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Cybersoldier

07-11-2002, 10:03 AM

I just broke up with my girlfriend, and the way I found was geting an IM from one of her friends. I truly loved this girl. Love sucks

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Aggie

07-11-2002, 10:40 AM

I'm very sorry :( I know how you feel, but I can't imagine having to find out that way! How long were you guys together? Everything I want to say sounds so cliche, so if you want to talk you can IM me.

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fatty

07-11-2002, 11:24 AM

sorry man. all i can say is what i say to everyone, rent swingers. it will definetely help.

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Alice S. Fuzzybutt

07-11-2002, 05:43 PM

I'm sorry, Cyber. Having a friend break up for you through IM is cold and heartless.

Hang in there. I know it's tough. There is a far superior woman out there for you!!

Trust the Fuzzybutt! :-)

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Cybersoldier

07-11-2002, 06:26 PM

Thanks guys for trying to cheer me up. I now know how it feels like to have your heart broken. My girlfriend's friend told me that she want to explain why she broke up with me by writing me a letter. I think she was nervous about how fast the relationship was going, and it was one of those long distance relationships. I kinda have some hope we get back together, but who know what could happen in the future.

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noahfex

07-11-2002, 09:29 PM

i feel for you. my fiance of seven years wanted to have some space and take some time apart. well in that time of space she cheated on me from someone that is on one of the wnew shows. Love does suck! I lost my fiance and best friend and now shes replaced me with a radio show

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noahfex

07-11-2002, 09:32 PM

also i found out about all of this was because i stopped over to see her and came across her journal where she wrote all about it. I guess its my fault for being nosey

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Gwen

07-16-2002, 03:12 PM

Thats awful that you read her journal noah, don't you have any concept of decency or privacy?

And Cybersoldier, Im sorry to hear that, but I'm with Alice Fuzzybutt on this one: you will find a girl much more worthy of your attention & affection. Cheer up hun! =)

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Freal

07-16-2002, 03:26 PM

Just be happy you found out now what a dope she really is.
Keep your head up.

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ChrisTheCop

07-16-2002, 03:30 PM

don't you have any concept of decency or privacy?

Typical comment from a woman. Did u just skim over the fact that she cheated on him??!! Decency..ha! It's not his fault that she left her journal lying around ...maybe she wanted him to read it. People, if u wanna break up and move on, have the decency to say so..thank u.

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Cybersoldier

07-20-2002, 10:17 PM

I agree with you chris. Women if you want to break up with a guy doing in some personal way, and just tell us.

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sunndoggy8

07-21-2002, 12:02 AM

Cybersoldier, sorry to hear about that with your g/f, but even though she was afraid, she really broke up with you in a immature, shitty and gutless way. Keep that in mind down the line if you ever have to judge whether you want to get back together with her.

And noahfex, sorry to hear about that too. It probably was hard enough to deal with her wanting a break, but finding out what you did must have been tough...that's probably why you resorted to reading her journal that day. But hey, you found out the truth, and there are plenty of fish in the sea. ANd at least you found out that she was a cheater now rather than after you got married/had kids and whatnot. So you can sort of consider yourself lucky on that end of things.

And Gwen, don't you think the fact that she was cheating on him negates any sort of respect he should have for her privacy? If not, he would never have known the truth and would be pining over her without knowing the truth about her. This way he knows...even if they were on a break at the time, he knows what happened.

I wouldn't condone all b/f's and g/f's to go and invade their sig. others privacy, but in this case, it worked, so he's off the hook in being blamed for invading anyone's privacy. She doesn't deserve that sort of respect for doing what she did.

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fatty

07-21-2002, 08:57 AM

i agree with gwen. i'd rather have my girlfriend cheat on me and me not know than to just read her stuff and find out.

i think trust is the most important and privacy is included in this. there's no excuse for reading someone's stuff when you're going out with them. none.

even if it works that doesn't justify the means.

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ShelleBink

07-21-2002, 10:40 AM

People, if u wanna break up and move on, have the decency to say so..thank u.

I COMPLETELY AGREE :)

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Cybersoldier

07-21-2002, 01:38 PM

My ex finally told me the reason why we broke up. And I understand why, strangely. So right now were friends. And now there is closure and I can move on thanks everyone for your support.

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swiss miss

07-21-2002, 04:22 PM

My Noahfex, that sounds like an aweful story....she must be a real bitch.

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sunndoggy8

07-21-2002, 08:05 PM

i agree with gwen. i'd rather have my girlfriend cheat on me and me not know than to just read her stuff and find out

I'd rather know so that I don't take the relationship to a more serious point down the line. Whose to say that she wouldn't cheat again and again and again. Sure people shouldn't invade one anothers privacy as i already said, but when it works, i'll condone it.

