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Earth2RON

07-30-2002, 03:35 PM

I was having a conversation with a family friend, and the topic of "females not being able to come during oral sex'" came up yet again:)

I cant remember exactly what i said, but it was along the lines of this...."ive heard a lot of females say that they have never had an orgasm while having oral done to them".My feeling about that is that its all mentally when it comes to females being able to orgasm just by a touch us males can orgasm no matter if the sex is bad. After awhile i went off on one of my little tangents during that time and i said "i believe that most females need an Intimate Connection during oral sex",and my friend said that i hit the nail right on the head.

Am i right ladies or am i just barking up the wrong tree?

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ShelleBink

07-30-2002, 03:38 PM

i said "i believe that most females need an Intimate Connection during oral sex",and my friend said that i hit the nail right on the head.

yeah, i've orgasmed w/ guys i could give a damn about, but having sex ((of any kind)) with a guy you're insane about... it makes things soooooooooooo much easier.. ((if that makes sense))

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Jennitalia

07-30-2002, 03:40 PM

fiestygal

07-30-2002, 09:24 PM

Oral= very good....now if only i get the nerve to be able to recipricate

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sourkitty

07-30-2002, 09:36 PM

ive never had an orgasm through oral...i get close but never can just go...after a while i just give up and fake it...i wish a guy could just do it rite!!!

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Earth2RON

07-30-2002, 09:53 PM

after a while i just give up and fake it...i wish a guy could just do it rite
if you keep faking the guy will continue thinking that he is doing a good job.if the guy cant make you cum,you should just get a vibrator since you love to "FAKE" it :)

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F1Gm3nT

07-30-2002, 10:23 PM

i dont think i've ever had an orgasm while a guy was munchin on my tookie. i know i came really close a couple of times. by that point, i basically pulled him up and said "fuck me now"

i wish i could cum from that though

you just need to be tied up and gagged to prevent that form hapening

ive never had an orgasm through oral...i get close but never can just go...after a while i just give up and fake it...i wish a guy could just do it rite!!!

sick of hearing about guys not knowing how to work it... tsk tsk tsk... it's a shame...
I've always taken oral as apasion... I get mad into it... actually get off on it.

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Hosp

07-31-2002, 03:56 AM

Are we talking about just tongue or are fingers involved too?

With just tongue and some sucking I usually get the job done, but if I'm also using the fingers I tend to get quicker results and usually multiple orgasms.

And never fake it, it's a waste of both of our time. If it's not working either just stop us or give us some direction. I happily take instructions, it will make me better over all.

And feisty, if you don't I wouldn't, there's no incentive (especially not to do a good job at least).

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07-31-2002, 06:06 AM

sick of hearing about guys not knowing how to work it... tsk tsk tsk... it's a shame...
I've always taken oral as apasion... I get mad into it... actually get off on it.

i'm with figment, us spics just know how to do it up lovely, it must have something to do with rolling our "R"s

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furie

07-31-2002, 06:28 AM

what could be more intimate?

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Noellevious

07-31-2002, 07:58 AM

Am i right ladies or am i just barking up the wrong tree?
Depends on the woman.

One of the biggest questions about female sexuality has been "Can I woman orgasm if she's not in love?" To me, that question is moronic and smacks of old world Victorian morals. Love or not, if someone is good with the tongue and you're not hung up on inhibitions/shame...you're gonna come!

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Earth2RON

07-31-2002, 12:09 PM

what could be more intimate?
seeing your first born child come into the world!

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furie

07-31-2002, 12:30 PM

seeing your first born child come into the world!

that's not intimate! the birth happens in a sterile room in the hospital with 5-6 strangers running about. how is that intimate?

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Noellevious

07-31-2002, 01:49 PM

seeing your first born child come into the world!
Hey, oral sex prevents babies. Unless you're doing it wrong. ;)

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Earth2RON

07-31-2002, 02:16 PM

that's not intimate! the birth happens in a sterile room in the hospital with 5-6 strangers running about. how is that intimate?
im gonna try to explain this the best that i can:)

hmmmm....what i think i was trying to say is that...watching my first born child come into the world with the woman that, i plan on spending the rest of my rest of my life with is intimate to me!

did i do a good job with that?

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furie

07-31-2002, 02:26 PM

eh. I don't know. When i think of intimacy, I'm not envisoning bright florecent lights and sturps.

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Jennitalia

07-31-2002, 04:00 PM

you just need to be tied up and gagged to prevent that form hapening

Jon does that to me all the time...only instead of munching and banging me like a good boy, he just leaves :(

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