My friends girlfriend hates me!

[Supervixen]

I have this awesome friend Colin. We are very
nearly inseperable and he went away for awhile
recently. When he came bacxk and came back to
school he was going out with this girl.
We all wanted to meet her, especcially me cause my
friends girlfriends usually are alot of fun, so he
brought her to a performance at my college.
I introduced myself and this girl was SNOTTY AS
HELL! I tried to be nice to her but she was just
being a bitch. So I left her alone, maybe she didnt
feel good or whatever.

I called him since then and sometimes when hes at
work she holds his cell phone for him, and if she
picks up, she is SO snotty to me!
I invited them both to come work on this movie that
a bunch of us are crew on and she declined and he
told me that she hates me and he feels in the
middle of all this.

what am I suppose to do ? He didnt say he was
guna make an ultimatum but I dont wanna ruin this
relationship if he really likes her.


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[Coco]

You're probably not the only girlfriend of his that she has done this to. She probably has a bad case of the "jealousies".

Maybe if you went out on a double date - you with your guy and them, she wouldn't be as jealous.

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[wilee]

She sounds very possessive. I'd say that you should continue to try to be nice to her in front of your friend. Behind the scenes, have no interaction with her. Don't encourage him to give an ultimatim, and don't give him one yourself. If after a few weeks/months, she still hasn't warmed up to you, draw his attention to it in subtle ways, and he might realize that she's being possessive/controlling and end the relationship or encourage her to be more friendly.

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[Arienette]

anna, can completely sympathize. i had a very similar situation... i have a male friend, who was like my best friend for maybe like 3 or 4 years at the time when he met this girl. i even would like help him out when they first started dating - i gave him suggestions on places to take her, what to get for her birthday, all that kind of stuff. then, i finally get to meet her, and she's a complete bitch to me. it was really upsetting since he's my best friend and i wanted to spend time with him, but i never felt comfortable when she was around. i know she felt threatened or that i was going to try to steal him away but that's insane. he and i would have gotten together long before that if we were going to. and, damn it, i even helped him get with her!!

the upshot is that things did improve. i stayed away a bit, at first, and then once she was more secure with their relationship or whatever, she started being a little better with me. i mean we never braided each other's hair or anything, but i didnt feel awkward being around my friend anymore, which was the point. my advice would be to just lay low for a while and see how things go with them. it's a crappy situation, but its good of you to want him to be happy... i hope it works out for you

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[Earth2RON]

if i was a female i would feel the same way also,cause you is cute as hell!
now that you know she dont like you just stay away from her its that simply.atleast shes not acting like she likes you she said it out loud and clear.

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[Now Im Starvin]

Supervix - Have you ever slept with this friend of yours or flirt with him alot? If so forget it she'll never get over that fact and will hate you forever. If not, she's just a shit and don't let it bother you so much. Your friend will understand and be able to tell what type of bitch this girl really is soon enough.


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[Supervixen]

Thanks for the advice, Arienette im glad to see its
happened to people before.
earth2ron thanks for the compliment

Supervix - Have you ever slept with this
friend of yours or flirt with him alot?


Nah, hes just one of those friends that isnt even
really a guy- i mean i dont think of him as a sexual
being.. I dunno.. hes just Colin.. Id never even flirt
with


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