It's a double standard, but at least he knows now.

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noahfex

07-21-2002, 09:11 PM

to my dearest swiss. shes not a bitch she just ripped my heart into a million pieces. But im sure with time it will heal,but thanks for your concern

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fatty

07-22-2002, 05:47 AM

I'd rather know so that I don't take the relationship to a more serious point down the line. Whose to say that she wouldn't cheat again and again and again.

it most likely won't get to that real serious point because if she's cheating she'll be gone by then. i understand the end justifies the means, but i'm extremely against dishonesty, even if it is against a dishonest person.

my point is if they are cheating you can and will find out without invading privacy. and if you do read that journal and dont' find anything you're an asshole.

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fatty

07-22-2002, 05:49 AM

i'm glad you're doing better cybersoldier.

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ChrisTheCop

07-22-2002, 06:30 PM

Of course, it depends how one comes across someones journal...if u break into a locked cabinet, a safe, or a home to get to it..youve broken the law. The end of a relationship is always hard. I just hope all parties can move on and find happiness elsewhere. (what me? backpedal? lol)

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sunndoggy8

07-24-2002, 02:21 PM

it most likely won't get to that real serious point because if she's cheating she'll be gone by then...

my point is if they are cheating you can and will find out without invading privacy...

I disagree with you here. I think it's more common for people to delude themselves with the idea that their partner is being faithful even if there are signs that they're not. More often than not I think the person being cheated on doesn't know right away, and is always in the dark about it. Sure theres a chance he would have found out later, but if not, then hey, they get married, have a kid, and then he finds out?

Better now than risk all that shit down the road, ya know?

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Cybersoldier

07-25-2002, 06:41 PM

cheating is one thing, have evidence to show that girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating is another. If a girl looks though her boyfriend things it okay,but when a guy does it to his girlfriend not repecting her privacy. The world is has more of a double standard against guy from the courts to relationships, to the office area.

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ToddEVF

07-26-2002, 12:28 AM

i agree with gwen. i'd rather have my girlfriend cheat on me and me not know than to just read her stuff and find out

Very true words indeed. it makes the break up not seem because its over cheating at all. Due to the lack of knowledge of the cheating, i won't come into effect.

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Doogie

07-26-2002, 12:38 AM

Hang in there my man, we may be hunting together soon for new girls...just know there are people ready to stand by ya no matter what s*** you go through...this one being one of them...

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sourkitty

07-26-2002, 05:48 AM

Im sorry to hear it... :( But i cant believe she did it on line. A few times i had bf's break up wit me online, i think it is such a cowardly thing to do. I mean you were with the person for how long, you told this person everything u felt/thought/did and they cant even tell u in person. Instead they have to hide behind a fkn computer..and in ur case a friend behind a computer.

Well i got one good thing bout it,
if she was afraid to do it to u in person, this means she was regreting what she was doing, and she will probrobly wanna get bak wit ya.
The real question is, do you want her back???

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irishkb

07-26-2002, 06:50 AM

Yo dude sorry to hear about the way that went down.. Through a friend and worse through IM.. man that just blows.. take a nice walk through city and enjoy all the eye candy(hot business women) to try to get your mind strait..

To rather not know that you are being cheated is nuts... if you do take the relationship to the next, who to say the person will stop cheating.. because you feel so strong about the relationship doesn't make everything alright.. there are these two people at work who are cheating on their sig others and everyone knows it. it is kind of a running joke.. these 2 people both have kids and everything... to say ignorance is better than being alone is just fucking nuts... hey the truth hurts but most times it will set you free.......

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Cybersoldier

07-26-2002, 06:04 PM

your right I took a long walk today and there were some major hottie in force today

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This message was edited by Cybersoldier on 7-29-02 @ 2:14 PM

labyrinth1986

07-29-2002, 08:57 AM

Damn, it seems all these girls like to pick this time of the eyar to break up with people. 
I broke up with my girlfriend in June, and I really thought she was the one. My hope is still there, since there are so many skanks out there, and I'm the type who actually wants a relationship, not some

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Jackie Sloan

07-29-2002, 09:36 AM

That is cold but, figure this:
you're better off without her because it would have gotten worse. She did you a favor, you'll see.

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swiss miss

07-29-2002, 01:13 PM

tee hee, not all us girls want to sit at home and become happy little house wives.....Its fine if you want a relationship, but a woman is NOT a skank simply because she is not looking for a relationship. There are many women out there who are looking for fun, and i hope you find one who wants the same things that you do.....happy hunting