what's more intimate?

[Arienette]

of all things sexual, i think i might argue that kissing is the most intimate. i think i would be more hurt if i was with someone and he kissed another girl than if he got a bj from one, for example. it just is kind of impersonal and all... but with kissing its completely personal

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I vote for mutual masterbation, but I agree that kissing is way up there. <P>

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i agree with both of you but kissing is on top

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i think sex is the most intimate thing i can come up with

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[erole]

Michael Skakel would say spankin' in a tree.

But for me, I'd have to go with the kissing.

[A.J.]

Anything beyond kissing would have to involve nudity (or at least partial nudity) would it not? Wouldn't that be considered more intimate?

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[mrbungle]

Sex is only more intimate if there's true emotion <other than the desire to fuck>, whereas kissing is an intimate act no matter what.


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[Aggie]

whereas kissing is an intimate act no matter what.
I'd disagree with that. I've had some pretty un-intimate kisses. Maybe it's just me....I think they can be VERY intimate if the feelings are there. I think that is the key. Intamacy is feelings, not the actual act. But on that note, I think a guy having his face in between my legs is pretty damn intimate. :) lol

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[TheGameHHH]

I agree with Aggie, kissing can be on either end,
intimate or un-intimate. However, if you really broke
it down, I would choose kissing as more intimate
over head. I don't know why, but I woul


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aggie my dear lets do this i will test out both of your theories

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[Hosp]

The only thing that I got out of this thread so far was the feeling that Ari gives bad blow jobs.

So sticking my tongue in a girl's mouth is more intimate then me sticking my penis in the same girl's mouth?

I'm one of the people who says once there is an emotional bond, everything is intimate.

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[Earth2RON]

kissing is by far the most intimate thing you can do with another person.i kind of in a way find childbirth to be intimate as well.i cant wait for my first child to be born:)

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[Arienette]

The only thing that I got out of this thread so far was the feeling that Ari gives bad blow jobs.i take extreme offense to that, not only because that's an unreasonable extrapolation, but because i am the bj queen. at least now i can put one more name on the list of people who will never have the fortunate opportunity to find out

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The only thing that I got out of this thread so far was the feeling that Ari gives bad blow jobs.



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[Hosp]

Damn! Reverse psychology fails me again.

I just see it as if you don't see it being an intimate act you can't put any emotion into it. No passion. Then why even bother doing it in the first place.

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[Arienette]

I just see it as if you don't see it being an intimate act you can't put any emotion into it. No passion. Then why even bother doing it in the first place. see, that's where you're wrong. there's a huge difference between passion and intimacy. passion, intensity, etc are often completely separate from intimacy. obviously, as some people have pointed out, if you have a strong emotional bond with someone, anything you do will be very intimate. but i'm talking more about the act itself.

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[Yerdaddy]

I'm going with Aggie on this one. If you walked in on yor significant other going down on someone, are you really going to say, "oh good, I thought you might be kissing or something. Carry on."? I've never understood how women could say that a blowjob isn't sex, or it's just like kissing. Where is it that girls are giving out blowjobs like the free samples at Costco? The whole idea is so creepy, and it makes me go into Costco just to check and I end up walking out of there with $100 worth of crap.

And what could be more intimate than mutual enemas?

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[Hosp]

Answers are wrong, not opinions. How could exposing your genitals to another person for the sole purpose of sexual gratification be less intimate then pressing lips together?

In the course of a relationship, would you blow a guy berfore you could kiss him?

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[erole]

In the course of a relationship, would you blow a guy berfore you could kiss him? Hosp, you're opening yourself up to attack...next time there won't be any warning <P>
I'm sticking to my original answer...kissing. You can kiss during sex too ya know. Kissing while having sex is probably the most intimate you can get. Especially if you're both in the sitting up position. Facing each other, looking into each others eyes, kissing...nothing better. OK, can I fast foward to the woman of my dreams now? Now I'm horny. Aggie thread time! <P>

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Kissing, BJ's really dosen't matter. The mere fact that your significant other is fooling around should be bad enough. That just shows they have either lost desire for you or they are weak individuals that cannot control their urges. You seem to be overlooking the real problem.

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[Supervixen]

I think it would be worse if the person had actual
feelings for the other person but did nothing as
opposed to just having sex with them. I mean
either way I'd be pissed

but I think the most intimate thing is eye contact,
you can say more with your eyes then in a kiss or
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[Justice4all]

Vixey has it right on the button...if I am inside a woman and we finish kissing and look into each others eyes for a long long time....that is as intimate as you can get.

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[Hosp]

Or you just watched Pretty Woman one too many times...

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I agree that kissing is very intimate. I have noticed with myself that I can only kiss people with the right body chemistry that matches mine. You know it matches cause when you kiss, it tastes like heaven. Peoples mouthes are very distinct, in smell, taste, shape, and texture. It all counts. Having sex with someone is not as personal. It's more like human nature. The animal inside all of us.

For all who would like to test this theory out, the next time you have sex with someone, don't do any french kissing before or while have sex. The next time you have sex, do a lot of french kissing and you will feel a big difference. Before, while, and after having sex.

The ULTIMATE intimacy though is actually using the bathroom while your significant other is in the same room.

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Where is it that girls are giving out blowjobs like the free samples at Costco?



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How come girls kiss each other alot then?


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Where is it that girls are giving out blowjobs like the free samples at Costco?


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[FUNKMAN]

i would think kissing a womans vagina is the most intimate... i would also think it depends on the emotions of the woman...

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I'm voting for kissing during intercourse.

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[kc7586]

i think the most intimate you can get is right after sex, cuddling, kissing and just holding one another and looking into each others eyes. after sharing your body with someone and expieriencing that, just being with them and the closeness is just amazingly intamite to me.

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[Disúgrunútled]

A hug. No not like hugging your grandma. Not even after sex cuddling. Out in the street bright light hugging.
Think about it... your body's are close, your faces are together, eyes open, palms spread open on the other person's back, exchanging heat. Sex can be cold and so can a kiss but a hug is when you really lose yourself.

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[Contra]

I think the "long time coming" kiss is the most intimate. Either you haven't seen your lover in a while, or after a hard day of work, or life in general, and you miss their touch or company. You grab that person and give that deep kiss, and you just lose yourself in it. Those have been the most intimate for me.

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[Kewlkat]

I'm one of the people who says once there is an emotional bond, everything is intimate.


I agree with this statement. There isnt something thats more intimate then something else or more so then other things.

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i think the most intimate you can get is right after sex, cuddling, kissing and just holding one another and looking into each others eyes.


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[Steels]

I know I've found a woman that is very special to me when I share my last fat rail of blow with her after partying all night. If I felt lesser I'd tell her I was out HOURS ago and call her a cab.

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[Meatball]

by far the most intimate thing a man and woman can share is his American Express card.

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I think the "long time coming" kiss is the most intimate. Either you haven't seen your lover in a while, or after a hard day of work, or life in general, and you miss their touch or company. You grab that person and give that deep kiss, and you just lose yourself in it. Those have been the most intimate for me.

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