IT sucks being SHY

[fiestygal]

Well i am a very shy person...although it may not seem it from my posts...how do you get a fella or a gal to notice shy people...i know that i am not the only SHY person out there.



This message was edited by fiestygal on 7-2-02 @ 4:56 PM

[Sheeplovr]

dont say holla and it wouldnt matter

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[fiestygal]

sorry its the philly in me ...OK no more shouts out or holla..if i do say either holla or shout out PLEASE feel free to kick me in the head

[Sheeplovr]

that not how we run things here

We have to slit ur throat and bath in ur blood or you can dance

Get the philly out of you she will die she cant breath in there

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[Aggie]

Well i am a very shy person...although it may not seem it from my posts...how do you get a fella or a gal to notice shy people...i know that i am not the only SHY person out there...HOLLA

You should talk to Earth2Ron, he's not shy in his posts and he says he is in real life! :) We'll see if that's true...

I don't have much advice. I'm not a shy person. As long as you look approachable I will usually go talk to someone, oh and if someone else initiates the conversation and asks a question, say more than yes or no. That really bugs me when I try to make the effort to talk to someone who seems shy and they aren't helping. Don't make it hard :)

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[FMJeff]

We have to slit ur throat and bath in ur blood


But only the members we really like get this treatment...

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[F1Gm3nT]

me... I'm shy only in the begining... like I mos def will not be the one in the bar kiking it to girls and shit... anh... well... if I have some alcohol in me... yeha I will

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[Earth2RON]

aggie........
ill be waiting:)

my personality is what makes me shy,if that makes any sense to anyone that havent spoken to me yet.im just real quiet in my ays i like to watch other people,and how they act when i am out rather than join them........holla back*

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[DroopyGirl]

Yeah I'm really shy too..

but I don't really see it as a problem or something.. it's just the way I am.. I do sometimes wonder if people who aren't shy have a more easy life.. it sometimes kinda looks like that to me.. and guys just seem to go for the loud annoying girls (what the hell are they thinking?!?!?)

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[JerryTaker]

I've always been a subscriber to the theory that it'll be so much better for everyone involved if I just keep my mouth shut and not make my presence known....
...ok, usually...

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[pinkyfloyd]

I've been very shy my whole life. I actually was on Paxil my final 2 years in high school because it was that bad. But, being shy isn't always a bad thing. I think that I am a lot more aware of stuff going on around me, and I'm also more in tune to other people's feelings. You learn good observation skills by being a shy person.

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[sexy bastard]

i am very shy in person it takes me usually about 1/2 hour to feel comfy

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[Jobberific]

I'm not shy at all. But then again, I'm usually drunk.

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[SuperDave]

I suffer from the same thing. But i'm only shy if i'm interested. But if i'm around a group of guys or a group of chicks that i'm not really diggin on, i'm all kinds of out going. Who knows?



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[fiestygal]

i believe superdave HIT IT on the nose....... DING DING DING we got a WINNER

[silera]

I'm shy.

Yup.

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[wilee]

I used to be shy, until I analyzed it. So, you go up to a person and you start up a conversation, and they're not "into you". OK, you walk away with a small bruise on your ego, perhaps, but it's not like you've been beaten up physically, or robbed.

Take your disappointments in the same stride that you take your achievements. Don't shelter yourself, because you'll miss out on a lot.

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[Earth2RON]

You learn good observation skills by being a shy person
thats how i learn about people by watching how they act!like i always say i rather listen to someone talk rather than not hear what they are saying.

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[SuperDave]

DING DING DING we got a WINNER


What do I win? What do I win? I hope it's super cool whatever it is!!!



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[F1Gm3nT]

SIlera is extremely shy... dont let the fact that she is dominican fool you
she dosen't even fuking look it... but yeah she's maaaaaaaaaaaaad shy

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[erole]

You learn good observation skills by being a shy person.

Isn't that the truth! I was super shy growing up. Around 10 I realized I didn't have too many friends (yes, I'm open for an easy joke right here, I know), but I couldn't talk to anyone. What ended up happening was my observation skills shot way up.
I'm pretty aware of little things. I actually have this joyful obsession with the little things in life. Because of my shyness, I developed this different perspective. Imagine actually enjoying life everyday, seeing every little thing that's truly speical in this world. Spotting the diamonds in the rough, and collecting a truck load of them everyday. People always tell me that time flies by. I can never understand that. Everyday is long for me.
It really doesn't suck for me being shy. My shyness actually gave me this subtle appreciation of things that most people would never know. My observation skills flourished; jumping from getting to know people to getting to know me and the world I live in.
Of course, it still does suck that I can't walk up to a woman who blows me away. And it sucks that I have this humor mechinism that turns on when I like a girl and I'm nervous. But still...it doesn't suck so bad.

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[Poopsyc]

I am shy too until I get to know someone and feel comfortable, then i'm wide open. The trick is looking approachable. If you gotta a smile on your face and you look happy and nice, you don't have to do anything, they will come to you.

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