afterward, go for it.


yeah, like that'll happen

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[WintersEmbers]

i dunno...i kinda see where you guys are coming from with this and i do still wanna be friends with her and maybe i should sit down and discuss the possible ramifications before i go do something rash...



Wheres your anger? Wheres your fuckin rage?
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~Disciple of Horde King~

[Hawiian shirt craig]

Craig, you're a dirtbag


then quit stalking me.... AND i
only say that when its
apropriate... when its cute and
witty not dirty and illegal...


-Hawiian Shirt Craig
THIS IS WHY WE CAN'T HAVE NICE THINGS!!

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[TheGameHHH]

Is she hot????

IT'S TIME TO PLAY THE GAME-AHHH!

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[WintersEmbers]

Is she hot????




yes...not that it should matter...but yes shes extremely attractive.



Wheres your anger? Wheres your fuckin rage?
~Firm supporter of the Unban Christy Campaign. Free the Bullrusher!~
~Disciple of Horde King~

[Coco]

<i>no but make sure u slap her, that
always works for a first time, and
call her whore.....</i>

<i>dont joke, i've done that. laying
in bed with a girl, who isn't going
south... just say something like,
look what you did! *point to
engorged junk* fix it!</i>


Hawaiian Shirt Craig: Wow! With comments like that you should have girls crawling all over you!!







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[Jobberific]

I say go for it. No matter what happens at this poin, the friendship is never going to be the same. So you might as well take the shot and hope for the best.

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[furie]

yes...not that it should matter...but yes shes extremely attractive.


of course it matters! I don't want to waste my time reading threads about ugly chicks!

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[Aggie]

I say go for it. No matter what happens at this poin, the friendship is never going to be the same. So you might as well take the shot and hope for the best.
what he said...if the subject has already been brought up, there's no goin back now! Good luck! :)

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[Arienette]

seems i'm in the minority here, but this doesnt sound like a very good idea to me. if this is someone you care about, this may not be the best way to go about things. spending time near eachother, in very close proximity, in a potentially romantic (whatever that may be to you) setting should really be more than enough to show you both whether or not there's chemistry. pretty much anyone will feel SOMETHING when you're doing them, it's a natural physical response. but you want to know if she feels it with you, and because of you.

maybe i'm wrong here, but it doesnt seem healthy. if she doesnt know if she feels it, it's probably because she doesnt. usually people dont have to have sex before they can tell if there's any chemistry. i mean, you know how you feel about her.. it should be the same the other way around

that all said, if you do decide to go for it, i wish you luck and hope things work out

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they reminded me of yours

[Hawiian shirt craig]

Hawaiian Shirt
Craig: Wow! With
comments like that you
should have girls crawling
all over you!!


Coco, we've sort of had this
discussion B4... i hope you
really dont think i'm a scum
bag. if you do IM me @
Gizmo42742 or email me.
most of the time i dont care
what people think, but for
some reason its bothering
me. come get some craig
lovein'


-Hawiian Shirt Craig
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[irishkb]

dude think about this for a long time.. i mean if you really like this friendship, you need to relize if the sex part does not work out you might not have a friendship after it happens... good luck with what you decide...

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[FMJeff]

sounds like you're taking it too seriously

if its not fun it won't work out.

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[Justice4all]

If she said having sex would determine your relationship with her, romantically speaking, then she is basing it on sex. If you are good she keeps you around until she gets bored of you. If you are not good then she decides to stay friends. Either way you loose. I would just keep the friendship and she if she is into the "benefits" package. If not then forget about it and move on.

I NEVER suffer from insanity...I love EVERY minute of it

[GaryWyze]

would someone please tell me if this is healthy or not? <P>
<font color=purple>Not. You're putting way too much emphasis on the physicality of it all, not to mention that all that pressure is a recipe for disaster. <P>
If you two want to test the waters, take baby steps.... there's no need to dive right in. <P>
Start with a date, a little hand holding, maybe a few kisses, but sex is suppose to be something that comes as a result of attraction and fondness, not as a way to gauge either. <P>
Good luck, I really hope things work out!</font> <P>

[Wolf]

When did I tune into Loveline? <P>

Seeyuh!!!

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[GaryWyze]

When did I tune into Loveline?

<font color=purple>Would you prefer it if I did my Leykis? ;)</font>

[Wolf]

Would you prefer it if I did my Leykis?<P> No, that's quite alright. <P> Anyway, I say you just do her and enjoy it. Friends with benefits is better than just friends. <P> <P>

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This message was edited by cuttericeman on 9-19-02 @ 2:07 PM