at college relationship

[Hawiian shirt craig]

i am wonder what you guys think. no i'm not, i lied.
i know what you think about. and stop it sicky. but
anyway, do on campus romances ever work out? i
mean if ur girl lives in buffallo all summer and u
down in westchester, what can you do? or if u date
a local (which i always end up doing) whats a
reasonable amout of visiting.

as many of you know i am transfering to SUNY
plattsburgh from SUNY albany (albany is the worst
city ever in history). i want to start over, and was
curious what you guys thought about school
relationships. any good stories? i mean you always
hear about people who meet freshman year and
stay together until the end of school or whatever...
what the fuck is that about? how much summer
cheating goes on do you think?? i dunno what do u
all have to say for yourselves??


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[sunndoggy8]

When you're in college, you're not really meant to be in those super meaningful relationships, imo. You're supposed to be dating, figuring out what you want in another person, and basically grow as a human being relationshipwise. Being in a long term relationship in college I feel prevents that.

But there are also the issues of becoming too close too fast. Speaking from personal experience and those of my friends thorugh college, relationships move too fast. And I think a big part of that comes from practically living with your sig. other. It's not like a couple that has separate apartments, which makes it a little more inconvenient to sleep over. In college, you basically live together, even though it's not constant. This isnt' the case with all on campus relationships, but with a big part of them I think.

Plus what happens are those drunken hookups...those parties where something happens and then there's major fights and emotions getting mixed in...just makes for more pain and hurt than a normal college student needs relationship-wise.

I think it's great to date and experiment dating different people and doing different things in college, but long term relationships, in my opinion, aren't healthy. Of course that isn't the universal rule and for some people long term relationships work...but I just think that it's not all that wise to do it for everyone.

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[swiss miss]

baby doll, i had a very positive experience with a college relationship.....i dated a fine man since high school, i went to school in Philly, and he was in NY....he visited me while i was away all 4 years, and i can honestly say they are some of the best memories i have looking back on my college days. I was faithful to him the whole time, with absoilutly NO desire to cheat. He would visit me, and sit in the welding room with me for hours watching me work.Do not lose heart sweet craig (gizbag) if you think about it too much you will kill it, and i think thats some advice YOU gave to me.... <P>
xoxoxox <P>

[Hawiian shirt craig]

ur the best oh fine swiss treat. i haven't lost heart,
i am the unjadeable hopeless romantic. one of my
better qualities. i was really just hoping for some
good stories... people get shit on, u just have to
throw that shit back like monkeys in the monkey
cage at the zoo!!!


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[Jennitalia]

anything is possible, it just depends on the situation. my ex from oneonta and i broke up after i graduated for this very reason. i was graduating and going back home to westchester. he still had one more year to go, but he lived further upstate (ouside of utica). we really loved each other and were also very good friends, but it was just bad timing. we still keep in contact. he's married now. im sure if we were meant to be, it wouldve worked out

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i long to be a rock star retard. until then, i'm just an insensitive fuckfaced twat

[Hawiian shirt craig]

you're 100% right jenny girl... i'm from westchester
too, much better than jersey. unless you count
peekskill... i dont count peekskill, but only b/c i live
near it!!


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[Jennitalia]

i'm from yorktown. lived in peekskill for less than a year...something i'm trying to forget about. the only cool thing about it was i lived in the facts of life school-turned into-apartment building

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i long to be a rock star retard. until then, i'm just an insensitive fuckfaced twat

[Hawiian shirt craig]

the day cortlandt manor split from peekskill the value of my house went up 300% LOL. peekskill sucks, but it is the home of gov pataki and he takes care of us. as long as u didn't go to yorktown HS we can still be freinds..... i was a L/P rebel when i was playing football! GRRRRRRR

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[Cybersoldier]

they can work if both sides really want too, but distance and time always becomes a issue. I starting to talk to a girl who goes to college as well, and were connecting, I think its possible for a relationship to work if thinks work out

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thanks earth2ron

[Hawiian shirt craig]

i'm off to school today! YAY!!!!!!!!!


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[rowanprofz]

Girlfriend + college = horrible time. If you want to get the most out of college spend more of it single than not.

Remember in high school you thought you knew what you wanted? Now unless you were doing Mary Jo the cheerleader - you're probably kicking yourself in the junk for sticking it in Beth Ann the tuba player.

Same thing applies in college. Just go out have fun and friggin meet people. The more people you meet and date the better idea you'll have for when you've grown up.

BTW if the "ONE" rolls into the bar or party you're at and you're madly in love just bite the bullet and marry her. We've already lost you to the dark side

DAMN THE MAN! - Empire Records