Woman like to be talked to right?

[ag]

But heres my dilema, I am horrible when it comes to conversation on the phone or even the Internet. And I have this wonderfull girl who I have feelings for, as well does she. I really dont wont to loose this girl what shoudl I do?Any Suggestions?

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[Deathstroke]

juST CaLL HER up and say:

"mom....you want to go out to lunch with me?"

if mommy loves you then she will say"....oh yes dahling"

[zathrus]

be yourself, but try to be a little
more out going. if you find the
right topic to talk about then,
you'll be fine.


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[DroopyGirl]

Ok well you can call her.. to ask her out. And if you don't know what to say to her.. just say that you are really really busy (blahblah) but that you do want to hang out with her.

Just make sure that you do have something to talk about when you are with her :)

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[sunndoggy8]

I totally support the be yourself and things will work out plan, but sometimes that just doesn't work out.

Maybe you should make a list of possible topics and whatnot if you REALLY want to start getting a good flow from your conversations with her and whatnot. MOst probalby if you have a plan going into the convo, you might just be able to play off that..maybe a random tangent in the convo will turn into something not so pre-planned.

And it might even help for you to mention it to her...like say something about how you sometimes feel nervous talking to her because of how you feel towards her, and that she shouldn't take it the wrong way..but then again you have ot wrory about freaking her out by saying that, so you just have to play of the vibe that she's given you so far.

But do the pre-planning thing..maybe it'll help. Good luck.

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[Justice4all]

A G....you are a good kid. Always be yourself...be confident and above all RESPECTFUL. Find a common ground and go from there. (What Zathrus said) You will do fine!

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[sexy bastard]

I agree with zath and justice, you are a good guy, your funny outgoing, your just shy on the phone or online, just be yourself you will do fine. I mean think about it you got alot of good qualities and hell if i was a chick i would date you...shit i know that sounded gay but you know what i mean

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[Gwen]

Anthony:
Im with sunny on this one. Make a list of topics you want to talk to her about, questions you want to know, keep it by your computer or your phone.
I know it sounds lame, but it worked for me. I was really nervous when I first started talking to my current boyfriend on the phone (this was before we were dating). I made the list and it made it a lot less akward he was also pretty shy so we had a lot of those "silent moments" before I made the list.

Not to mention that she won't know you have the list there unless ya tell her.

Good luck!!


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This message was edited by Gwen on 7-16-02 @ 7:28 PM

[Katylina]

juST CaLL HER up and say:

"mom....you want to go out to lunch with me?"

if mommy loves you then she will say"....oh yes dahling"
TEH FUNNEY! lmao

Anthony, I suggest (being her close friend and all) just calling her and asking her to hang out OR find out the next time I am bringing her out with me. I don't like being on the phone for long as well; just make the plans and go for it.

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[Deathstroke]

A good ice breaker is..."are you a natural redhead?"


Then give her a cookie....preferable chocolate chip....cause there so yummy =)

And whatever you do...dont go drinking on the train......

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[fiestygal]

well i dunno if it was the alcohol or what BUT at the softball game you came up to me and introduced yourself and then introduced me to like EVERYONE- even though you were slurring the name LISA- lol...you are a good egg anthony

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I'll get off my SOAP BOX now!

I am a goofball & swell to boot

[ag]

It wasnt Lisa I couldnt Pronounce, it was Fiestygal

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[DarkHippie]

kat has a good point. if you're having trouble finding something to talk about, it'll help to have a third person there to keep the conversation going when it starts to fizzle out. Of course, don't expect any bootay that night :(

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[ag]

Ok so Ive fianlly come to the realization of why I cant talk on the phone! I made several attempts at it following everyones advice, but I really have nothing to say, I asked her how she was doing, and all that and then like theres always that uncomfortable silence and sigh of bordem. As much as I think Im boring and so does she, I think she really apreciates me calling. Sigh I stink! And to whom this may concern, dont show her this! Id feel like a bigger dork than I already am

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