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sunndoggy8
05-22-2001, 06:51 PM
Just curious...can it be summed up in one sentence?

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Pootertoot
05-22-2001, 07:18 PM
"I love you...in my dreams, I love you!"

In other words, no. You can live your entire life and not capture the essence of why you love someone so completely, especially when you consider the capriciousness of love itself. How many girls have you "loved"? In retrospect you can say you didn't really "love" them, but if that's what you thought it was at the time, who's to say it wasn't? A lot can change in retrospect, and a lot you'll change to make yourself feel better. I fall in love with every girl I date, a major flaw in my personality, for it's often not reciprocal, but my love is always for different reasons. The way I express it isn't the way I feel it isn't, but the reasons I feel it, if discernable, are always different.

If you're talking an expression of the physical manifestations of love, sure. Poets devote their life to it. Back in high school, I was sitting outside eating lunch, and I saw this amazingly beautiful flower which had been caught by the sunlight in such a way that it looked incredible. Beside it was a decrepid, rotting dandelion, the only thing that was ruining the scene from being perfect. So I picked the dandelion and gave it to my girlfriend. She was so beautiful, so perfect to me, that if I could rid her world of any imperfections, I would, and I started there. To me, at that time, that was love. Of course, it turned out I was the dandelion in her life, so that didn't quite work out. Why did I tell that story? Oh yes...because looking back, did that fully encompass my love for her? No. Didn't come close if you think about it. Just remember you can't capture an emotion. They're raw, primal, something we'll never understand, because they're irrational. But they're there. So just use them. Love is all you need, bayyyyyyyybeeeee.

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HordeKing1
05-22-2001, 09:19 PM
Love is not amorphous. There have to be particular qualities that you love about a person in order for it to be real. The phrase "I love you," can be said to be essentially meaningless. Of much more significance, is, "I love your optimism, or enthusiasm, or intellignece, etc."

While the overall gestaltic totality of a person cannot be overlooked, without specifics, it is just as likely that you are in love with the idea of love than you are with the person herself.

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TomPoo
05-23-2001, 04:25 AM
I don't know, you guys got real deep on this issue, but last night on "That 70's Show" Kelso did a pretty good job summing it up:

"Jackie, from the first time I saw you I knew I wanted to fool around with you... and then, after we did that, I still wanted to talk to you."

Now that is true love.

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girl germs
05-23-2001, 04:59 AM
"i want to give birth to your litter of puppies."

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JustJon
05-23-2001, 05:07 AM
" I like it when you "mow my lawn"

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JustJon
05-23-2001, 05:11 AM
"three nuts are better than none" *giggle*

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The Blowhard
05-23-2001, 06:45 AM
"Love is a tyrant sparing none"

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Pootertoot
05-23-2001, 07:54 AM
"Be my cum dumpster"

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HordeKing1
05-23-2001, 04:09 PM
I've been giving this some further thought - Love can be expressed as the knowledge that come what may, I'll always be there for you and that you will never have to stand alone.

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Pootertoot
05-23-2001, 06:53 PM
I've been giving this some further thought - Love can be expressed as the knowledge that come what may, I'll always be there for you and that you will never have to stand alone.


Unfortunately, this sentiment can change over time. No one remains the same throughout their entire life. So is love unconditional and all-encompassing, even if that person changes into someone that you wouldn't love if they were anyone else? That sounds like it's not healthy.

Or is it forcing yourself not to change in order to accomodate your partner? That doesn't sound healthy either.

So is it for life or for the moment? I'm confused now.

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HordeKing1
05-23-2001, 08:48 PM
POOTERTOOT - I was talking about eternal love, that grows as the people change. Much like the Horde Queen and myself (16 years this June 26)

Perhaps you heard the quote "The only constant is change". People continue to grow and change their whole life. Hopefully, the couple's growth is in similar directions and their bonds deepen.

You ask if love is unconditional. At the time that it is felt it is. Hopefully, it will stay that way.

BTW, a person should never change who they are or force themselves not to change.



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vegeta
05-24-2001, 03:48 AM
What about this:

"My Fiance from Niagra Falls ontario, Canda have hot sex together all the time."

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EffMeBoobs
05-24-2001, 02:27 PM
I want to bear your fruit, especially your banana.

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